My Dear Pray abt it first, then know were d guy is from, his background, Family & also check if He has been Married b4 or have a Child. U have 2 ask Urself if he is d kind of Man U intend 2 spend d rest of Ur Life wit? But dont 4get 2 make Ur decision fast afta Ur findings cus time waits 4 no one. Posted: at 16-03-2012 10:48 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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Gud 2 knw.... about d nunu.............e dey workooo..........one aboki wey I knw b4 say na d nunu dey clear im eyes  .............so I believe say as e work 4 d aboki, e go work 4 any oda person.............not only u sef  That one sef dey... But u sure say u sef no need this nunu, this one wey u no gree see my yarn finish Posted: at 16-03-2012 10:52 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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there is nothing wrong with a guy proposing to a lady so fast in that way but my advice is that u accept if u really like him,then restrain your self from having sex with him so that u will know if that was his mission and that is if u have not done that several times already with him. then pray and ask GOD to reveal to u all that u will need to know about him that will cause u trouble in the future.ask questions too about his means of livelihood and watch his temperaments and reactions when he is provoked.all this can be done when u have already accepted his proposals and if u find anything that you doesn't like just log out and that is why u must play save as not to regret anything. with all this done with prayers God will reveal more to u depending on your level of faith. i have seen a lot of men proposing to a girl like that and getting married with them for real" needless of mentioning names here but the real love that leads to successful marriages is always the love at first sight type. u do not need to impress anybody with gifts or good manners before u can be worthy to be his woman or her man. real love is always and usually without any reason for loving that person. u should stop believing that u could only marry a man that u dated for a very long time as statistics shows that they doesn't always work that way. any marriage that is divine usually comes that way.in all this be careful because marriage is not a small affair and it comes or carries a lot of temptations with it. if you need more counseling on that talk to me on my mailbox.
Check ur inbox Posted: at 16-03-2012 10:52 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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Help me tell them ooooo, Some of them read but yet still comment on somefin else.
Mademoiselle, but u didn't read my commen to the end na. haba Posted: at 16-03-2012 11:00 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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MaxWilson at 16-03-2012 11:10 AM (13 years ago) (m) D only advice pple will giv u is only gonna b on d instances "if"" mayb" nd dat doesn't help at all..my advice is talk to him..telling him wat ur feelin ryt nw..I can propose 2a gurl in a week, its crazy I kw..bt sum of us dt nid 2wait for 2yrs or 9mnths 2do dat..its jst luv nd wen it comes..I mean wen u kw u ve found d ryt person..u jst go along. Babes jst follow ur instincts. Gdluck Posted: at 16-03-2012 11:10 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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1daful at 16-03-2012 11:36 AM (13 years ago) (f) Mademoiselle, but u didn't read my commen to the end na. haba
No be you i refer to.
1daful Is a Blessed Child.. Posted: at 16-03-2012 11:36 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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1daful at 16-03-2012 11:37 AM (13 years ago) (f) no........pay me upfront of even part payment cuz I need money to execute d job
Send ur acct details.
1daful Is a Blessed Child.. Posted: at 16-03-2012 11:37 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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"Justing wondering" nmmm.una no go kill us.Pls i nid a glass of water. Posted: at 16-03-2012 11:57 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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MRchina4u at 16-03-2012 12:52 PM (13 years ago) (m) WERE DID THE GUY COME FROM.. HSA.. I BO .. YOBA TELL US PLS.. THE U WILL HAVE MY ADVICE Posted: at 16-03-2012 12:52 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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onyiis at 16-03-2012 01:27 PM (13 years ago) (f) It should take more that 1 week to decide on such life-long decision like marriage. Even if he has made all inquiries about the you, it's a 2-way decision meaning both parties should make the decision. You are the only one who can write your future. If he cannot wait for you to study him, get to know him and get to build trust, frienship and love, then I honestly think he should take a walk
very correct
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing". Posted: at 16-03-2012 01:27 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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onyiis at 16-03-2012 01:36 PM (13 years ago) (f) The story is complicated dear, it depends on were u meet him? How long have u been communicating before now like phone calls and emails or wat? If u have had a long communication b4 seeing him in person then its ok,u don't need to date a man for 10 years to know him, but if its a one week stranger then that becomes suspicious, most guys will go any lenght just to get wat they want, a man proposed to 3 women in just two months, reasons yet unknown.
u have a good point
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing". Posted: at 16-03-2012 01:36 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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onyiis at 16-03-2012 01:39 PM (13 years ago) (f) hahahahahahahahaha are u feeling like amber rose or jenifa? Do u know how many ladies he's given engagement rings like urs? Fall for d trick oo, ur p**sy will pay for d ring lol
u could be truthfully blunt most times
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing". Posted: at 16-03-2012 01:39 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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onyiis at 16-03-2012 01:41 PM (13 years ago) (f) lucky yu!! hop his not impotent shaa
heheheheheeeeeeeeeeee !!!
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing". Posted: at 16-03-2012 01:41 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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mayor-jay at 16-03-2012 01:44 PM (13 years ago) (f) May be he doesnt want to loose you. Just follow your heart. Wish you the very best. Posted: at 16-03-2012 01:44 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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xter at 16-03-2012 01:50 PM (13 years ago) (m) I knew comments like this will actually come from ppl that talks carelessly and i was prepared so its not new.
sorry about yesterday's comment, I was drunk, really drunk. No vex eh
Here comes d Great King Xtervaganza  Posted: at 16-03-2012 01:50 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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xter at 16-03-2012 01:54 PM (13 years ago) (m) will u believe me if I said those words actually came from the beer bottle?
Here comes d Great King Xtervaganza  Posted: at 16-03-2012 01:54 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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onyiis at 16-03-2012 01:55 PM (13 years ago) (f) So na only impotency u dey ask me to go find out...what abt oda things?
that is more reason why u should take ur time to weigh what u are going into .Like some pals said that he could have taken his time to run some checks on u without u noticing, so take ur time to run some checks on him as well so u'll be in a better position to take unregratable dicicions . There are soo many things u need to know abaut ur partner that one week can never afford u the opportunity to know.Moreover , in this 1wk u said both of you might have just had the opportunity of seeing each other and discussing for only few hrs(unless u r already leaving together which i doubt).If he feels time is running out on him (maybe because of his age) , 6 months/1yr will not kill him.Then if he is staying far away from u(yankee) like some mentioned and he is getting set to go back , u can accept his ring if u want but that engagement ring does not give him the "right of access" to ur kingdom.Mind u that an engagement can be called off at any point in time during the courtship. So my dear dont ever hurry into marriage as u will definitely hurry out if u do !!
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing". Posted: at 16-03-2012 01:55 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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onyiis at 16-03-2012 01:56 PM (13 years ago) (f) will u believe me if I said those words actually came from the beer bottle?
not at all, these are facts that are glarring unless we dont want to admit the truth
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing". Posted: at 16-03-2012 01:56 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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No be you i refer to.
Ok ma Posted: at 16-03-2012 02:05 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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onyiis at 16-03-2012 02:11 PM (13 years ago) (f) Dat na d first tin u dey worry abt  but knowing that is very important
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing". Posted: at 16-03-2012 02:11 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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