A few women couldn’t co-sign the idea that their man would (or should be allowed to) find women attractive outside of the relationship. Some went as far as to suggest that it’s never ok for a committed man to find other women attractive. Keeping with the modern age, some women thought a committed man shouldn’t be on any social media websites and if he is, he definitely shouldn’t follow any scantily clad women or hit the LIKE button on their respective photos. I found this interesting, so here we are today…
To be clear, I think any man that says he stops finding women beyond the limits of his own woman attractive when he is in a relationship is a liar. To me, that’s like saying when you own an umbrella, you become oblivious to when it rains. If such a man exist, I’ve never met him. Do I know faithful men? I do. Do I know any man that don’t find beautiful women attractive simply because they’re in a committed relationship? I do not.
Now to be fair, I think we must honestly assess this.. What Do you Think Naijapals? Lets hear your views.
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :*
Posted: at 22-02-2013 02:30 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
seriously,if u are commited u should respect that,u can hav friends no doubt let ur patner know about the person i mean it´s important to limit the suspiciousness in relationship n improve TRUST which is 1 of the most important thing in relationship.
Posted: at 22-02-2013 03:01 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
sophiebaby at 22-02-2013 03:13 PM (12 years ago) (f)
Quote from: ela214 on 22-02-2013 03:01 PM
seriously,if u are commited u should respect that,u can hav friends no doubt let ur patner know about the person i mean it´s important to limit the suspiciousness in relationship n improve TRUST which is 1 of the most important thing in relationship.
Having respecting the fact that you are committed or "married", theres no need admiring another woman? is that what you're trying to say?
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :*
Posted: at 22-02-2013 03:13 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
maryclaret at 22-02-2013 04:38 PM (12 years ago) (f)
I don't think it's wrong to find a woman attractive because you are committed. It is alright to notice a woman's beauty or brains (or anyone else's for that matter). Noticing is not lusting or cheating. Being aware of something does not mean you will act on it. As long as in his mind and in reality, he doesn't lust after the woman, then I don't see the big deal.
Ada Mbaise
Posted: at 22-02-2013 04:38 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
sophiebaby at 22-02-2013 04:46 PM (12 years ago) (f)
Quote from: maryclaret on 22-02-2013 04:38 PM
I don't think it's wrong to find a woman attractive because you are committed. It is alright to notice a woman's beauty or brains (or anyone else's for that matter). Noticing is not lusting or cheating. Being aware of something does not mean you will act on it. As long as in his mind and in reality, he doesn't lust after the woman, then I don't see the big deal.
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :*
Posted: at 22-02-2013 04:46 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
osarobo62 at 22-02-2013 05:05 PM (12 years ago) (m)
Quote from: maryclaret on 22-02-2013 04:38 PM
I don't think it's wrong to find a woman attractive because you are committed. It is alright to notice a woman's beauty or brains (or anyone else's for that matter). Noticing is not lusting or cheating. Being aware of something does not mean you will act on it. As long as in his mind and in reality, he doesn't lust after the woman, then I don't see the big deal.
100% supported.
Posted: at 22-02-2013 05:05 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
osarobo62 at 22-02-2013 05:19 PM (12 years ago) (m)
no matter how beautiful,intelligent and attractive your partner is, know that there are hundreds out there with similar or better qualities to catch your fancy now and then. just be satisfied with what you have if you believe he/she is the one.
Posted: at 22-02-2013 05:19 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
no matter how beautiful,intelligent and attractive your partner is, know that there are hundreds out there with similar or better qualities to catch your fancy now and then. just be satisfied with what you have if you believe he/she is the one.
NICE N NICE AGAIN
Posted: at 22-02-2013 06:36 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
trolling at 22-02-2013 09:17 PM (12 years ago) (m)
u can find other women attractive simply because everybody is attracted to beautiful things,but it would be wise not to let your wife know you are attracted to her if she's the jealous type but we as humans are all attracted to beautiful things and people.a married man or woman who says she hasnt seen somebody other than her spouse attractive is a liar and a pretender.
Posted: at 22-02-2013 09:17 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
cutelizzy at 25-02-2013 05:02 PM (12 years ago) (f)
Quote from: maryclaret on 22-02-2013 04:38 PM
I don't think it's wrong to find a woman attractive because you are committed. It is alright to notice a woman's beauty or brains (or anyone else's for that matter). Noticing is not lusting or cheating. Being aware of something does not mean you will act on it. As long as in his mind and in reality, he doesn't lust after the woman, then I don't see the big deal.
u r right
Posted: at 25-02-2013 05:02 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
giftmurphy at 25-02-2013 05:19 PM (12 years ago) (f)
Quote from: maryclaret on 22-02-2013 04:38 PM
I don't think it's wrong to find a woman attractive because you are committed. It is alright to notice a woman's beauty or brains (or anyone else's for that matter). Noticing is not lusting or cheating. Being aware of something does not mean you will act on it. As long as in his mind and in reality, he doesn't lust after the woman, then I don't see the big deal.
Posted: at 25-02-2013 05:19 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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