ur mum say no to a girl ur in luv wit wat would u do?

that is a tough one but if the two love eachother the man can put his foot down to his mom about his relatinship without being disrespectful and they can move on. When two people marry that creates a new family that needs to be built and when others interfer with that its just wrong. One has to follow their heart about who they choose to love and don't let nobody come between them. I cant stand to see people break up a loving union if that is what it is, its just not right. He should sit down and talk to his mom. On the other hand some people are after money so the mother might be just worried about her son and rightfully so, but sometimes peoples fears are unfounded and should not stop two people from loving oneanother. I think sometimes people need to gather a backbone and stand up for the one they claim they love. Now that is true love

Posted: at 11-01-2009 06:35 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming

Tread with caution. Pray about it, talk to her and try and see what reason she has for being an opposition to Ur desire. If she has nothing strong with evident backing or she sounds like she's just been mindlessly protective, u can just avoid her and stall to see if she changes her mind...
I don't know o, this thing is different from person to person. Wisdom is profitable to direct.

Posted: at 11-01-2009 06:52 PM (15 years ago) | Hero

well said.

Posted: at 11-01-2009 07:42 PM (15 years ago) | Hero

is an every day story.., when it cums to marriage u dnt xpect easy task..
d only thing u can do is to convience ur family dt she is d only woman in ur entire life..
prayer too is very important..

Posted: at 12-01-2009 12:09 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming

Simple...Despite that some mum's are so tough, but it has to be that way.

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Posted: at 12-01-2009 01:28 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero

If am a guy I will take my time and study that girl very well
because what an elderly person sits down to see if we young ones stand up
we will be unable to see it
so take ur time to know what ur mum saw in her that
makes her to refuse ur proposal to her

Posted: at 12-01-2009 03:50 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Ok oo

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Posted: at 12-01-2009 04:04 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero

Try and convince mumsy,if she insist on her decision,I advice you put it in prayers.She must give her consent before you go ahead with the marriage plans.

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Posted: at 12-01-2009 04:13 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming

 

Posted: at 12-01-2009 04:59 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac

sammy, free kennee
allow am make him do him thing

Posted: at 12-01-2009 08:55 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac