My wife had an affair with her old boyfriend- can I still trust her?

Date: 26-05-2012 11:51 am (12 years ago) | Author: aadex kebella
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- at 26-05-2012 11:51 AM (12 years ago)
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My wife lied and lied about what had happened with an old boyfriend from her  schooldays. In the end it was her lover’s wife who told me it was a  full-blown affair.

I’m 48 and my wife’s 46. We’ve just celebrated our silver wedding anniversary  and had booked to go away for a week. The day before we were due to leave my  wife rang me at work in tears. She said I needed to come home but didn’t say  why. I rushed home and she told me someone had put something on Facebook saying  she’d had an affair. She said it wasn’t true but when I asked her if she’d  been seeing someone, she said she’d met a guy for dinner. He was an ex-boyfriend from years ago. She said they’d only had dinner,  nothing more. She said she’d never do anything to hurt me or the kids – we’ve two teenage girls. We went on holiday that night and had a good time  until the last night.



I couldn’t sleep. I kept wondering whether she was telling me the truth. The  next morning I asked her if she’d slept with this guy and she admitted she  had but just the once. I broke down in tears. My wife received a text from her ex’s wife as soon as we got back home. She  wanted to speak to my wife but my wife said she couldn’t face it so I rang  her. She told me they’d been having an affair for six months starting last  October and asked that my wife leave her husband alone.

My wife still tried to deny it at first but I cried and pleaded with her to  be honest. We’ve talked, argued and cried but I still find it hard because  I’m sure she hasn’t told me everything. She started going out “with a  girlfriend” on Wednesday nights more than a year ago and that is when I now  know she accepted this guy on Facebook.

I am heartbroken. It’s put a huge strain on our marriage.

Posted: at 26-05-2012 11:51 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
- ajanni at 26-05-2012 01:06 PM (12 years ago)
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haaaahhaahhaaahha
Posted: at 26-05-2012 01:06 PM (12 years ago) | Grande Master
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- 50scent at 26-05-2012 02:00 PM (12 years ago)
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why laughing
Posted: at 26-05-2012 02:00 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- princess5 at 26-05-2012 02:00 PM (12 years ago)
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Hmmmmmm this is really bad,and i can feel the pains in ur heart mr, but i just want you to know that everything will b ok.

But let me say this,if u truely love ur wife,u can forgive her and carry on with your lives. Am not saying what she has done to you is right,no! She doesn't even have justifications for her actions. All you need now is help from above and divine guidiance.

Pray and ask d Lord for guidiance and direction,then you will find happiness again.

Wishing you all the best and all the strenght!
Posted: at 26-05-2012 02:00 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- jossy4reall at 26-05-2012 02:22 PM (12 years ago)
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50kobo so ur wife na maradona........u ar finished
Posted: at 26-05-2012 02:22 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- 50scent at 26-05-2012 02:31 PM (12 years ago)
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 Angry Angry Angry Angry Angry Angry Angry Angry
Posted: at 26-05-2012 02:31 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- ajanni at 26-05-2012 03:04 PM (12 years ago)
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 Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes
Posted: at 26-05-2012 03:04 PM (12 years ago) | Grande Master
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- ajanni at 26-05-2012 03:04 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: 50scent on 26-05-2012 02:00 PM
why laughing
ask me once more na
Posted: at 26-05-2012 03:04 PM (12 years ago) | Grande Master
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- bittersweet at 26-05-2012 04:04 PM (12 years ago)
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Trust again? NO!
Posted: at 26-05-2012 04:04 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- 50scent at 26-05-2012 04:25 PM (12 years ago)
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ajanni warn ur self
Posted: at 26-05-2012 04:25 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- 50scent at 26-05-2012 04:38 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 26-05-2012 04:04 PM
Trust again? NO!

How are you doing dear long time  Cool
Posted: at 26-05-2012 04:38 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- bittersweet at 26-05-2012 04:51 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: 50scent on 26-05-2012 04:38 PM
How are you doing dear long time  Cool

Heya!I'm fine  Smiley You?
Posted: at 26-05-2012 04:51 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- 50scent at 26-05-2012 04:55 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 26-05-2012 04:51 PM
Heya!I'm fine  Smiley You?

Im fine too , its been awhile where have u been BS  Embarrassed
Posted: at 26-05-2012 04:55 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- bittersweet at 26-05-2012 04:58 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: 50scent on 26-05-2012 04:55 PM
Im fine too , its been awhile where have u been BS  Embarrassed

Too little time...too many things to do na,but I'm here  now  Wink
Posted: at 26-05-2012 04:58 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- 50scent at 26-05-2012 05:07 PM (12 years ago)
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Thats awesome BS, is it work palava Huh? Or other things  Cool
Posted: at 26-05-2012 05:07 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- bittersweet at 26-05-2012 05:08 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: 50scent on 26-05-2012 05:07 PM
Thats awesome BS, is it work palava Huh? Or other things  Cool

Everything! Wink
Posted: at 26-05-2012 05:08 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- 50scent at 26-05-2012 05:21 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 26-05-2012 05:08 PM

Everything! Wink

very well, take good care...  Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy
Posted: at 26-05-2012 05:21 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- bittersweet at 26-05-2012 05:35 PM (12 years ago)
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Always! Wink
Posted: at 26-05-2012 05:35 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- 50scent at 26-05-2012 06:12 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 26-05-2012 05:35 PM
Always! Wink


 Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy thats BS for u, strong woman i hate ur absence  Sad
Posted: at 26-05-2012 06:12 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- denmal at 26-05-2012 09:28 PM (12 years ago)
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na u sabi
Posted: at 26-05-2012 09:28 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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