I hate it when men demeaning women (Page 10)

Published On: October 30, 2012, 1:30 pm
Author: INDEPENDENT WOMAN
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-- HOPEA23 (f) at 31-10-2012 11:51AM
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 31-10-2012 11:43AM
u really get tym to dey reply everybody
no not every body.. Just some of dem...that are referring to women as nothing ...what do he mean by manage y'all ?

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-- omegachinedu (m) at 31-10-2012 11:58AM
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Quote from: HOPEA23 on 30-10-2012 05:44PM
I'm not expecting anything more than insults from men..because they know the truth and it hurt..anyway men (some of y'all) should learn how to respect women...if you want to be treated like a king, y'all are Wink Wink ;)treat the women first like the queens they are... Tongue
What you mean by respect woman,or woman to respect herself,i don,t understand you.woman have to respect herself before man will respect her..... Angry
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-- HOPEA23 (f) at 31-10-2012 12:10PM
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Quote from: HOPEA23 on 31-10-2012 11:49AM
lemme ask you question, first of all this is not about me, like an example I just used for one dude, how about a young girl who was pressed into having sex, she later agree and have it ....at the end that same girl that was pressed into having sex will be call names. Like hoe or whatever. And the dude won't get name calls......you have to really get my question right first before commenting...what do u mean when you carried yourself like a hoe you will get names like hoe? Listen up, for the fact that some girls dress the way they dress....half unclad, it doesn't mean that they are slut.....if a woman is confident about herself, she dresses the way she wants to and carry herself the way she wants to...women too..stereotyping their fellow women..very bad.
i meant pressured

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-- sophiebaby (f) at 31-10-2012 12:13PM
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Quote from: HOPEA23 on 31-10-2012 11:49AM
lemme ask you question, first of all this is not about me, like an example I just used for one dude, how about a young girl who was pressed into having sex, she later agree and have it ....at the end that same girl that was pressed into having sex will be call names. Like hoe or whatever. And the dude won't get name calls......you have to really get my question right first before commenting...what do u mean when you carried yourself like a hoe you will get names like hoe? Listen up, for the fact that some girls dress the way they dress....half unclad, it doesn't mean that they are slut.....if a woman is confident about herself, she dresses the way she wants to and carry herself the way she wants to...women too..stereotyping their fellow women..very bad.

Hopea! i understand u and i fully know where u r driving to.. First of all.. why would a woman dress Naked/half naked if she isnt asking for sex.. its not proper.. i have heard men call ladies who dresses naked slut,ashawo, this and dat.. for her to dress like that,she deserves such name.. if ur talking about dressing.. there are importance of a way in which a woman dresses.. It is indecent because women's bodies are more sensual, so women wore dresses to cover up more. According to physiology, women are centrifugal (fleeing away from the center) in their perspective, seeing things from within themselves, outwardly. Men on the other hand are centripetal (seeking from the center) in their perspective, seeing things from without themselves, inwardly. In other words women tend to be the show'er and men tend to be the looker. This is the reason that women's bodies are more sensual than a man's. Their bodies are made to be appealing, so that they can attract a mate (who is designed to look from afar). That is why there is more of an area on women that is semi-private than there is on men. yes Women are by nature designed to be more sensual due to the centripetal...It is in the qualities of character of self-respect and trustworthiness that our value to our friends and community lies..Self respect doesn't just demand respect , It encourages others to respect themselves.

On sunday morning i was watching CNN .. a muslim boy said.. the difference btw muslims and christian is.. our christian girls/ladies dress half naked ,showing their bum bum, while dey demselves cover themselves from head to toe .. i was shocked and ashamed at same time..

Well, back to ur post.. like i said earlier, when a woman Carries herself like a Queen she'll definitely get her King. and if  she Carries herself as a hoe she'll as well get wat she wants(names calling).  Don't ever lower your standards for anyone. Self respect is everything... Give it to yourself and others will see that you won't settle for anything less...Self-respect should be NO:1 on a woman's list of values. We are Humans, lets act like one..

thou it isnt fair for a man to beat up a woman.. NO REAL MAN BEATS UP A WOMAN.. but come o Hope.. did ur man beat u up?  Tongue na Question i ask o  Grin no vex

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-- sophiebaby (f) at 31-10-2012 12:17PM
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Quote from: omegachinedu on 31-10-2012 11:58AM
What you mean by respect woman,or woman to respect herself,i don,t understand you.woman have to respect herself before man will respect her..... Angry

it is only wen a woman respects herself that she'll deserve one.  Cool

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-- joy201016 (f) at 31-10-2012 12:20PM
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Quote from: Tyahaya on 30-10-2012 07:46PM
Come to think of it.I'm yet to comment on you guys,here is my comment,"women are the in concluded, hardest, toughest, manipulative, annoying, pain in the ass, do or die,till death do us apart, complicated equation for men" thanx for the opportunity and you are always welcome to ask more question.   Smiley

U just said NOTHING, U wld hv as well not commented.
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-- joy201016 (f) at 31-10-2012 12:23PM
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Quote from: rull5432 on 30-10-2012 08:06PM
You have spoken well, did u give it a thought.............the women in question, do they respect & regard themselves? Africans are not Europeans, we have culture and morals imbibed in our society but when a woman try to copy a foreign way of life by exposing her body, not taking note of her utterances in 'public'..............it may call for reproach which you may note as being disrespectful.

what abt d ones dat dont expose dere bodies as u said and do all sorts, DO U RESPECT DEM & TREAT DEM RIGHT?
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-- joy201016 (f) at 31-10-2012 12:24PM
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Quote from: ochekawu1 on 30-10-2012 07:36PM
It's only responsible for responsible men to respect ladies (Women).... Women are the pride of women, any man that does not respect women in my own opinion is less than a man... I mean he lacks a paramount attribute of a man. Religion, culture, civilization etc all encourage men to respect not because they are faultless but because it's meant to be so .... Any man that uses abusive words on women especially regarding their feminine parts is totally uncultured and has no respect even for his mother ...... It's natural to respect ladies even without attachment or whatsoever..... My  two sisters happen to be my immediate juniors but i have no difficulties in respecting them as though they are my seniors and that i have seen with few of my friends.... Having said that, i must say that ladies should do their best to respect their-selves and respect men too hence to a large extent respects are earned and not solicited for............

I respect u Bro 4dis comment....Its speaks volume of u already...THANKS
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-- Greggiyke (m) at 31-10-2012 12:30PM
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 30-10-2012 05:54PM
copied? if i copy post e nor mean sey i go copy comment naaa.. abi dis ur post u copy am from somewhere else? dat aside Hope..Why wont the men demeaning you like u said? ..Maka tell u.... any Woman Who seek to be equal with a man lacks Ambition.. Mark am.! and you'll stop complaining about men, wen u start getting better taste in them/Him  Grin

YOU are just one in a million "Sophiebaby". That's all I can say for now!

I love and respect women a lot.
But why is it that when you respect women more they misbehave the more?
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-- sophiebaby (f) at 31-10-2012 12:44PM
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Quote from: Greggiyke on 31-10-2012 12:30PM
YOU are just one in a million "Sophiebaby". That's all I can say for now!

I love and respect women a lot.
But why is it that when you respect women more they misbehave the more?


we women sometimes we weaken a man..A woman should soften and  not weaken him. when we women quickly open our legs for a man, and even widen it for him to put it deeper..what do we xpect? Grin

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-- HOPEA23 (f) at 31-10-2012 12:48PM
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@sophiebaby...a man who know hiw to respect a woman will respect all ..a man that does not will not respect non
Women shouldn't be judge with the ways they dress...a woman like I said who dresses with the ways she feels like is because she is confident about her body...there are some women that dress half naked but with good charater..women should be respected no matter what...for your question....hell no, my sweet lovely man, is a very responsible man....his mother raised him right..and that why we are still together til today...and I will always love him..he does not know how to raise his voice on a woman talkless to beat...he is to grown for that...

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-- sophiebaby (f) at 31-10-2012 12:56PM
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Quote from: HOPEA23 on 31-10-2012 12:48PM
@sophiebaby...a man who know hiw to respect a woman will respect all ..a man that does not will not respect non
Women shouldn't be judge with the ways they dress...a woman like I said who dresses with the ways she feels like is because she is confident about her body...there are some women that dress half unclad but with good charater..women should be respected no matter what...for your question....hell no, my sweet lovely man, is a very responsible man....his mother raised him right..and that why we are still together til today...and I will always love him..he does not know how to raise his voice on a woman talkless to beat...he is to grown for that...

then why are u bothering yourself with it here on Naijapals? let them be. this is a social network..everyone has his/her own opinion..not everyone here is matured...the way u think is not the same i will..some thing are supposed to be left to lay...if  a woman dresses half naked what is she sending out to the men looking at her even if shes confident and ok in dat dress..do u know that,some women really do not know how to dress, where to wear a particular dress to, and even when to put it on....

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-- dlimelite (f) at 31-10-2012 12:57PM
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 30-10-2012 05:54PM
copied? if i copy post e nor mean sey i go copy comment naaa.. abi dis ur post u copy am from somewhere else? dat aside Hope..Why wont the men demeaning you like u said? ..Maka tell u.... any Woman Who seek to be equal with a man lacks Ambition.. Mark am.! and you'll stop complaining about men, wen u start getting better taste in them/Him  Grin
What about you? You also copy & paste stuff thats's from online written by someone else. 99% of your posts, blogs, and some comments are copy & paste. So don't play double standards here. That's what you call hypocrisy. 
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-- sophiebaby (f) at 31-10-2012 01:00PM
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Quote from: dlimelite on 31-10-2012 12:57PM
What about you? You also copy & paste stuff thats's from online written by someone else. 99% of your posts, blogs, and some comments are copy & paste. So don't play double standards here. That's what you call hypocrisy. 

double standards? copy comment? u really are sick. amybe u go come join me for yaba left

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-- HOPEA23 (f) at 31-10-2012 01:06PM
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 31-10-2012 12:56PM
then why are u bothering yourself with it here on Naijapals? let them be. this is a social network..everyone has his/her own opinion..not everyone here is matured...the way u think is not the same i will..some thing are supposed to be left to lay...if  a woman dresses half unclad what is she sending out to the men looking at her even if shes confident and ok in dat dress..do u know that,some women really do not know how to dress, where to wear a particular dress to, and even when to put it on....
this is where the bible quote come from..be your sister keeper...if one woman is called ashawo...fight for her..even though you both are not related...she could be your sister or your cousin or whatever ....even though I don't get those names..I'm fighting for the rest that got abused ,,,,,this is one reasons women don't get along with each other...always fighting and stereotyping each other...imagine a world where all women embrace the title slut or whatever, how would such a feat affect gender relation in our world today? Or just dress the way you wants without been judge...
I'm posted this on np because of what I read here on naijapals.....like u said everyone is entitle to his or her opinion ...

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-- HOPEA23 (f) at 31-10-2012 01:07PM
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 31-10-2012 01:00PM
double standards? copy comment? u really are sick. amybe u go come join me for yaba left
no fighting because I'm still on my bed...I'm not in the mood to separate fight

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-- HOPEA23 (f) at 31-10-2012 01:08PM
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Quote from: dlimelite on 31-10-2012 12:57PM
What about you? You also copy & paste stuff thats's from online written by someone else. 99% of your posts, blogs, and some comments are copy & paste. So don't play double standards here. That's what you call hypocrisy. 
sis...cool down...no fighting abeg....I really wants more view on this topic,,..

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-- HOPEA23 (f) at 31-10-2012 01:09PM
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It wont be bad if i write a book about this topic ...y'all should please contribute Jare..make I see more view

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-- sophiebaby (f) at 31-10-2012 01:13PM
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Quote from: HOPEA23 on 31-10-2012 01:06PM
this is where the bible quote come from..be your sister keeper...if one woman is called ashawo...fight for her..even though you both are not related...she could be your sister or your cousin or whatever ....even though I don't get those names..I'm fighting for the rest that got abused ,,,,,this is one reasons women don't get along with each other...always fighting and stereotyping each other...imagine a world where all women embrace the title slut or whatever, how would such a feat affect gender relation in our world today? Or just dress the way you wants without been judge...
I'm posted this on np because of what I read here on naijapals.....like u said everyone is entitle to his or her opinion ...

u wey don call me ashawo so many times on naijapals, i talk? cos u called me ashawo here doesnt mean am one.. i didnt get upset with the word cos i am not one.. its just a name tho.. but what u must know is.. when u r bin called a slut, or ashawo, dont feel terrible, cos u arent one, xcept u r one.. den u have every right to be  angry..its same as calling me tif when am not..u no u dont see who soever is behind his/her lappy/fone or whatever typing here on NP, thats why they abuse anyhow they like.. as for the respect thing.. u shud know is reciprocal.  

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-- sophiebaby (f) at 31-10-2012 01:16PM
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Quote from: HOPEA23 on 31-10-2012 01:07PM
no fighting because I'm still on my bed...I'm not in the mood to separate fight

fight ke! u shud no by now that i dont do such not even on NP.. why wud i fight with her? she/he entitled to his/her opinion, cos its a social network.. i dont mind receiving more of that cos e nor go pain me. no be my mouth.. na her mouth. and na my hand me dey take type.. and even copy all the comment wey i dey comment..

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