My Friend's wife is making my once easy life very complicated. I have a very close friend. We went through the same secondary school and university. We are both working for different multinational companies. We are very comfortable and have a very wonderful family. My Friend's wife wants an affair with me. She's so open about it and I have told her it's a big No. She disturbs me with calls and love text messages. I have not told my wife and I have not told my friend. Recently my friend travelled to US on a training and he called me about 11P.m that I should help take the wife to his company's clinic because according to my friend she was in crises. My wife did not object to my rendering this assistance at that time of the night and I took the risk for a friend but when I got there, the two kids were already in bed. I was expecting to see her in a critical state, but she was not. The next thing she did was to send her maid upstairs to stay with the kids that she was going to the hospital and will lock up. I noticed that she was trying to feign some abdominal pains in front of the maid. All of a sudden, she came up and held me tight. I manage to take her to my car and I ended up driving her around the streets of Ph. She confessed she wanted to sleep with me and that we should lodge somewhere till morning. I told her to give me time to think about it. This was just for me to return her home. Should I tell my wife and her husband? Please help I am not myself anymore.
Tommy
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Posted: at 8-07-2015 08:18 AM (9 years ago) | Addicted Hero
DON'T DO IT, DONT'T TELL UR FRIEND BUT U MUST TELL UR WIFE. LET UR WIFE CALL HER AND TALK SOME SENSE INTO HER. SAVE ALL HER MSGS FOR REFERENCE PURPOSES.
Posted: at 8-07-2015 08:32 AM (9 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Stop going to see her no matter what, because she will soon win you over if you continue meeting with her. From what you wrote you already have feeling for her but quit now for your own good. If you must tell someone then let your wife know so that she can chase her out of your life.
Posted: at 8-07-2015 09:17 AM (9 years ago) | Gistmaniac
What are you thinking about? The only person that has solution to your problem is your wife. Tell her I believe she will handle it perfectly. If not wait to see the end yourself.
Posted: at 8-07-2015 09:27 AM (9 years ago) | Gistmaniac
If you tell your friend, you may lose his friendship. If you tell your wife......you may lose your peace. You have to be wise. Keep off her as much as possible. If you have to go close to her....NEVER go alone.
When the pressure is reduced, sit her down and talk sense into her head.
Lastly......you're a good guy, you have conscience and integrity. Keep it that way......God bless.
Posted: at 8-07-2015 09:55 AM (9 years ago) | Hero
DON'T DO IT, DONT'T TELL UR FRIEND BUT U MUST TELL UR WIFE. LET UR WIFE CALL HER AND TALK SOME SENSE INTO HER. SAVE ALL HER MSGS FOR REFERENCE PURPOSES.
just what i was thinking
Posted: at 8-07-2015 10:03 AM (9 years ago) | Upcoming
Mobbysmartins at 8-07-2015 10:48 AM (9 years ago) (m)
Tell your wife,the next thing the woman is going to do is accuse you of trying to rape her,that is why it is important you tell your wife,so that when that happens your wife will believe you,but if you fail to tell your wife,no one will believe you when that happens.
Posted: at 8-07-2015 10:48 AM (9 years ago) | Gistmaniac
ngfineface at 8-07-2015 10:55 AM (9 years ago) (f)
Firstly, keep all her texts for reference purpose. Try and respond to two or more and reinstate in your response that you cannot do it for a billion dollar.In your response, warn her to stop or else you will tell her husband. After responding, save your response as well. Then speak to her one on one to stop harassing you or else you will tell your wife and her husband.Wherefore she still persist, find out the most appropriate time to discuss it with your wife and make sure you show her the text messages, yours and hers, be careful in doing so too, you know how we women behaves.......then agree with your wife on the best possible time to escalate to her husband. Your wife must be present at the meeting. Yes! You must let her husband know before she turn the tide in her favor and trust me, it will be her word against yours.I wish you luck
Posted: at 8-07-2015 10:55 AM (9 years ago) | Hero
First i will say you are a good gentle man, keep that good heart and faith burning, well i will advice you stay away from her, do not tell your friend because you will break that marriage but another thought came to my mind, this woman could be doing same to another men outside, I think you should save your friend from troubles ahead because she may has a plan to kill this your friend someday one day because of one other man outside if you do not give in to her pressure she may go to other guys outside and you know the danger your friend will be facing when that happen? I am just confuse but let your wife out of this because if you tell this to your wife the whole world could hear this including your friend because some women can not keep things like this, I really can't find a better way to advice you than keep away from that woman as i tag her to be evil.
Posted: at 8-07-2015 11:11 AM (9 years ago) | Gistmaniac
LET ME TELL U WHAT TO DO, REPERT HER TO UR WIFE AND WARN HER IF SHE TRY IT AGAIN U WE REPORT HER TO HER HUSBAND. IF U DON.'T ACT ON TIME U WE END UP SLEEPING WITH HER
Posted: at 8-07-2015 11:37 AM (9 years ago) | Upcoming
hmmm..Gud advices so far..,bros tommy!, wat gistmaniac peeps can do is render a piece of advice, but u alone have the bigga role to play by upholding ur integrity and adhere 2 d the gud and better advice and add to ur own knowledge in solving this marriage-breaking trap and i believe u will overcome...
Posted: at 8-07-2015 12:27 PM (9 years ago) | Upcoming
If u ask me I will say that letting your wife on this might blow up the way u neva expected. To me I think this is a simple matter. U don't go to see her, if u do, u must not do it alone. You must see her with a friend or you wife. If u continue like this, she will stop bordering you.
Posted: at 8-07-2015 03:25 PM (9 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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