Advise ppl

Date: 27-02-2010 2:41 pm (15 years ago) | Author: wunmmy
- at 27-02-2010 02:41 PM (15 years ago)
(f)
I have a boyfriend,i met him 2years ago and when we started the relationship he didnt tell me he has a gf ,i later find out when i was pregant and i couldnt go for abortion bcos i was already heavy...i loved him and i know he does but suddly when i delivered he started behaving unfaithfull, he doent care baout me..and he still talks to the gl in question and even she called my phone one time sending am all kind of message, that my bf doesnt love me and he hasnt paid my dowry ..truely we are not married and he hasnt propsed yet...we only live togther with our son..
Am so confused bocs this gl in questions is taken is heart and he called her here and there send her money bcos d gl is in nija .......but his parents doesnt approve of the gl but he still calls her promise her somany things.i need advise we are like car and mouse ,,, its so obviuois he doesnt love me.....of recent i saw some gls message and i asked him who it was...his respond was swearing on me....calling me all kind of names......telling me he hate me that soon 1 day he will raise his hand on me...pls am loosing my mind....he makes me feel sad and i dont want to misbeahve or do something i will regreet.
SHOULD i leave him or stay with him bcos of my kids.......or i should just ignore all his ways and things he does....i feel so bad,unlove,unhappy and sick
Pls advise

Posted: at 27-02-2010 02:41 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
- dirtykid at 27-02-2010 02:54 PM (15 years ago)
(m)
hmm !! not happy to hear such.

But i will simply advise you, to stay away from him,, i dont know if that will be possible to take your kid and stay off him, If he truely wants to be with you, he will come for you, but if not.. Raise your child, thats a special gift from God. everything that happens in one's life has a meaning and reason for that.

If u will continue living with him under the same roof, U will be feeling hurting with his behaviours towards you, as long as both of you are not married and he never care to propose, it a sign he doesnt want you as his life time partner.. Maybe both of you might stay together in future as partner, but at the moment is not working out. give it time by staying far off him. face ur life and be happy. let the child be the link btw both of you.

Posted: at 27-02-2010 02:54 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
Reply
- humblej at 27-02-2010 03:33 PM (15 years ago)
(m)
Quote from: dirtykid on 27-02-2010 02:54 PM
hmm !! not happy to hear such.

If u will continue living with him under the same roof, U will be feeling hurting with his behaviours towards you, as long as both of you are not married and he never care to propose, it a sign he doesnt want you as his life time partner.. Maybe both of you might stay together in future as partner, but at the moment is not working out. give it time by staying far off him. face ur life and be happy. let the child be the link btw both of you.


In addition to what DKid has said, for now U should  think of u'r happiness and that of u'r kid(s), be focused and don't think that U have lost any thing cos he will come for u when he is back to sane. I happy that U could hold u'rself up till the moment without doing any stupid thing u might regret at last, Just take heart as u move on to see good things unfold cos that child is a blessing to U.
Posted: at 27-02-2010 03:33 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Reply
- Akpan01 at 27-02-2010 04:20 PM (15 years ago)
(f)
U will never be safe i such a relation and ya kid as well...first of all think about ya kids and make step to leave ya bf..he is not ready for such a responsibilites...better u stay alone with ya kid..it will very hard and painful first i know...but after u will be stronger and do everything u have to..u will never regret my dear...just think about yaself and ya son and be far from that guy...
Posted: at 27-02-2010 04:20 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
Reply
- docreala at 27-02-2010 05:05 PM (15 years ago)
(m)
4get about that guy,look for means to improve urself for you & your son. the best is yet to come.
Posted: at 27-02-2010 05:05 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Reply
ReplyFollow

Login To Post Reply

fire TRENDING GISTS fire

THIS WEEK

  1. Lady Calls Out JAMB After Mysterious Overnight Change in Brother’s UTME Result

  2. “He Got Me Pregnant”: Nigerian Lady Accuses Popular Pastor Of Sexual Misconduct In Viral Video

  3. "Why Was I Held Hostage?" — VeryDarkMan Blasts GTBank Over EFCC Arrest Ordeal (Video)

  4. Socialite, Pretty Mike Shows up to 2025 AMVCA Looking Like This... (Photos)

  5. Pregnant Woman Dies Mid-operation As Jehovah’s Witness Doctor Refuses Blood Transfusion

  6. AMVCA 2025: Seven Doors & Lisabi: The Uprising Light Up Nollywood’s Biggest Night (Full Winners

  7. Wizkid. Ayra Starr Face Backlash Over “Gimme Dat” Lyrics Allegedly Insensitive To Amadou Diallo

  8. Lagos Lady Recounts Ordeal in 'One Chance' Bus, Says She Was Hypnotized, Robbed & Abandoned

  9. Chaos In Port Harcourt as Woman Acts Erratically After Alleged Drop-Off By Suspected Yahoo Boy

  10. PHOTOS: How Your Favourite Celeb Stepped Out For 2025 For AMVCA Cultural Night

TOP MEMBERS:
  • gogoman 510
  • fineboy77 397
  • felicilin 215
  • bohlah 185
  • kacylee 113
Read More

Featured Discussions

Read More