my Naija people.....and i need some serious answers/opinions to this situation..i mean real talk... *before you go any further to say/ask if it refers to me, no it doesnt....i already have a bf and juz tryna help a frend wih ur opinions...
My friend likes this guy..in fact she's told me she has had sex wit the guy..but d thing is they are not dating...but apparently she really does like him..they do stuff together like watching movies, playing games, eating, and talking..abt deir lives/past/future dreams....well i have seen dem 2gether and they really are kinda close...a problem is that HE WAS BANGING OTHER GIRLS FOR A WHILE WHEN HE WAS ALSO DOING HER!!!!! *can u imagine*..she knows this cos he just opened up and confessed/told her and also told her that he is stopping it (i dunno if he has stoppd)..and is making efforts to be with her.another thing is she is a very good cook..so i dunno if he is hanging arnd wiv her so he can hav sum home made meals...she told me and i adviced her that in order to know if he will stick around, let her cut out the cooking and sex and see if he will still hang around wiv her....i dunno if i said d right thing cos guys hav different mentalities ...so would y'all please give me ur opinion on dis or any other stategy she can use...*cos i can already picture her weeping and gettx depressed wen he leaves and i dont want her going thru that*
thx 4 d help pals...i appreciate
Posted: at 23-12-2008 12:38 AM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Just tell her 2 Stick 2 d Fun She's havin and not try and Spoil things
They Obviously like each otha. If she decides to take dat Advice yu gave her, she'll only hurt herself
If it's gonna grow in2 Luv, it'll happen. She shouldn't try 2 rush it
well said kennee.... @chi-babe...ur friend should let things develop naturally. she shouldn't try to impress d guy unnecessarily. love will always find a way.
Posted: at 23-12-2008 09:48 AM (16 years ago) | Hero
prencess at 23-12-2008 11:59 AM (16 years ago) (f)
oh how i wish i have a good advise for her any way let her stop all the things she's doing for him and watch his reaction if he stay that means he loves her but if he took a french leav the girl should 4get about him and take heart
Posted: at 23-12-2008 11:59 AM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
oh how i wish i have a good advise for her any way let her stop all the things she's doing for him and watch his reaction if he stay that means he loves her but if he took a french leav the girl should 4get about him and take heart
yep...i agree wit dat
2.0.
Posted: at 23-12-2008 01:06 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
oh how i wish i have a good advise for her any way let her stop all the things she's doing for him and watch his reaction if he stay that means he loves her but if he took a french leav the girl should 4get about him and take heart
Obviously yu are gettin the whole thing Wrong
WHEN YU DIE YU TAKE NOTHING WITH YU, SO PLS PUT A SMILE ON YUR NEIGHBOR'S FACE
Posted: at 24-12-2008 12:13 AM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
local say a way to a man heart is food..is bullshit..don't take that saying.. tell your friend to stay and still having fun with him and see if things will change or grow
LOVE COMES TO THOSE WHO BELIEVE IN IT...LET TALK ABOUT LOVE.
Posted: at 15-07-2011 10:21 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero