COPING WITH SPOUSE BETRAYAL

Date: 12-03-2011 2:30 pm (14 years ago) | Author: CHATTY REAL
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ONE INSPIRED WRITER WROTE THAT" DURING THE END TIME, DIFFICULT TIME WILL BE HERE FOR PEOPLE WILL BE SELFISH, UNKIND, NOT APPRECIATING, DISLOYAL, BETRAYAL ETC" (2 TIMOTHY 3:1-5)

SPOUSE BETRAYAL HAS UNDOUBTEDLY BECOME RAMPANT WORLDWIDE, INFACT IT IS NOT DIFFICULT TO NOTE THAT OVER 60% OF RELATIONSHIP HAS SUFFERED BETRAYAL.

IF YOU ARE AWARE OF THE WORDS OF THAT INSPIRED WRITER YOU WILL NOT BE SHOCKED OVER BETRAYAL. TRUE MANY MARRIAGES AND RELATIONSHIPS HAVE SUFFERED REJECTION, ABANDONMENT, AND VARIOUS FORM OF ABUSE SO MUCH THAT SOME HAVE ZERO THEIR MIND OVER THOSE HURTFUL FEELING, THEREBY REJECTING MARRIAGE THINKING THAT THEY CANNOT COPE.

BUT THE TRUTH IS YOU CAN COPE!
MARRIAGE IS A GIFT FROM GOD TO MANKIND
REMEMBER THAT MARRIAGE HAVE A PRODUCER, PROVIDED YOU ARE READY TO HEED THE MANUAL INSTRUCTION OF THAT PRODUCER THAT IS THE ALMIGHTY GOD HIMSELF. YOU WILL COPE.

HEEDING THESE USEFUL TIPS WILL HELP YOU.

1.  RESPECT YOUR RELATIONSHIP EVEN IF YOUR SPOUSE DID NOT. (EPHESIANS 5: 21-29)
2.  NEVER LOOK DOWN ON YOURSELF BY BLAMING FOR NO ONE IS PERFECT
3. KNOW THAT YOU ARE NOT THE ONLY ONE WHO IS SUFFERING IT, EVEN JESUS WAS BETRAYED!
4. TAKE COMFORT FROM THOSE  WHO HAVE SUCESSFULLY OVERCOME THAT PROBLEM BY READING ABOUT THEM FOR EXAMPLE  IN THE BIBLE SAMSON WAS BETRAYED BY DELILAH HIS TRUSTED WIFE.
5. NEVER TRY TO PAY BACK AS YOU WILL HURT YOURSELF ON THE PROCESS! AND BY SO DOING YOU WILL NOT GIVE GOD A CHANCE TO ACT ON YOUR BEHALF.

IF YOU ARE SINGLE BUT CONTEMPLATING MARRIAGE, ASK YOURSELF THIS QUESTION:

* WHAT WILL I DO IF MY SPOUSE BETRAY ME IN ANYWAY?
(BECAUSE THE LOVABLE SPOUSE YOU KNOW TODAY MIGHT TURN OTHERWISE SOMEDAY)
FINDING ANSWER TO THIS QUESTION WILL PREPARE YOU FOR WHATEVER DISPOSITION YOUR RELATIONSHIP MIGHT CAUSE YOU.

Posted: at 12-03-2011 02:30 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
- harold634 at 12-03-2011 02:51 PM (14 years ago)
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POINT OF CORRECTION. DELILAH WASN'T SAMSON WIFE.
Posted: at 12-03-2011 02:51 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- harold634 at 12-03-2011 02:53 PM (14 years ago)
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THERE ARE DIFERENT KINDS OF BETRAYAL WITH DIFFERENT GRAVITY OF OFFENCE.
Posted: at 12-03-2011 02:53 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Youngstoriez at 12-03-2011 02:54 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: harold634 on 12-03-2011 02:51 PM
POINT OF CORRECTION. DELILAH WASN'T SAMSON WIFE.
....lol, anyhow e be, samson's girlfriend!!
Posted: at 12-03-2011 02:54 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Youngstoriez at 12-03-2011 02:55 PM (14 years ago)
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.....@poster, i like this!! Thnxxx
Posted: at 12-03-2011 02:55 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- HOPEA23 at 12-03-2011 03:22 PM (14 years ago)
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Posted: at 12-03-2011 03:22 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- princess4jifs at 12-03-2011 03:29 PM (14 years ago)
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THIS IS THE BEST POST THIS YEAR...BUT WAITOOOOOOOOOOOO SHALL WE CONTINUE IN SIN THAT GRACE MAY ABOUND.
Posted: at 12-03-2011 03:29 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- onyiis at 12-03-2011 03:32 PM (14 years ago)
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...........God forbid !!!

Posted: at 12-03-2011 03:32 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- xena15 at 12-03-2011 03:50 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: Youngstoriez on 12-03-2011 02:55 PM
.....@poster, i like this!! Thnxxx

Posted: at 12-03-2011 03:50 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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