Many relationships fail because one party tries to overpower another, or demands too much. People in love tend to think that love will conquer all and their spouses will change the bad habits after marriage. Actually, this is not the case. There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that "It is easier to reshape a mountain or a river than a person's character."
It is not easy to change. Thus, having high expectation on changing the spouse character will cause disappointment and unpleasantness.
It would be less painful to change ourselves and lower our expectations.
Posted: at 18-10-2011 09:22 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Mega3 u r so right. The problem is not the love, is the parties involved. True love never dies but to make it work, once has to change. but we r not perfect, the things is that if u can tolerate some certain things about your spouse to b, then the sky is your limit, but if u can't then use a clean-wide exist doors. It means that there is somebody out there for u to tolerate. Thank u for postin it....Ohmega3 hahahahhahaha
Posted: at 18-10-2011 11:04 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
Mega3 u r so right. The problem is not the love, is the parties involved. True love never dies but to make it work, once has to change. but we r not perfect, the things is that if u can tolerate some certain things about your spouse to b, then the sky is your limit, but if u can't then use a clean-wide exist doors. It means that there is somebody out there for u to tolerate. Thank u for postin it....Ohmega3 hahahahhahaha
dont think "tolorance "is the word ,rather "compliment"
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing".
Posted: at 19-10-2011 01:02 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
MegaOneplusone at 19-10-2011 09:45 PM (13 years ago) (m)
Quote from: Beauti4 on 18-10-2011 11:04 PM
Mega3 u r so right. The problem is not the love, is the parties involved. True love never dies but to make it work, once has to change. but we r not perfect, the things is that if u can tolerate some certain things about your spouse to b, then the sky is your limit, but if u can't then use a clean-wide exist doors. It means that there is somebody out there for u to tolerate. Thank u for postin it....Ohmega3 hahahahhahaha
Just what i meant. some people actuly waiting for a nice man like there dad or woman like there mum, forgeting they are diffrent individual if we lean to adjust our wants in marriage, many weddings will take place. leaning how to live forever with his/her present person will do us more good than hoping on changing them. na so i think am
Posted: at 19-10-2011 09:45 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
giftmurphy at 20-10-2011 01:36 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: MegaOneplusone on 19-10-2011 09:45 PM
Quote from: Beauti4 on 18-10-2011 11:04 PM
Mega3 u r so right. The problem is not the love, is the parties involved. True love never dies but to make it work, once has to change. but we r not perfect, the things is that if u can tolerate some certain things about your spouse to b, then the sky is your limit, but if u can't then use a clean-wide exist doors. It means that there is somebody out there for u to tolerate. Thank u for postin it....Ohmega3 hahahahhahaha
Just what i meant. some people actuly waiting for a nice man like there dad or woman like there mum, forgeting they are diffrent individual if we lean to adjust our wants in marriage, many weddings will take place. leaning how to live forever with his/her present person will do us more good than hoping on changing them. na so i think am
lack of contentment.
Posted: at 20-10-2011 01:36 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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u r so right. The problem is not the love, is the parties involved. True love never dies but to make it work, once has to change. but we r not perfect, the things is that if u can tolerate some certain things about your spouse to b, then the sky is your limit, but if u can't then use a clean-wide exist doors. It means that there is somebody out there for u to tolerate. Thank u for postin it....Ohmega3 hahahahhahaha 
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