Who is responsible??

waiting patiently for experts 

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Posted: at 19-05-2011 03:58 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

Not causing pain.

There are certain situations in marriage that leave a larger opening for causing pain than others. One of these situations is when one spouse wants or needs something from the other spouse, but is not managing to get it. This can lead to feelings of "If she really cared about me, then" and "If he really loved me as much as he says he does, he wouldn't", and these thoughts are a direct road to saying words that inflict a lot of pain. However, very often, if the one making the request would do so in a pleasant manner to begin with, the response might be very different - or, at the very least, if the answer is still "no", it will be delivered in a manner that leaves no doubt in the requester's mind that if their spouse could have fulfilled the request, he/she would have.

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Posted: at 19-05-2011 04:13 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

it involve the both to come together and make the relationship work..

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Posted: at 19-05-2011 04:21 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

 

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Posted: at 19-05-2011 04:25 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

Yeah, it's the responsibility of both couples. One of them needs to be more tolerance than the other.

Posted: at 19-05-2011 04:34 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

true that....................ma relationship ends wen i want it to and starts wen i say so..

Posted: at 19-05-2011 04:38 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Are yu  

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Posted: at 19-05-2011 04:40 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

Its a wrong perceptn (evrytin w/m) l tink it takes 2 to tango

Posted: at 19-05-2011 04:43 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac