What are the primary traits women want in men? Intelligence, physique, selflessness, faithfulness, financially stability? Someone who is a good communicator, career/goal oriented, loving, respectful, family-oriented, honest, physically attractive, God-fearing, and with a sense of humor? Many women create a certain type of perfect image for a mate that we have to meet, fall in love with, and marry. But more often than not, the person we have designed in our imagination may not be of our own image; meaning that the traits and characteristics people desire in someone else may not be reflected within the person who created the image. Most women have an idea of the type of man she wants to spend her life with. We know what we want him to look like, dress like, sound like, and act like. We even know what we want him to have in his bank accounts.
This simple, yet profound definition made one realize that your focus for a mate and relationship was all about you and having your needs met. It also realized that you must be a reflection of who he is in order for the relationship to be balanced, for it to prosper and for both of the needs to be met. Before you begin to search and even diligently praying for whom you have created in your minds, we have to ask ourselves if the things we want are realistic, and if the things we want in someone else exist within. Are you a reflection of the man you pray for? Would you want a relationship with yourself?
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Posted: at 18-06-2012 06:36 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
mizcollins1 at 18-06-2012 07:44 PM (12 years ago) (f)
IN THIS WORLD THERE IS NO PERFECT MAN OR WOMAN!! AND WHO SO EVER THINK THAT IS IN DREAM LAND!...SO I PERSONALLY SET THE GOAL'S I NEED IN A MAN SIMPLE AND KNOW WHAT HE GIVES ME IS WHAT HE GETS IN RETURN! SO IN MY CASE YES I AM A MATCH FOR THE IDEAL MAN I PRAYED FOR!!
Posted: at 18-06-2012 07:44 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Well, we ladies really needs to check within ourselves to see if our attributes concerning marriage are very/less important. Sometimes, we may want to have the above lists but at the end we do not majored up to them.
We also needs to know that a man must always be himself. When a man finally meet his spouse to b: He will see changes in himself(Focus, laughter, joy, peace, playfulness, crazy feelings, and feels more manly). A man knows if you r his. The best thing is to write down 10 most importance things about yourself. Then, you should know 10 most important things from your man's side. So
For example: An introvert matched well with Extrovert 86% of couples If u want a nice handsome guy and his stomach is big; it doesn't mean that he is not your kind. If u love kids what would u wants him to love? You may not like pork, but he likes it!
SO YeS! My spouse must possess all the attributes that I can support him with. Can't marry u if u phyuk inside anus!!! ShIt
Posted: at 18-06-2012 09:31 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
There is no such thing as 'IDEAL MATCH,' for relationship to work, both needs Patience and tolerance because in life, humans are like leaves through a gutter drain that rushes into the eternal land of gloom never knowing what dangers that lurks around the next bend.
Posted: at 19-06-2012 08:44 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
ZION7ZION at 19-06-2012 08:52 AM (12 years ago) (m)
Quote from: Neglito on 19-06-2012 08:44 AM
There is no such thing as 'IDEAL MATCH,' for relationship to work, both needs Patience and tolerance because in life, humans are like leaves through a gutter drain that rushes into the eternal land of gloom never knowing what dangers that lurks around the next bend.
good talk Bros
Posted: at 19-06-2012 08:52 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
IN THIS WORLD THERE IS NO PERFECT MAN OR WOMAN!! AND WHO SO EVER THINK THAT IS IN DREAM LAND!...SO I PERSONALLY SET THE GOAL'S I NEED IN A MAN SIMPLE AND KNOW WHAT HE GIVES ME IS WHAT HE GETS IN RETURN! SO IN MY CASE YES I AM A MATCH FOR THE IDEAL MAN I PRAYED FOR!!
Babe, good talk dia. Dont mind this women affairs minister, u don come again abi?
Posted: at 19-06-2012 11:14 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
As a man,i married the perfect match for me. I never imagined getting married,the shape,size and unnecessary imaginary details of the woman. I attracted the ideal match meant for me. She is beautiful and possess more that what i would wish for.
I think as humans,Nigerians,we can learn from the laws of attraction.It is a shame that instead we have been taught my religious teachers to always pray to an imaginary God who doesn't solve any problem. The laws of attraction if applied by more Nigerians can help us attract good government,economy,society,friends and life partners.
Posted: at 19-06-2012 11:45 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
but nice piece 
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