I am a friend of both of my brother's wife and girlfriend..

My brother has a long time girlfriend here in Nigeria. Then he went to China to make to do business.  There he met a young lady named Elleine, a Filipino lady, very beautiful and sexy indeed as I saw her photos,sweet and  intelligent I could tell. She became my brother's girlfriend and they were living together in China. She has no idea that my brother has a girlfriend here in Nigeria. I have spoken to her many times over the phone and she was certainly taking good care of my brother, she was very faithful and honest to him. Doing all her best to make him happy, in fact my brother told me that she is a big help in his business. Anyway, We frequently talk on the phone and she has become a good friend of mine, I can feel a good and kind heart from her. She even sent me a present through my brother when he came home.

Now, when my brother went back to China, Ellaine found out about my brother's wife. She send me an sms, telling me that she was so hurt. And I do not know how to reply her. When my brother called me, he was complaining that Elleine was not the same again. She is always sad, and always nagging. One time I received an sms from Elleine she mistakenly sent to me, it was written in Filipino language but I used translator to understand and she said that she is terribly hurt, but it does not matter how my brother made him but how he made her smile again but everyday she feels hurt when she would hear my brother on the phone speaking his language.  From there she would knew that hi is speaking with his wife again. And what hurts her most is that when she is feeling sad and jealous, what she is expecting from my brother is understanding and comforting words, a big hug and not anger, asking her what is her problem.

Elleine is texting me, asking me for an advice, I do not know what to tell her. My brother loves her and don't wanna lose her. Please help.

Posted: at 17-04-2011 05:21 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie

@Princess dat was quite hostile dear, ......all the same,...ive been into relationship with asians, i know them too well, they are very sucidal when their heart bleed, u must tell ur brother to handle the gurl with care to avoid someone jumping from window one day and he will be answering some murder case,...

One thing i must ask is, does ur brothers wife know that the hubby has got another woman in china?,I know our women do not mind most time what there husband do overseas as long as it contributes to their well being, however just inform the Philipino gurl to hang on with ur bro even though she must be looking forward to marrying ur bro which is why she is so hurt...tell her to take her own personal decision on what she wanna do infact, but left for u, u will tell her to hang on with ur brother cause ur bro is gonna take good care of her.

I wasnt surprise when u said she is such a nice gurl, Philipino gurls are the most caring and trusted people on earth, when they fall inlove with u, ur in soup cause they love with all their heart,legs and head,imagine waking up one night so scared cause a gurl i was dating was watching me so close, her face almost touching mine and u know wat she said, that  she love to watch me sleep...lols,..their love is the very sincere one, the kind dat exsited long ago when apple and black berry were just fruits....chear the gurl up and  make her undastand, i know she will if she realy love ur bro...

Posted: at 17-04-2011 08:01 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

Poster u haveheard 4rm d right source, wat is left 4 u now is to make hay while d sun shines

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Posted: at 17-04-2011 01:58 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

Quite correct Asian women are the best lovers in the world, especially the Phillipinos. They can give up their live, especially through suicide if they're hurt.

This is a big problem, but your brother should GRADUALLY and CAREFULLY be withdrawing what makes her to be crazy for him, so that she can SLOWLY step out.

I HAVE NOT SEEN ANY OTHER RACE OR NATION WHERE U CAN FIND THE BEST LOVERS THAN THE PHILLIPINOS. They are honest, faithful, supportive, truly loving and ready to be there in good and in bad times than any other race on earth. 

Little advise, only try to be cooling her down, while your brother gradually removes himself, OR SHE WILL KILL HERSELF AND THE GOVERNMENT WILL HANG YOUR BROTHER on the charge for murder! They are not Nigeria where everything goes.

Posted: at 17-04-2011 04:19 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

@poster- ur broda was wrong, n by association so were u. Infact, i blame u more than ur bro- u use the word frn very loosely here which frankly am not feeling. Men cheat- no biggie but women r supposed to stick together- u better pray it doesnt happen to u, afterall karma is a bitch. U av betrayed the trust of two women the naija n the asian babes. U neva shud v gotten involved.

Now yur broda- dude doesnt love no one but himself. Cheating on the gal wudnt b soo bad if he is not acting like an arse about it. Kmt- n he has the audacity to claim he loves her- rubbish! Too many ppl r abusing the word love. Sooner or later, he will get his, just pray his arse dont get shot cuz u noe wat they say about a woman scorn (and her broda).

Ps- is naija woman wife of cuz sumtimes u refer to her as wife n oda tyms as gf

Posted: at 17-04-2011 04:43 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

....BRB too

Posted: at 17-04-2011 07:55 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

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Posted: at 17-04-2011 08:14 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

 

Posted: at 18-04-2011 10:21 AM (13 years ago) | Hero

Bm- how things? E don tay since i see u for around here

Posted: at 18-04-2011 01:50 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

as much as possible that ur bross love her very much and she is helpful,, if he is ready to marry her it wud b gud 4 ur bross 2 b trutful 2 her
and dont try 2 break her heath again ,,,,,,,,,,

Posted: at 18-04-2011 02:58 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming