Sexless marriages/relationships.....go figure? (Page 2)

Date: 24-08-2009 7:34 am (15 years ago) | Author: PRINCE OBINECHE
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- macgreat at 25-08-2009 10:18 AM (15 years ago)
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asking
Posted: at 25-08-2009 10:18 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- ajose1 at 25-08-2009 11:16 AM (15 years ago)
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I see nothing out of it....yes marriage is not all abt sex,but yet no mata d pro....u can still work out something.
Posted: at 25-08-2009 11:16 AM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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- macgreat at 25-08-2009 11:44 AM (15 years ago)
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Okay
Posted: at 25-08-2009 11:44 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- myragonza at 26-08-2009 10:46 AM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: princemech on 24-08-2009 07:34 AM
I have an issue on my mind and would like some other perspectives on this, if you all would be so kind to help me out!


Over time I have spoken with many people both men and women who have come out of LONG TERM marriages/relationships and one of the main reasons for the ending of the relationship, was that towards the end or for some a period of years, there was basically NO SEX or it had dwindled down to almost nothing. I am sure we can all agree that this would be a sad state of affairs, and that with no affection/intimacy between a couple it would most definitely affect the rest of the relationship as well, at least it would in my opinion.


So it leads me to these questions......


If you found yourself to be in this type of relationship , would you consider it grounds for leaving?

Secondly if you do not agree that it is a reason to leave, how do you live in a sexless relationship?Huh? Do you not feel that some level of intimacy is necessary to keep a couple bonded together???


i repeat....SEX is not EVERYTHING
Posted: at 26-08-2009 10:46 AM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- onchedu at 26-08-2009 10:52 AM (15 years ago)
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Posted: at 26-08-2009 10:52 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- Akpan01 at 26-08-2009 12:32 PM (15 years ago)
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@ MYRA BUT NOT FOR A MAN....
Posted: at 26-08-2009 12:32 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- erikaakpan at 26-08-2009 03:02 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: McBona on 24-08-2009 11:07 PM
Quote from: happy75 on 24-08-2009 07:19 PM
to me, sex is not the main thing that bring affection/intimacy, is just one of them.

 Cool Cool Cool

 Cheesy Wink
Posted: at 26-08-2009 03:02 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Beauti4 at 26-08-2009 03:13 PM (15 years ago)
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Marriage is a precious gift from God, so do sex. u can avoid sex in any relationship but when it comes to marriage. Mba, me no dey for that one ooo.
Posted: at 26-08-2009 03:13 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- onchedu at 26-08-2009 03:14 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: Akpan01 on 26-08-2009 12:32 PM
@ MYRA BUT NOT FOR A MAN....

Why U wan fall my hand Jules? Which kin yarn be this? Wetin be this sex sef. there are a million and one other highs a man could get stuck on. Sex is a compliment.
Posted: at 26-08-2009 03:14 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- onchedu at 26-08-2009 03:17 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: Beauti4 on 26-08-2009 03:13 PM
Marriage is a precious gift from God, so do sex. u can avoid sex in any relationship but when it comes to marriage. Mba, me no dey for that one ooo.

U make sense.
Posted: at 26-08-2009 03:17 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- Akpan01 at 26-08-2009 03:44 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: onchedu on 26-08-2009 03:14 PM
Quote from: Akpan01 on 26-08-2009 12:32 PM
@ MYRA BUT NOT FOR A MAN....

Why U wan fall my hand Jules? Which kin yarn be this? Wetin be this sex sef. there are a million and one other highs a man could get stuck on. Sex is a compliment.

ONCHEDU NO MAN GO STAY IN A RELATIONSHIP  FAITHFULLY IF HE NOT GET SEX ...HE WILL CHEAT IF HE CANT GET...NO MAN CAN STAY WHITHOUT IT
Posted: at 26-08-2009 03:44 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- McBona at 29-08-2009 04:48 AM (15 years ago)
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I can
Posted: at 29-08-2009 04:48 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- yukicares4u at 27-05-2011 09:51 PM (13 years ago)
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 Lips Sealed Lips Sealed Lips Sealed
Posted: at 27-05-2011 09:51 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- harold634 at 27-05-2011 10:02 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: onchedu on 24-08-2009 03:34 PM
Intimacy is way more than sex. It may culminate in sex and/or may be expressed or furnished by sex but it's a lot more than sex. A sexless marriage is a sign intimacy is lacking which may or may not be because the couple have issues. One or both of them just myt be too busy or distracted to even notice they've not been having sex.

In any case marriage is not for sex but sex is for marriage. If U want to opt out of marriage just becos Ur spouse is denying U it then Ur being immature.

U gat sense
Posted: at 27-05-2011 10:02 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- yukicares4u at 27-05-2011 10:07 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: harold634 on 27-05-2011 10:02 PM
Quote from: onchedu on 24-08-2009 03:34 PM
Intimacy is way more than sex. It may culminate in sex and/or may be expressed or furnished by sex but it's a lot more than sex. A sexless marriage is a sign intimacy is lacking which may or may not be because the couple have issues. One or both of them just myt be too busy or distracted to even notice they've not been having sex.

In any case marriage is not for sex but sex is for marriage. If U want to opt out of marriage just becos Ur spouse is denying U it then Ur being immature.

U gat sense
True talk
Posted: at 27-05-2011 10:07 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- kebella at 27-05-2011 10:23 PM (13 years ago)
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 Cool
Posted: at 27-05-2011 10:23 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- dirtykid at 27-05-2011 11:16 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: erikaakpan on 24-08-2009 03:15 PM
Sex is to marriage as what flour is to cake. I believe if u are married there's no need to leave ur marriage becos of sex. even though its one of the main reasons why people cheated or divorce, theres always a way to talk about it and make it work....sex can be a dull at times but the both of u need to come together and find ways to keep the sex spontaneous and interesting.couples who take time to cultivate and maintain healthy and satisfying segxwal relations tend to be more connected with each other.


For every problem, there’s a solution at hand.  Maybe theyre not always the best solutions but it’s not as if we have no options.

Quote from: onchedu on 24-08-2009 03:34 PM
Intimacy is way more than sex. It may culminate in sex and/or may be expressed or furnished by sex but it's a lot more than sex. A sexless marriage is a sign intimacy is lacking which may or may not be because the couple have issues. One or both of them just myt be too busy or distracted to even notice they've not been having sex.

In any case marriage is not for sex but sex is for marriage. If U want to opt out of marriage just becos Ur spouse is denying U it then Ur being immature.

Hmmmmmm !! What can i say again.  Roll Eyes
Posted: at 27-05-2011 11:16 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- dirtykid at 27-05-2011 11:19 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Akpan01 on 26-08-2009 03:44 PM
Quote from: onchedu on 26-08-2009 03:14 PM
Quote from: Akpan01 on 26-08-2009 12:32 PM
@ MYRA BUT NOT FOR A MAN....

Why U wan fall my hand Jules? Which kin yarn be this? Wetin be this sex sef. there are a million and one other highs a man could get stuck on. Sex is a compliment.

ONCHEDU NO MAN GO STAY IN A RELATIONSHIP  FAITHFULLY IF HE NOT GET SEX ...HE WILL CHEAT IF HE CANT GET...NO MAN CAN STAY WHITHOUT IT


You're absolutely right !! despite many will come up here to argue that.. But i will ask that person for how long will you remain faithful and staying without Sex ?? Seems to be an Impossible Mission.
Posted: at 27-05-2011 11:19 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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