To chip in a lil' somethin':Answer a fool according to his folly, then you can also ''Answer not a fool according to his folly lest he/she be wise in her own conceit.You just gat to know when to hold it or fold it, but without discretion you wont know when to speak or when not to speak,like the Preacher said A time to speak and a time to refrain from speaking.
Trolling what if it is the man that is meting out this silent treatment to a woman, what do you honestly advise the woman to do?.....abeg answer with your church mind
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND! | Posted: at 25-03-2011 03:10 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "blessedme") blessedme at 25-03-2011 03:37 PM (14 years ago)  (f)  | Posted: at 25-03-2011 03:37 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "sobeit") sobeit at 25-03-2011 03:40 PM (14 years ago) (m) Its really painful when you are being given a silent treatment
yap!!i could lose my cool if the situation at hand is a critical one. not what you think.. | Posted: at 25-03-2011 03:40 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "trolling") trolling at 25-03-2011 05:11 PM (14 years ago) (m) To chip in a lil' somethin':Answer a fool according to his folly, then you can also ''Answer not a fool according to his folly lest he/she be wise in her own conceit.You just gat to know when to hold it or fold it, but without discretion you wont know when to speak or when not to speak,like the Preacher said A time to speak and a time to refrain from speaking.
Trolling what if it is the man that is meting out this silent treatment to a woman, what do you honestly advise the woman to do?.....abeg answer with your church mind I need all the variables, why is the guy keeping silent, what did the woman do? but you know what I'm not gonna interfere if they are married because when a man and a woman is joined together,nobody, i repeat nobody is to interfere with them,the husband will deal with his family issues by himself,but I do know a lot of married women are fond of taking their matrimonial issues to their family or friends, but that shouldnt be the case, the only person that can do that is the Husband and he takes the issue to wise and married elders at the gate for counselling or to the Priest, but that is if the husband is a young man, but if he is an elder he would have the wisdom to deal wth his wife.E be like say you dey busybody too-much, you and this your friends wey dey tell yu about their husbands, make u go marry oo! aunty wa. | Posted: at 25-03-2011 05:11 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "esonu") esonu at 25-03-2011 05:20 PM (14 years ago) (m) A friend of mine told me this: ‘THE LOUD VOICE OF A MAN MAY SHOCK AND THREATEN A WOMAN, BUT HER SILENCE SENDS SHIVERS UP HIS SPINE’. In other words, most men are not comfortable when the woman gives them the mute treatment. How true is this?
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CHILDREN ARE BORN BUT MEN ARE MADE;THE GOLD THAT WILL BE REFINED MUST PASS THROUGH THE FURNACE.WORDS | Posted: at 25-03-2011 05:20 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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To chip in a lil' somethin':Answer a fool according to his folly, then you can also ''Answer not a fool according to his folly lest he/she be wise in her own conceit.You just gat to know when to hold it or fold it, but without discretion you wont know when to speak or when not to speak,like the Preacher said A time to speak and a time to refrain from speaking.
Trolling what if it is the man that is meting out this silent treatment to a woman, what do you honestly advise the woman to do?.....abeg answer with your church mind I need all the variables, why is the guy keeping silent, what did the woman do? but you know what I'm not gonna interfere if they are married because when a man and a woman is joined together,nobody, i repeat nobody is to interfere with them,the husband will deal with his family issues by himself,but I do know a lot of married women are fond of taking their matrimonial issues to their family or friends, but that shouldnt be the case, the only person that can do that is the Husband and he takes the issue to wise and married elders at the gate for counselling or to the Priest, but that is if the husband is a young man, but if he is an elder he would have the wisdom to deal wth his wife.E be like say you dey busybody too-much, you and this your friends wey dey tell yu about their husbands, make u go marry oo! aunty wa. No no, this no be married person.......and I dont do busy body as you put it.....rather people bring their problem to me becos I am a writer with my number published in a magazine.....so u understand now? The variables, just assume that the lady doesnt even know what her crime is and the man just started all these.........
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND! | Posted: at 25-03-2011 05:34 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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Its really painful when you are being given a silent treatment
yap!!i could lose my cool if the situation at hand is a critical one. not what you think.. hehehe, you dont know what I think for sure...........
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND! | Posted: at 25-03-2011 05:37 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "mazi") mazi at 25-03-2011 05:46 PM (14 years ago) (m) hmmm.....preferable to radio active constant parroting and nagging.
wot a more better time for ma bottle of guiness and ma loud music. | Posted: at 25-03-2011 05:46 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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hmmm.....preferable to radio active constant parroting and nagging.
wot a more better time for ma bottle of guiness and ma loud music.
So the silent treatment get to you then?........
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND! | Posted: at 25-03-2011 05:53 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "trolling") trolling at 25-03-2011 05:58 PM (14 years ago) (m) To chip in a lil' somethin':Answer a fool according to his folly, then you can also ''Answer not a fool according to his folly lest he/she be wise in her own conceit.You just gat to know when to hold it or fold it, but without discretion you wont know when to speak or when not to speak,like the Preacher said A time to speak and a time to refrain from speaking.
Trolling what if it is the man that is meting out this silent treatment to a woman, what do you honestly advise the woman to do?.....abeg answer with your church mind I need all the variables, why is the guy keeping silent, what did the woman do? but you know what I'm not gonna interfere if they are married because when a man and a woman is joined together,nobody, i repeat nobody is to interfere with them,the husband will deal with his family issues by himself,but I do know a lot of married women are fond of taking their matrimonial issues to their family or friends, but that shouldnt be the case, the only person that can do that is the Husband and he takes the issue to wise and married elders at the gate for counselling or to the Priest, but that is if the husband is a young man, but if he is an elder he would have the wisdom to deal wth his wife.E be like say you dey busybody too-much, you and this your friends wey dey tell yu about their husbands, make u go marry oo! aunty wa. No no, this no be married person.......and I dont do busy body as you put it.....rather people bring their problem to me becos I am a writer with my number published in a magazine.....so u understand now? The variables, just assume that the lady doesnt even know what her crime is and the man just started all these......... I dont think I want to give any counsel if they are not married......seeing that they are not married, may be they are in a "relationship" then she shouldnt sweat herself about him, nothing join or bond them together now, when I was out there I didnt sweat myself over a girl, bcuz we didn have anything in common but sex even when I travelled abroad I let am realise say I NEVER TOLD HER I WOULD MARRY HER WHEN SHE DEY PUT PRESSURE OF MARRYING HER ON ME. i don tell yu women say na una heart na hin una dey take think,una no dey hear. | Posted: at 25-03-2011 05:58 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "sobeit") sobeit at 25-03-2011 06:00 PM (14 years ago) (m) Its really painful when you are being given a silent treatment
yap!!i could lose my cool if the situation at hand is a critical one. not what you think.. hehehe, you dont know what I think for sure........... i know what u think.i don't lay hands on women.only animals does that. | Posted: at 25-03-2011 06:00 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "nickki") nickki at 26-03-2011 02:17 AM (14 years ago) (f) its very true. | Posted: at 26-03-2011 02:17 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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Silence is the best answer to a fool. But silence may tear a relationship apart. It is talking that promotes intimacy in any affair.....
Who Jah Blessed, No Man Cursed...... | Posted: at 26-03-2011 02:30 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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hmmm for me, i don't see that as anything, is better to keep silent when when i'm little upset than hearing from the other side, someone shouting or talking something, even if is meaningful but at that point is meaningless to me as long as i'm in a wrong mood, I can only listen well once my mood is deactivated.
So i don't see silent as any threat.
U hav a lot in common wit my guy, he reason d same way.....
Silence is even betta for him, make everytin cool down....... less words, betta d conversation  | Posted: at 26-03-2011 08:03 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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If i have an arguement, i talk too much bcos i want everytin to b solved at
dat same moment...If my man wud giv me d 'silent treatment' hmmm my mind will explode
bcos i will hav d feelin of bein ignored and as if he no care...
If its a long distance r/s and afta we had an arguement he decide not to call me anymore
and just leave me like dat, am rily gonna hav doubts if i shud break up wit him bcos to me it is a sign of
not bein matured or willing to make d r/s work out..... It is not advicable using dis 'treatment', it only
brings more problems. | Posted: at 26-03-2011 08:20 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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Its really painful when you are being given a silent treatment
yap!!i could lose my cool if the situation at hand is a critical one. not what you think.. hehehe, you dont know what I think for sure........... i know what u think.i don't lay hands on women.only animals does that. Your mind went far.........I see you as a gentleman, so I didnt think you would descend so low to beat a woman...........
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND! | Posted: at 26-03-2011 09:31 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "sobeit") sobeit at 26-03-2011 11:25 AM (14 years ago) (m) ok | Posted: at 26-03-2011 11:25 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "Kennee") Kennee at 26-03-2011 09:38 PM (14 years ago) (m) A friend of mine told me this: ‘THE LOUD VOICE OF A MAN MAY SHOCK AND THREATEN A WOMAN, BUT HER SILENCE SENDS SHIVERS UP HIS SPINE’. In other words, most men are not comfortable when the woman gives them the mute treatment. How true is this?
Becos She Get Evil Plans nai make her Quiet na  
WHEN YU DIE YU TAKE NOTHING WITH YU, SO PLS PUT A SMILE ON YUR NEIGHBOR'S FACE | Posted: at 26-03-2011 09:38 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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