my gurl is haviing an affair with an older man... (Page 2)

Date: 21-05-2009 2:42 am (15 years ago) | Author: Atume Dave
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- Toks-E at 25-05-2009 09:09 AM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: daviespan on 21-05-2009 02:42 AM
Guys, i need your help on this.

I had a very strong reason to believe my gurl is cheating on me, coz when she visits, she never answers any calls. she would later switch off her phone and claim it did on its own. The more pronounced one is a number that reads 'sweet mother' which she never picks as well, according to her, "ma mum wld not be pleased if she hear noise in the background" 'i will rather call her back when we are home', she will say. believe me that chapter is closed for that day.

it so happened that she got terribly ill recently, and was admitted. the same 'sweet mother' called. i picked the phone hoping to inform her mother of her state, but to my greatest shock, i heard a white man that wld definitely be in his late 40s or early 50s speak, on hearing a male voice, he hung up. he later called thrice, of which he did same as he first did - hung up.

he then sent a text saying - 'im coming to lagos on saturday, dont expect a call'. that was friday night.

when she recovered, i enquired from her who it was that called, she told me if it's because of the bills i paid that is giving me rights over her i should make them available and she will re-pay me back.

i forgot to mention that the money i used to settle the hospital bills was supposed to clear part of fees, now im not in school.

wt do i do? i still love her. Huh?

at least u hav seen it, wat else do u need to see?

just move on jare

women!!!!  *smh*

Posted: at 25-05-2009 09:09 AM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Pires07 at 25-05-2009 01:04 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: BobbyL on 21-05-2009 11:41 AM
Quote from: onchedu on 21-05-2009 11:34 AM
Make sure she pays U ever penny U spent on her medical bills. If all U've said is true then it's clear she has no regard or respect for U.
I dont think dats wise; if u can afford it, 4get d refund... if she decides 2 pay back, then u can collect. But u'll retain ur respect if u dont ask 4 a refund.
Yeah, i agree wit u bobbyl. There's no point asking her 4d refund, allow her be. That depicts how matured u are.
@poster
i'll advice u to give space, if she's not contrite about her altitude, then QUIT.

Posted: at 25-05-2009 01:04 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- diplomatik at 25-05-2009 01:09 PM (15 years ago)
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@ POSTER ....CONTINUE LOVING HER NA...NO BE UR FAULT SEF.........

NONSENSE!!!!!!

Posted: at 25-05-2009 01:09 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- SAmyrocko at 25-05-2009 01:10 PM (15 years ago)
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whose fault?

Posted: at 25-05-2009 01:10 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- diplomatik at 25-05-2009 01:11 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: SAmyrocko on 25-05-2009 01:10 PM
whose fault?

URS.... Grin Grin

Posted: at 25-05-2009 01:11 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- SAmyrocko at 25-05-2009 01:57 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: diplomatik on 25-05-2009 01:11 PM
Quote from: SAmyrocko on 25-05-2009 01:10 PM
whose fault?

URS.... Grin Grin


how possible is that?

Posted: at 25-05-2009 01:57 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- myragonza at 26-05-2009 04:36 AM (15 years ago)
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mission impossibe

Posted: at 26-05-2009 04:36 AM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- shanique at 26-05-2009 11:46 AM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: myragonza on 26-05-2009 04:36 AM
mission impossibe

Posted: at 26-05-2009 11:46 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- daviespan at 26-05-2009 10:06 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: bigbaby on 26-05-2009 11:46 AM
@topic awwwwwwwwwwwwww sori

i bet your 'denzel' has never mistoke your friend's lips for yours before? i pray u never get to feel da pain it brings.

i can imagine you hanging on that tree with a rope da size of one holding an anchor; in those sexy pinkish 'shakira-like' sleeping dress he got you from yaba long before your post hits the web. lol

@bigbaby
just kidding

anybody around here live in Port Harcourt? i transferred my studies from Lagos to see what a life i could possibly make out here. anybody? i'm not particular about sex here fellas, both mine & da opposite sex can please holla @ me. i need a good guide around town. Grin

Posted: at 26-05-2009 10:06 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Kennee at 26-05-2009 10:13 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: daviespan on 21-05-2009 02:42 AM
Guys, i need your help on this.

I had a very strong reason to believe my gurl is cheating on me, coz when she visits, she never answers any calls. she would later switch off her phone and claim it did on its own. The more pronounced one is a number that reads 'sweet mother' which she never picks as well, according to her, "ma mum wld not be pleased if she hear noise in the background" 'i will rather call her back when we are home', she will say. believe me that chapter is closed for that day.

it so happened that she got terribly ill recently, and was admitted. the same 'sweet mother' called. i picked the phone hoping to inform her mother of her state, but to my greatest shock, i heard a white man that wld definitely be in his late 40s or early 50s speak, on hearing a male voice, he hung up. he later called thrice, of which he did same as he first did - hung up.

he then sent a text saying - 'im coming to lagos on saturday, dont expect a call'. that was friday night.

when she recovered, i enquired from her who it was that called, she told me if it's because of the bills i paid that is giving me rights over her i should make them available and she will re-pay me back.

i forgot to mention that the money i used to settle the hospital bills was supposed to clear part of fees, now im not in school.

wt do i do? i still love her. Huh?

Yu dey there dey do mugu, is the Writing not Clearly on the Wall??

Posted: at 26-05-2009 10:13 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- daviespan at 26-05-2009 10:18 PM (15 years ago)
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Yu dey there dey do mugu, is the Writing not Clearly on the Wall??
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that is funny man, cant help but laugh at ur comment =)) Smiley)

Posted: at 26-05-2009 10:18 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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- snoopafella at 26-05-2009 10:31 PM (15 years ago)
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pls,just don't jump into conclusion like that although it really seems she is really cheating on u,but its better u call her attention to that if u really luv her as u said...but if u find out that she is really cheating on u just give her some space...try not to be violent.ur attitude towards the issue might bring her back to u when what she is going for finishes from the white guy.
Posted: at 26-05-2009 10:31 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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- Kennee at 26-05-2009 10:41 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: snoopafella on 26-05-2009 10:31 PM
pls,just don't jump into conclusion like that although it really seems she is really cheating on u,but its better u call her attention to that if u really luv her as u said...but if u find out that she is really cheating on u just give her some space...try not to be violent.ur attitude towards the issue might bring her back to u when what she is going for finishes from the white guy.

SHE HAS ARISTOS, WHAT IS YUR PROBLEM Huh?Huh?Huh??

Posted: at 26-05-2009 10:41 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- ceejay58 at 26-05-2009 11:31 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: daviespan on 21-05-2009 02:42 AM
Guys, i need your help on this.

I had a very strong reason to believe my gurl is cheating on me, coz when she visits, she never answers any calls. she would later switch off her phone and claim it did on its own. The more pronounced one is a number that reads 'sweet mother' which she never picks as well, according to her, "ma mum wld not be pleased if she hear noise in the background" 'i will rather call her back when we are home', she will say. believe me that chapter is closed for that day.

it so happened that she got terribly ill recently, and was admitted. the same 'sweet mother' called. i picked the phone hoping to inform her mother of her state, but to my greatest shock, i heard a white man that wld definitely be in his late 40s or early 50s speak, on hearing a male voice, he hung up. he later called thrice, of which he did same as he first did - hung up.

he then sent a text saying - 'im coming to lagos on saturday, dont expect a call'. that was friday night.

when she recovered, i enquired from her who it was that called, she told me if it's because of the bills i paid that is giving me rights over her i should make them available and she will re-pay me back.

i forgot to mention that the money i used to settle the hospital bills was supposed to clear part of fees, now im not in school.

wt do i do? i still love her. Huh?

and u re still askig wat 2 do? dont tell me u cant read d hand writing on the wall?........ abeg dont tell me ur own love has turn u 2 mongo park. Grin
Posted: at 26-05-2009 11:31 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- myragonza at 27-05-2009 10:20 AM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: shanique on 26-05-2009 11:46 AM
Quote from: myragonza on 26-05-2009 04:36 AM
mission impossibe


urs was possible of course

Posted: at 27-05-2009 10:20 AM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- shanique at 27-05-2009 03:42 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: myragonza on 27-05-2009 10:20 AM
Quote from: shanique on 26-05-2009 11:46 AM
Quote from: myragonza on 26-05-2009 04:36 AM
mission impossibe


urs was possible of course

no it wasnt..WTF

Posted: at 27-05-2009 03:42 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- daviespan at 27-05-2009 07:35 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: shanique on 27-05-2009 03:42 PM
Quote from: myragonza on 27-05-2009 10:20 AM
Quote from: shanique on 26-05-2009 11:46 AM
Quote from: myragonza on 26-05-2009 04:36 AM
mission impossibe


urs was possible of course

no it wasnt..WTF

what are u gurls kibitzing about? Grin

should probably MMB before i get kicked in da ...

Posted: at 27-05-2009 07:35 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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- shanique at 27-05-2009 08:27 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: daviespan on 27-05-2009 07:35 PM
Quote from: shanique on 27-05-2009 03:42 PM
Quote from: myragonza on 27-05-2009 10:20 AM
Quote from: shanique on 26-05-2009 11:46 AM
Quote from: myragonza on 26-05-2009 04:36 AM
mission impossibe


urs was possible of course

no it wasnt..WTF

what are u gurls kibitzing about? Grin

should probably MMB before i get kicked in da ...

itz tht myra

Posted: at 27-05-2009 08:27 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- daviespan at 27-05-2009 08:31 PM (15 years ago)
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@shanique

myra who? cant say though, there ain't  no myra here pumpkin

Posted: at 27-05-2009 08:31 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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- shanique at 27-05-2009 08:34 PM (15 years ago)
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there is myragonza

Posted: at 27-05-2009 08:34 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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