Dear Kemi, My friend is pregnant for him

I have been dating a guy for almost three years and whenever he asked for sex, I refused. At a point, he left me because he said he was dating my friend who agreed to have sex with him. Now, the girl is heavily pregnant and my boyfriend is back on his knees. Do I accept him or not?


O.A, Delta State.

Obviously, you are still in love with him. Do I need to tell you to reject a man who left you for your friend because of sex? Need I waste time telling you to reject him because your pregnant friend would soon give birth to his child and could possibly move in as his wife, if the pressure is much on him? There is no need telling you to reject him because as long as you refuse him sex, he will run to other girls, have more babies outside wedlock and still keep you waiting for a wedding that may never come. I just want you to know that love is no longer blind and unreasonable.