Was I Wrong in my Decision (Page 7)

Quote from: sophiebaby on  4-05-2011 03:41 PM

Quote from: dirtykid on  4-05-2011 03:34 PM

Quote from: blessedme on  4-05-2011 02:51 PM

Quote from: Kennee on  4-05-2011 02:34 PM

Hhm! Interesting

Obviously yu gave him Reasons to not Trust yu

Yes, he Went too far and needs to be taught how to handle Relationships and Women, but one thing l know here, is dat yu were Selfish in the Relationship by not controlling the way yu relate with Outsiders

Just wondering ow i could be selfish when i dont even have female frnds not to talk of male frnds cos he actually stop ma females from coming around me all in d name dat they will spoil me.......and am still thinking bout d reasons i gave to him not to trust me....wen he is d on one cheating opposite my flat....under ma nose which i always forgive

i will be very grateful if u could highlight d reasons and ow selfish i could have been

That Highlighted words, is a very big sign from anyone cheating on his/her partner, He/she will never allow you to have friends around, becos he/she knows what he/she is doing, thinking those friends might inform you about the deeds.

You should have see the signs coming from the first steps.  How on earth could the guy think u will spoil with friends around u, You've been existing and having friends before you met him.. why is it now, that u will spoil, huh ?

jealousy go kill am die
make en go sidan for dutty,

Not only jealous, He's a cheat as well, if one will investigate well on him, He seems to have some hidden skeleton in his cupboard, But wait oo did i hear you say make he come sidan for me (dutty) No way.. make him go sidan for Supia  

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Posted: at 4-05-2011 03:56 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

make sure you have both bullet and boom proof as you go.....

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Posted: at 4-05-2011 03:58 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

make una free d babe i beg too much question for watin don already spoil

Posted: at 4-05-2011 03:59 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

I have said it before... Ble Ble got what attracts the Bee.... You see what i mean, The King Bee will never allow another to fly around you, not even to perceive the sweet smell of the scent... Chaii na waooo !! Ble ble don over do the guy turn his brain so teeey the guy dey wear jealous as cloth, is he working or student ? I wonder how this kain person go dey concentrate on what he's doing without you around ... hmmmm Nsogbu !!  

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Posted: at 4-05-2011 04:02 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

Sweety,i'd advice you to sit him down and have an open mind discussion with
him, bcos 5 yrs relationship for ladies is not a joke, let him know how disturb
you are on these issue, and warn him strictly that if these recalls again, you
might end the relationship bcos jealousy kills. Tell him you would like him
to trust you, and if there is any reason for him not to trust you, tell him to
open up and say it, if there is any reason then you have to apologise, if
not, ring the bell on his head that he just have to trust you, that without
him trusting you the relationship will never work even after getting marry
to him. To be honest with you, men are naturally jealous more than we
women, but if it"s too much extreme is another thing else. May God help
you as you make decision on these matter.

Posted: at 4-05-2011 04:07 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

Oh boi....i beg forget that brother he's not worth it....i've been there b4
And i know what its like to be trapped in that kind of relationship
The ealier the better 4 you ooo

Posted: at 4-05-2011 04:09 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

In every relationship what matter most is trust,,,,,without trust i don't think the relationship can work,,,,let me give you a good advise,,,,the earlier is the better "forget about him"and move on with your life before it is too late,,,,i have similar issue at hand wish i have make up ma mind that i have to wake up from the dream...gudluck.

Posted: at 4-05-2011 04:13 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie

Wow!! u babes really need lots of luck  

Posted: at 4-05-2011 04:15 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie

thnks sweetie

Posted: at 4-05-2011 04:17 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

thumps up for u gurl

Posted: at 4-05-2011 04:19 PM (13 years ago) | Hero