Advise Pls......What should they do? (Page 2)

Sophie I dont know ooo, I was not there......but what I understand is that the lady wants to be in control of the relationship.  I have seen her, she wants to be heard always and again she is her parents last born.......i don know if this is having an effect on how she is behaving......because i really do expect her to calm down, especially as she has no child to hold on to in this marriage.....She is at a disadvantage here if the marriage collapses.......

I don't forsee any future with these two. Good a thing that there is no children involved and that makes it much easier for them to go their separate ways. If you do anything that will bring them back, it might be temporary and might end up with one person dropping dead - then what will you do, spend a life blaming yourself??

What did her parents do to her while she wasnt married.. Was it just to pamper her to do rubbish and nonsense in a mans house?

I sat at my desk quietly doing my work when he walked in, his face betraying no emotion; he was no stranger.  He sat down and quickly went to the story.

The story was about his elder brother and his (elder brother's) wife.  They had a misunderstanding last night and the lady was about packing out for ever.  I remember intervening a couple of times to save their young marriage (two and half years old with no child).  According to the young man, the little misunderstanding was blown out of proportion by both parties and the lady later left the house that night around 11pm only to return an hour later.  I was made to understand that the lady said she is 'done' with the marriage and went ahead to place a kind of 'curse' saying: 'WHOEVER WOULD APOLOGISE WOULD DIE BY ACCIDENT'.  That was gross.

Now I dont want to be a party to any division of marriage and I know the potency of spoken words, especially negative ones, therefore am confused about what to tell this young couple.  They await my advice on this but I really dont know what to tell them right now.  So I have come to my ever helpful and brilliant NP members.  Please I need your help, what should this young man do?

Thanks for your help.

Aunty Divine and her marriage palava everytime>>>>>>>>

LOL, no be my fault oo....I dey my own ooo...abeg help me, wetin I go tell dem?

I sat at my desk quietly doing my work when he walked in, his face betraying no emotion; he was no stranger.  He sat down and quickly went to the story.

The story was about his elder brother and his (elder brother's) wife.  They had a misunderstanding last night and the lady was about packing out for ever.  I remember intervening a couple of times to save their young marriage (two and half years old with no child).  According to the young man, the little misunderstanding was blown out of proportion by both parties and the lady later left the house that night around 11pm only to return an hour later.  I was made to understand that the lady said she is 'done' with the marriage and went ahead to place a kind of 'curse' saying: 'WHOEVER WOULD APOLOGISE WOULD DIE BY ACCIDENT'.  That was gross.

Now I dont want to be a party to any division of marriage and I know the potency of spoken words, especially negative ones, therefore am confused about what to tell this young couple.  They await my advice on this but I really dont know what to tell them right now.  So I have come to my ever helpful and brilliant NP members.  Please I need your help, what should this young man do?

Thanks for your help.

Sophie no too vex ooo..........I just new facts now, that should explain her outburst......HE HIT HER when her mouth started running foul with so much painful words........even as I speak against hitting a woman, but do you think that was enough for her to place that cause and put her marriage on the line?