![-]( "truenaija2") truenaija2 at 15-03-2011 04:40 PM (14 years ago)  (f) SUBMISSIVENESS OF A WOMAN TO A MAN IS NOT EARTHLY BORN BUT AN IN-BUILT IT HAS BEEN PROGRAMMED BY GOD IN THEM.BUT THEY CAN CHOOSE OTHERWISE IF THE MALE USES HIS PROWESS WRONGFULLY. THATS WHY WE HAVE LOTS OF FEMINIST EVERYWHERE.IT SEEMS LIKE THEIR MALE COUNTERPART HAVE BEEN TOO ARROGANT WITH ISSUES.I REALLY DONT BLAME SOME OF THEM THOUGH IT SEEMS NOBODY IS REALLY ADDRESSING SOME IF NOT MOST OF THE PUGNACIOUS ATTITUDE AND UNDIGNIFIED BEHAVIOUR EXHIBITED BY SOME OF MY MALEFOLKS.
HOWEVER,GOD HAS GIVEN MAN THE WILL POWER TO BEND ANYTHING TO ITS WILL THROUGH POSITIVE ATTITUDE.IF YOU WANT SUBMISSIVENESS FROM YOUR WOMAN ITS VERY SIMPLE.YOU HAVE TO SHOW HUMILITY,TRANSPARENCY,TOLERANCE,DEEP LEVEL OF UNDERSTANDING THAT WOMEN ARE VERY FRAGILE IN NATURE AND THEY SHOULD NOT BE TREATED LIKE MEN.DONT LET SOME OF THEIR MISHAPS,ATTITUDE TO TIP YOU OVER THE EDGE EASILY.YOU MUST BE ABLE TO TALK AND CORRECT THEM WITH LOVE EVEN WHEN THEY GO WRONG NO MATTER WHAT ACT LIKE YOU HAVE SEEN WORSE OF CHARACTER AND WRONG DOINGS FROM PEOPLE AND IN YOUR LIFE BEFORE.SHE WILL BE SHOCKED,IMPRESSED AND HAVE NO CHOICE BUT TO SUCCUMB WITH BEEN SUBMISSIVE TO YOU.SOMETIMES ASSUME HER FEMALE RESPONSIBILITIES BY GIVING HER A HELPING HAND.ITS REALLY NO BIG DEAL TRUST ME IT ISNT.
ON THE OTHER HAND.WOMEN SHOULD UNDERSTAND THAT MAN IS PROGRAMMED WITH A DOMINANT EGO IN NATURE.THEY WILL NEVER WILL OFF THEIR EGO,DIGNITY TO ANYTHING EASILY AT LEAST NOT TO A WOMAN.IF YOU WANT YOUR MAN'S LOVE COMPLETELY.THEN YOU BETTER REFLECT WITH YOUR ATTITUDE.........PROVERB CHAPTER 31 VS 10-31 SAYS IT ALL......YOU NEED TO KNOW WHAT TRIGGERS EMOTIONS IN MEN.ALWAYS ENCOURAGE YOUR MAN EVEN WHEN HE IS NOT UP TO THE TASK,ALWAYS CORRECT HIM WITH LOVE AND NEVER CHALLENGE HIM NO MATTER WHAT NOT EVEN IF HE IS WRONG.IF YOU DO SO IT UNVEILS ANGER IN HIM OR SHOULD I SAY THEM.THE BEST RESPONSE TO CORRECT HIM AND GET ALL YOUR LOVE FROM HIM IS TO BE TACTFUL,SUPPORTIVE AND UNDERSTANDING HIS FLAWS.
ur comment dey make more than sense   | Posted: at 15-03-2011 04:40 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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you can say that again..let them continue to listen to fake lives in the media.at the end they will blame their marriage on their Men...so pls no change for nobody as long as you're happy with things in your family.  | Posted: at 15-03-2011 04:40 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "harold634") harold634 at 15-03-2011 04:42 PM (14 years ago) (m) WE HAVE BASED THE UNDERSTANDING OF THE BIBLE TO BE LITTERALLY, THAT IS THE PROBLEM WE ARE FACING TODAY. AFTER THE FALL OF MAN, DECISIONS TAKEN WAS NOW LEFT FOR MAN ALONE. B4 THE TEN COMMANDMENT GOD'S PEOPLE WERE NOT LIVING RIGHT, AND THE BIBLE SAYS DEATH REIGN FROM ADAM TO MOSES, WHY NOT ADAM TO JESUS BECAUSE THERE WAS LAW GUIDING THEM. WHEN MOSES CAME, GOD GAVE THE TEN COMMANDMENT WHICH WAS ABLE TO STOP DEATH FROM REIGNING. B4 THE COMMANDMENT, ADULTERY, IDOL WORSHIPPING, INDISCRIMATE KILLINGS AMONGS GOD'S CHILDREN. AS FOR MARRIAGES, PHARISES ASK JESUS A QUESTION, MATTEW 19:1-9 IS IT LAWFUL FOR A MAN TO PUT AWAY HIS WIFE? JESUS ANSWER... HAVE YE NOT READ THAT HE WHICH MADE THEM AT THE BEGINING MADE THEM MALE AND FEMALE. JESUS DID NOT SAY HE MAKE THEM MALE AND FEMALES PLUS CONCUBINES. ISAIAH PROPHECY WILL COME TO PASS BECAUSE IT'S GOD'S WORD AND THE PROHERCY IS 4 THOSE PEOPLE THAT WILL NOT OBEY GOD'S WORD TO MARRY ONE WIFE. THOSE WOMEN THAT ARE LAYING HANDS ON MARRIED MEN ARE ALSO PART OF THE FUFILLMENT OF ISAIAH PROHERCY. IT IS LEFT 4 ANYBODY TO DECIDE AND OBEY'S GOD'S WORD OR CHOOSES THE DOOM SIDE OF IT. THE BIBLE WORDS ARE ALL SPIRITUAL WITH SPIRITUAL MEANINGS AND NOT CANAL WITH LITTERALLY MEANING. | Posted: at 15-03-2011 04:42 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "Dejavu") Dejavu at 15-03-2011 04:43 PM (14 years ago) (m) The only man that ever married me is the father of my twins and we are a good team in good and bad times.We do all together and weekends he is the cook here and cleans the kitchen, in the week i do that.None of us has a problem with that.My son is 22 and does his the cooking every time he comes home here, and never says thats a woman thing.He will laugh hearing u say that, because he likes his mother to rest a bit if he is around.I got a very good warm and understanding family, where both the men and the woman share all the house works, and nobody complains, and we are friends more then just a mother and dad and kids.
Thats the best home a family can have, trust me.Ur comment shows ur still a small girl, who needs to learn a lot.This has nothing to do with captains, i am with both my feet on ground and live modern but very happy.I have 3 men home, who love to do the cooking and the cleaning.lol
THUMPS UP. YOU'VE SPOKEN WELL. | Posted: at 15-03-2011 04:43 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "estilizo") estilizo at 15-03-2011 04:44 PM (14 years ago) (f) @flymamacita my twins are same age as u.They dont dare to talk to elders of my age this way.Thruenaija is right, its not good.
As for ur comment, nowhere in bible u can find that a woman is a slave to her man.so let men be slaves for us then.In my home its 50/50.
Well if u r d age of my mother, i am suprised bcos i neva heard my mother speak such RUBBISH!
U see there u go again talkin abt slave,, bein submissive has nottin to do with bein a slave....
If ur home works out like dat i am happy for u my dear, but i still follow d Bible, thank u hnmmmmmmmmmmmmmm  flymama,i get your point oooo,submission doesnt mean being a slave,understanding is the bottom line
all dis emancipation of women no do our world any gud,, women wanna b d same as men on ALL levels
how can dat b good?? na waoooo,God made men the head of the family now women wants to be the head too,can you imagin this...lmao
Anyway sha everybody can speak dia own  hnmmmmmm i don tire oooo
THE BEST WAY TO REVENGE IS TO FORGIVE..........FORGIVE THE TEARS OF A HURTFUL PAST. | Posted: at 15-03-2011 04:44 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "sobeit") sobeit at 15-03-2011 04:46 PM (14 years ago) (m) @flymamacita my twins are same age as u.They dont dare to talk to elders of my age this way.Thruenaija is right, its not good.
As for ur comment, nowhere in bible u can find that a woman is a slave to her man.so let men be slaves for us then.In my home its 50/50.
I love the 50-50 thing...no master, no servant.........both respect, both love don't even go there cuz its not healthy at all!!don't expect to see yourself in the same level with your Man. remember it could backfired pure truth,when a wife is trying to challenge her husband,that marriage will crash beyond repair. | Posted: at 15-03-2011 04:46 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "estilizo") estilizo at 15-03-2011 04:48 PM (14 years ago) (f) ok ooooo to your tent o isreal,am out of here.
THE BEST WAY TO REVENGE IS TO FORGIVE..........FORGIVE THE TEARS OF A HURTFUL PAST. | Posted: at 15-03-2011 04:48 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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WE HAVE BASED THE UNDERSTANDING OF THE BIBLE TO BE LITTERALLY, THAT IS THE PROBLEM WE ARE FACING TODAY. AFTER THE FALL OF MAN, DECISIONS TAKEN WAS NOW LEFT FOR MAN ALONE. B4 THE TEN COMMANDMENT GOD'S PEOPLE WERE NOT LIVING RIGHT, AND THE BIBLE SAYS DEATH REIGN FROM ADAM TO MOSES, WHY NOT ADAM TO JESUS BECAUSE THERE WAS LAW GUIDING THEM. WHEN MOSES CAME, GOD GAVE THE TEN COMMANDMENT WHICH WAS ABLE TO STOP DEATH FROM REIGNING. B4 THE COMMANDMENT, ADULTERY, IDOL WORSHIPPING, INDISCRIMATE KILLINGS AMONGS GOD'S CHILDREN. AS FOR MARRIAGES, PHARISES ASK JESUS A QUESTION, MATTEW 19:1-9 IS IT LAWFUL FOR A MAN TO PUT AWAY HIS WIFE? JESUS ANSWER... HAVE YE NOT READ THAT HE WHICH MADE THEM AT THE BEGINING MADE THEM MALE AND FEMALE. JESUS DID NOT SAY HE MAKE THEM MALE AND FEMALES PLUS CONCUBINES. ISAIAH PROPHECY WILL COME TO PASS BECAUSE IT'S GOD'S WORD AND THE PROHERCY IS 4 THOSE PEOPLE THAT WILL NOT OBEY GOD'S WORD TO MARRY ONE WIFE. THOSE WOMEN THAT ARE LAYING HANDS ON MARRIED MEN ARE ALSO PART OF THE FUFILLMENT OF ISAIAH PROHERCY. IT IS LEFT 4 ANYBODY TO DECIDE AND OBEY'S GOD'S WORD OR CHOOSES THE DOOM SIDE OF IT. THE BIBLE WORDS ARE ALL SPIRITUAL WITH SPIRITUAL MEANINGS AND NOT CANAL WITH LITTERALLY MEANING.
Good head on your shoulders!
Live and let live! | Posted: at 15-03-2011 04:48 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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Well for som ppl e go work, but then i question d man....... | Posted: at 15-03-2011 04:49 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "sobeit") sobeit at 15-03-2011 04:49 PM (14 years ago) (m) you can say that again..let them continue to listen to fake lives in the media.at the end they will blame their marriage on their Men...so pls no change for nobody as long as you're happy with things in your family. u welcome | Posted: at 15-03-2011 04:49 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "harold634") harold634 at 15-03-2011 04:50 PM (14 years ago) (m) @trolling at that time it was no adultery but now its adultery as incest was no sin and later became sin NB: i understand the bible very well
so this is what i have to say to you read Ex 21:10 and tell me what you come up with.....in the nearest future when 7 women will marry a single man,will you call that adultery? one more thing truenaija your hands are too short to box and I dont engage in cyber-warfare. POINT OF CORRECTION EX 21:10 DOES NOT TALK ABOUT 7 WOMEN MARRYING ONE MAN. IT IS ISAIAH 4:1 thanks for exposing him Harrold.....how's madam? MADAM IS VERY FINE. THANK U. u're welcome......pls greet her for me and tell her she should put her mind @ rest o, that no six women would come and join her in ur house......  THANK U 4 UR WORD. I WILL FULFILL MY VOW TO MY WIFE TILL THE CLOSE OF MY AGE AS GOD WISHES. | Posted: at 15-03-2011 04:50 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "truenaija2") truenaija2 at 15-03-2011 04:50 PM (14 years ago) (f) WE HAVE BASED THE UNDERSTANDING OF THE BIBLE TO BE LITTERALLY, THAT IS THE PROBLEM WE ARE FACING TODAY. AFTER THE FALL OF MAN, DECISIONS TAKEN WAS NOW LEFT FOR MAN ALONE. B4 THE TEN COMMANDMENT GOD'S PEOPLE WERE NOT LIVING RIGHT, AND THE BIBLE SAYS DEATH REIGN FROM ADAM TO MOSES, WHY NOT ADAM TO JESUS BECAUSE THERE WAS LAW GUIDING THEM. WHEN MOSES CAME, GOD GAVE THE TEN COMMANDMENT WHICH WAS ABLE TO STOP DEATH FROM REIGNING. B4 THE COMMANDMENT, ADULTERY, IDOL WORSHIPPING, INDISCRIMATE KILLINGS AMONGS GOD'S CHILDREN. AS FOR MARRIAGES, PHARISES ASK JESUS A QUESTION, MATTEW 19:1-9 IS IT LAWFUL FOR A MAN TO PUT AWAY HIS WIFE? JESUS ANSWER... HAVE YE NOT READ THAT HE WHICH MADE THEM AT THE BEGINING MADE THEM MALE AND FEMALE. JESUS DID NOT SAY HE MAKE THEM MALE AND FEMALES PLUS CONCUBINES. ISAIAH PROPHECY WILL COME TO PASS BECAUSE IT'S GOD'S WORD AND THE PROHERCY IS 4 THOSE PEOPLE THAT WILL NOT OBEY GOD'S WORD TO MARRY ONE WIFE. THOSE WOMEN THAT ARE LAYING HANDS ON MARRIED MEN ARE ALSO PART OF THE FUFILLMENT OF ISAIAH PROHERCY. IT IS LEFT 4 ANYBODY TO DECIDE AND OBEY'S GOD'S WORD OR CHOOSES THE DOOM SIDE OF IT. THE BIBLE WORDS ARE ALL SPIRITUAL WITH SPIRITUAL MEANINGS AND NOT CANAL WITH LITTERALLY MEANING.
Good head on your shoulders! yeah he knows whts up | Posted: at 15-03-2011 04:50 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Yup
Live and let live! | Posted: at 15-03-2011 04:51 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "sobeit") sobeit at 15-03-2011 04:53 PM (14 years ago) (m) i dont like people talking about the holy bible as if it were a mere toy dats y i respect muslims cos they dont play with thier holy book there is no where in the bible that fornication is right fornication is sin so please dfont associate sin with the bible boyfriend girlfriend is not recognised , so submissiveness dont have nothing to do with fornication wht is all dis sef
good talk, fornication is not included...that's the problem with some christain they like to twist the Bible and i dont undertsand why they twist the bible thats why i respect muslims With regards to my post, I referred to bfs as men ladies are about to get married to and not just sex-partners (ok, maybe I should have just said 'suitors' or fiance)....in terms of sex partners, I wouldn't of any rules....nothing concrete attaches them together so, the issue of submitting to the man may not rise as both have no stake in such relationships...... better way to say it. | Posted: at 15-03-2011 04:53 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "sobeit") sobeit at 15-03-2011 04:55 PM (14 years ago) (m) @DP dear.. If i may ask ...; what happened that women of nowadays can't be like the days of Sarah, Naomi, Mary etc .. those who stood tight by their men.. calling them My lord !! My Owner and so on... upon all the great qualities those ladies possess, Nowadays what we hear up and down is Boo, babyboi... imagine.. calling a grown up man baby boi .. kaii na waoo Submission is now a religious organization under water There you are dearie........when i thought about this topic last nite, I asked myself, what made Sarah call Abraham MY LORD?......what is lacking in today's relationships?..... But somehow, I said in my mind, it is becos unfaithfulness on the part of men has seriously increased. Just look at it, when Sarah couldnt have a baby of her own, she was the one that gave her mad Haggai to her husband.....but men of these days would have gone there on their own (they still 'colobi' their maids even when their wives have kids for them)........There is a decrease in true love and so decrease in submission..........and maybe becos women of today have become co-bread-winners (that is not an excuse though)...........brb
Nowadays no woman will ever suggest to the man to take the maid just like Sarah did.. and No man will ever be patience and still Love the wife even if she doesn't bear her child.. Only pressure from the Mother in-law been (Woman) will even drive the lady nuts, not to talk of the husband's sisters .. hehehehe another war without end !! they will nick name her Nwanyi aga .
Anyway.. one word for the Ladies, Make una no dey count or look for the man to Love you before you will start been submissive, No way !! Just like there was Adam before Eve, so shall it continue to be.. what ever you sow in your man is what he will produce back to u.. Men nowadays are been over cautious and agile ... they open eyes even when they're sleeping not like before... Samson was sleeping Delilah came and cut his hairs and set him up !! is not like that anymore. Na Men dey set Delilah up in this generation So sad my brother................. Quite pathetic what is pathetic and sad here  answer pls | Posted: at 15-03-2011 04:55 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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SBI, those situation in BLUE..............
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND! | Posted: at 15-03-2011 05:02 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "sobeit") sobeit at 15-03-2011 05:09 PM (14 years ago) (m) oh,ok..that's life for you.let me tell you,relationship/marriage is like a poker card,if you're lucky enough and chooses your cards well you WIN!! | Posted: at 15-03-2011 05:09 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Cheiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii, SBI, I no sabi the right cards ooo.....you go fit show me?.....help me with some expo abeg........... :'( :'( :'( :'(
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND! | Posted: at 15-03-2011 05:13 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "dirtykid") dirtykid at 15-03-2011 05:17 PM (14 years ago) (m) Meet him at Poker Junction 4 more clue
DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !! | Posted: at 15-03-2011 05:17 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "interpo77") interpo77 at 15-03-2011 05:18 PM (14 years ago) (m) well in our society today,marriage has being a thing of sociatal life--i want to marry cos ma friends re married, i want to ve boys/guls friends cos others re doing so. there re no more REAL reasons why we got into relationships our personal and dubious interests has turned marriage/relationship up side down, so who is to blaim? in the early days marriage, we were told that women do totaly submit to thier husband(ma lord- like sarah) and the men do so much loveb thier wife,s and called them oriaku,obidiya,oyiridiya etc but this days were every thing is up side down,since the world says what a man can do, a woman can do more so no more submission, real love etc--ok, theses days, get a babe as ur gal friend, every each is money,she need moeny and she love ur pocket not u, then u think that the dude doesnt know nothing, we must seperate grains from schaff-be matured enough into ur relationship, many men re ready to love thier wifes thats the reason he married her, but when a woman doesnt show submissive characters, ok ngwa nu, men re nock head and will never accept rubish. some bodey like me will never accept woman conditioning ma home, no way like i always say-must keep ma door wide open for her exit. be submissive to ur guy and see how he so careful and kinda he is, | Posted: at 15-03-2011 05:18 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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