![-]( "123Sonia") 123Sonia at 15-06-2011 03:33 PM (13 years ago)  (f) passing, i no wan die by accident | Posted: at 15-06-2011 03:33 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Sophie no too vex ooo..........I just GOT new facts now, that should explain her outburst......HE HIT HER when her mouth started running foul with so much painful words........even as I speak against hitting a woman, but do you think that was enough for her to place that cause and put her marriage on the line?
Hmmmmmmmmmm..... Is that y she said such? I havent been able to get the lady on phone, but the man confirmed he hit her when she was saying terrible things........I guess the beating led her to say that, making it difficult for reconciliation
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND! | Posted: at 15-06-2011 03:34 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "Pepesy") Pepesy at 15-06-2011 03:35 PM (13 years ago) (f) wHAT EXACTLY PROMPTED HER TO UTTER SUCH WORDS?
is it cos of the child issue thats making her upset or want to quit?
Sophie I dont know ooo, I was not there......but what I understand is that the lady wants to be in control of the relationship. I have seen her, she wants to be heard always and again she is her parents last born.......i don know if this is having an effect on how she is behaving......because i really do expect her to calm down, especially as she has no child to hold on to in this marriage.....She is at a disadvantage here if the marriage collapses....... Wat is it about been the last born or only child sef.. she wan carry her pikin behaviour enter marriage.. she no no say marriage na another school? I don dey vex already sef..About the Pikin issue.. make d man carry her go hospital make two of dem do check up.. How can dey be married for two yrs now no issue.. what is she waiting for? how is her mom taking the issue of child? the man should be d one worried cos he has not yet had a child..from her.. and she wants to be heard.. If she wants to be heard..let her get pregnant,behave like a woman /wifey.. have a child for the man.. WETIN DEY WORRY HER SEF? I go just VEX now .. talk say make d man fasshy her..look for babe wey want someting better.. dis life isnt just about Flexing flexing flexing.. and enjoyment.. she think say she go young forever? Let her cool down and tink about her life Joor..she shouldnt be giving this poor man stress.. if not he might die b4 his tym(God forbid o) That wz so callous u never can tell the root of dis matter... its an online discussion even d poster may nt knw much about dis matter Nonchild bearing issue here could be frm either of them lf u check well,,,, someting is making her to grow wings DP,,,, if u're in terms wif d girl/lady,,,, talk to her and hear her out. If there's anyone to talk to here, l tink she's d one | Posted: at 15-06-2011 03:35 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "Sheree") Sheree at 15-06-2011 03:46 PM (13 years ago) (f) This is serious. Why would she place a curse like that? No matter what's happened. We are snared by the very words of our mouth. She need to confess and ask God for forgiveness. I think there are more to it than meets the eyes, whatever it is, its no excuse for her to place a curse. I really do hope everthing works out fine for them. | Posted: at 15-06-2011 03:46 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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wHAT EXACTLY PROMPTED HER TO UTTER SUCH WORDS?
is it cos of the child issue thats making her upset or want to quit?
Sophie I dont know ooo, I was not there......but what I understand is that the lady wants to be in control of the relationship. I have seen her, she wants to be heard always and again she is her parents last born.......i don know if this is having an effect on how she is behaving......because i really do expect her to calm down, especially as she has no child to hold on to in this marriage.....She is at a disadvantage here if the marriage collapses....... Wat is it about been the last born or only child sef.. she wan carry her pikin behaviour enter marriage.. she no no say marriage na another school? I don dey vex already sef..About the Pikin issue.. make d man carry her go hospital make two of dem do check up.. How can dey be married for two yrs now no issue.. what is she waiting for? how is her mom taking the issue of child? the man should be d one worried cos he has not yet had a child..from her.. and she wants to be heard.. If she wants to be heard..let her get pregnant,behave like a woman /wifey.. have a child for the man.. WETIN DEY WORRY HER SEF? I go just VEX now .. talk say make d man fasshy her..look for babe wey want someting better.. dis life isnt just about Flexing flexing flexing.. and enjoyment.. she think say she go young forever? Let her cool down and tink about her life Joor..she shouldnt be giving this poor man stress.. if not he might die b4 his tym(God forbid o) That wz so callous u never can tell the root of dis matter... its an online discussion even d poster may nt knw much about dis matter Nonchild bearing issue here could be frm either of them lf u check well,,,, someting is making her to grow wings DP,,,, if u're in terms wif d girl/lady,,,, talk to her and hear her out. If there's anyone to talk to here, l tink she's d one Thanks so much..........I cant reach her on phone because she has switched off.....but from the littler I know, she is the one wanting to end it.....of course there is a nearby orchestra playing for this dancing bird
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND! | Posted: at 15-06-2011 03:48 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "kebella") kebella at 15-06-2011 03:57 PM (13 years ago) (f) 
my name is kebella ........yu already no that  ...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!! | Posted: at 15-06-2011 03:57 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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passing, i no wan die by accident
Me too ooo..Make I follow you for back | Posted: at 15-06-2011 03:58 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "sophiebaby") sophiebaby at 15-06-2011 03:59 PM (13 years ago) (f) Let them go on break naaaaaaaaaaaaa
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :* | Posted: at 15-06-2011 03:59 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "Pepesy") Pepesy at 15-06-2011 04:00 PM (13 years ago) (f) wHAT EXACTLY PROMPTED HER TO UTTER SUCH WORDS?
is it cos of the child issue thats making her upset or want to quit?
Sophie I dont know ooo, I was not there......but what I understand is that the lady wants to be in control of the relationship. I have seen her, she wants to be heard always and again she is her parents last born.......i don know if this is having an effect on how she is behaving......because i really do expect her to calm down, especially as she has no child to hold on to in this marriage.....She is at a disadvantage here if the marriage collapses....... Wat is it about been the last born or only child sef.. she wan carry her pikin behaviour enter marriage.. she no no say marriage na another school? I don dey vex already sef..About the Pikin issue.. make d man carry her go hospital make two of dem do check up.. How can dey be married for two yrs now no issue.. what is she waiting for? how is her mom taking the issue of child? the man should be d one worried cos he has not yet had a child..from her.. and she wants to be heard.. If she wants to be heard..let her get pregnant,behave like a woman /wifey.. have a child for the man.. WETIN DEY WORRY HER SEF? I go just VEX now .. talk say make d man fasshy her..look for babe wey want someting better.. dis life isnt just about Flexing flexing flexing.. and enjoyment.. she think say she go young forever? Let her cool down and tink about her life Joor..she shouldnt be giving this poor man stress.. if not he might die b4 his tym(God forbid o) That wz so callous u never can tell the root of dis matter... its an online discussion even d poster may nt knw much about dis matter Nonchild bearing issue here could be frm either of them lf u check well,,,, someting is making her to grow wings DP,,,, if u're in terms wif d girl/lady,,,, talk to her and hear her out. If there's anyone to talk to here, l tink she's d one Thanks so much..........I cant reach her on phone because she has switched off.....but from the littler I know, she is the one wanting to end it.....of course there is a nearby orchestra playing for this dancing bird l c. l guess she should be given a break lets see hw it goes D hubby should try and be himself and watch hw d drama unfolds. it is well wif him | Posted: at 15-06-2011 04:00 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "50scent") 50scent at 15-06-2011 04:03 PM (13 years ago) (m) @Divine P Long time no see dear
RELATIONSHIP & ROMANCE FORUM; MINISTER FOR WOMEN AFFAIRS WELCOMES YOU  | Posted: at 15-06-2011 04:03 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "kebella") kebella at 15-06-2011 04:06 PM (13 years ago) (f) passing, i no wan die by accident
Me too ooo..Make I follow you for back waiting 4 me pls 
my name is kebella ........yu already no that ...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!! | Posted: at 15-06-2011 04:06 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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This is serious. Why would she place a curse like that? No matter what's happened. We are snared by the very words of our mouth. She need to confess and ask God for forgiveness. I think there are more to it than meets the eyes, whatever it is, its no excuse for her to place a curse. I really do hope everthing works out fine for them.
Thanks a lot......
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND! | Posted: at 15-06-2011 04:17 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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@ truenaija,, yes ooo a break wud do dem both gud,, e no make sense to
sit inside houx bein angry at each oda. | Posted: at 15-06-2011 08:17 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "Michro") Michro at 15-06-2011 08:25 PM (13 years ago) (m) Well, I write based on d action I'll take if am d man. Let d woman go. If d woman is his rightful wife, she will not go as far as that. A woman dat doesn't wish d husband nd thier marriage any good, she's worth nothin.
I am as gentle as a dove and as wise as a serpent | Posted: at 15-06-2011 08:25 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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I dey ok..thanks
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND! | Posted: at 16-06-2011 02:21 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "dirtykid") dirtykid at 16-06-2011 02:34 PM (13 years ago) (m) I sat at my desk quietly doing my work when he walked in, his face betraying no emotion; he was no stranger. He sat down and quickly went to the story.
The story was about his elder brother and his (elder brother's) wife. They had a misunderstanding last night and the lady was about packing out for ever. I remember intervening a couple of times to save their young marriage (two and half years old with no child). According to the young man, the little misunderstanding was blown out of proportion by both parties and the lady later left the house that night around 11pm only to return an hour later. I was made to understand that the lady said she is 'done' with the marriage and went ahead to place a kind of 'curse' saying: 'WHOEVER WOULD APOLOGISE WOULD DIE BY ACCIDENT'. That was gross.
Now I dont want to be a party to any division of marriage and I know the potency of spoken words, especially negative ones, therefore am confused about what to tell this young couple. They await my advice on this but I really dont know what to tell them right now. So I have come to my ever helpful and brilliant NP members. Please I need your help, what should this young man do?
Thanks for your help.
It looks like uncompleted building !! I mean the story !! To get things solved, You must get to the tap root of the problem !! what happened? what is the cause of the whole scenario, what brings in such curses in the middle of the night?? something must be going wrong somewhere.... Until Dirtykid knows, then he will know how to start and who to dirty first before another.
DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !! | Posted: at 16-06-2011 02:34 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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I sat at my desk quietly doing my work when he walked in, his face betraying no emotion; he was no stranger. He sat down and quickly went to the story.
The story was about his elder brother and his (elder brother's) wife. They had a misunderstanding last night and the lady was about packing out for ever. I remember intervening a couple of times to save their young marriage (two and half years old with no child). According to the young man, the little misunderstanding was blown out of proportion by both parties and the lady later left the house that night around 11pm only to return an hour later. I was made to understand that the lady said she is 'done' with the marriage and went ahead to place a kind of 'curse' saying: 'WHOEVER WOULD APOLOGISE WOULD DIE BY ACCIDENT'. That was gross.
Now I dont want to be a party to any division of marriage and I know the potency of spoken words, especially negative ones, therefore am confused about what to tell this young couple. They await my advice on this but I really dont know what to tell them right now. So I have come to my ever helpful and brilliant NP members. Please I need your help, what should this young man do?
Thanks for your help.
It looks like uncompleted building !! I mean the story !! To get things solved, You must get to the tap root of the problem !! what happened? what is the cause of the whole scenario, what brings in such curses in the middle of the night?? something must be going wrong somewhere.... Until Dirtykid knows, then he will know how to start and who to dirty first before another. DK, am trying oo.....problem is that the story seems one-sided even though the initial story came from a 3rd party.......I have been able to speak with the man but I cant reach the woman to get her side of the story. The husband's story: He left his shop to help a friend, that didnt go down well with the wife who complained about it all evening while they were at the shop. He got angry with her nagging and shouted at her, for that she left her own side of the shop and went home without telling anybody. He got home and found out she just went home to sleep, not to prepare food and the quarrel started again. He said she said so many hurtful things including the one in caps. That led to him hitting her. But I cant get her side of the story.
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND! | Posted: at 16-06-2011 02:42 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "harold634") harold634 at 16-06-2011 02:45 PM (13 years ago) (m) Haven't read the story of your article and some other comments of your's which says the woman wants 2 have the control of the marriage. This kind of marriage won't work because it has no foundation of solid rocks. 2yrs and half is 2 young 4 them to be having this kind of problem. From the content of your post, submission is the woman problem which is not going to ogur well 4 her. As 4 the negative curse that proceed out of her mouth can't harm those that are in christ if u know who u are. Give your best advice to them and give them some space of time and let them figure it out by themselvs or by the help of their families. | Posted: at 16-06-2011 02:45 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "dirtykid") dirtykid at 16-06-2011 02:51 PM (13 years ago) (m) I sat at my desk quietly doing my work when he walked in, his face betraying no emotion; he was no stranger. He sat down and quickly went to the story.
The story was about his elder brother and his (elder brother's) wife. They had a misunderstanding last night and the lady was about packing out for ever. I remember intervening a couple of times to save their young marriage (two and half years old with no child). According to the young man, the little misunderstanding was blown out of proportion by both parties and the lady later left the house that night around 11pm only to return an hour later. I was made to understand that the lady said she is 'done' with the marriage and went ahead to place a kind of 'curse' saying: 'WHOEVER WOULD APOLOGISE WOULD DIE BY ACCIDENT'. That was gross.
Now I dont want to be a party to any division of marriage and I know the potency of spoken words, especially negative ones, therefore am confused about what to tell this young couple. They await my advice on this but I really dont know what to tell them right now. So I have come to my ever helpful and brilliant NP members. Please I need your help, what should this young man do?
Thanks for your help.
It looks like uncompleted building !! I mean the story !! To get things solved, You must get to the tap root of the problem !! what happened? what is the cause of the whole scenario, what brings in such curses in the middle of the night?? something must be going wrong somewhere.... Until Dirtykid knows, then he will know how to start and who to dirty first before another. DK, am trying oo.....problem is that the story seems one-sided even though the initial story came from a 3rd party.......I have been able to speak with the man but I cant reach the woman to get her side of the story. The husband's story: He left his shop to help a friend, that didnt go down well with the wife who complained about it all evening while they were at the shop. He got angry with her nagging and shouted at her, for that she left her own side of the shop and went home without telling anybody. He got home and found out she just went home to sleep, not to prepare food and the quarrel started again. He said she said so many hurtful things including the one in caps. That led to him hitting her. But I cant get her side of the story. Serious issue is going on there, I believe this story is just beginning !! with this little sided, I'm feeling that the woman is not happy with the man,, something is wrong somewhere !! People just don't get mad over night !! is a thing that pile up slow and steady !
DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !! | Posted: at 16-06-2011 02:51 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "kebella") kebella at 16-06-2011 03:01 PM (13 years ago) (f) reading
my name is kebella ........yu already no that ...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!! | Posted: at 16-06-2011 03:01 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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