I ve always have litlle or complex situations in my r/ship that sometines i feel like involving a third party but each time i think of that , i feel its not worth doing becos i used to fear if such a person has a better options for me. Pls tell me should i go ahead and involve my close friends or bear it alone even when my friend has involved his immediate junior brother wwho has called to seek my opinon in the last misunderstanding we had
Posted: at 8-10-2010 11:25 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
Plz d worst mistake u will make is involving ur gul frnd cos all dat gliters is not gold dont do it.unless ur frnd is a guy but 4 gurls no way.i am a victim.
Posted: at 8-10-2010 11:31 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie
divineproject at 8-10-2010 11:41 AM (14 years ago) (f)
Asking us here is also involving a third party.....NP members are third parties to your relationship wahala....but the good thing is that we have no known interest in it, therefore you are safe involving us. In a nutshell, involve third parties, only when you cant handle it and only those with no interest.
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND!
Posted: at 8-10-2010 11:41 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
jeffrey4u at 8-10-2010 11:47 AM (14 years ago) (m)
Quote from: snedy on 8-10-2010 11:25 AM
I ve always have litlle or complex situations in my r/ship that sometines i feel like involving a third party but each time i think of that , i feel its not worth doing becos i used to fear if such a person has a better options for me. Pls tell me should i go ahead and involve my close friends or bear it alone even when my friend has involved his immediate junior brother wwho has called to seek my opinon in the last misunderstanding we had
It can be a gud or bad idea but u don it at ur own risk cos sum friends can not be trusted
Posted: at 8-10-2010 11:47 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
bittersweet at 8-10-2010 12:50 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: snedy on 8-10-2010 12:12 PM
@bs Y NO!
Because that would only complicate the things! In that relationship are only 2 ppl,u and your guy,and you should be able to handle your issuses by yourselves! That will tie you even more,and strengthen your relationship!
Live and let live!
Posted: at 8-10-2010 12:50 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
pls are u male or female? cuz i'm a bit confuss from your picture & gender...anyway nevermind, you should try and resolve your problems by yourselves, involving a third party is only necessary if the issues involved are already deteriorate.for your information no relationship is perfect,every relationship has its high and low points. so try your possible best to resolve your issues alone the earlier you do so the better for your relationship.
Posted: at 8-10-2010 11:02 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
pls are u male or female? cuz i'm a bit confuss from your picture & gender...anyway nevermind, you should try and resolve your problems by yourselves, involving a third party is only necessary if the issues involved are already deteriorate.for your information no relationship is perfect,every relationship has its high and low points. so try your possible best to resolve your issues alone the earlier you do so the better for your relationship.
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I am as gentle as a dove and as wise as a serpent
Posted: at 8-10-2010 11:09 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
princedafe at 9-10-2010 12:59 PM (14 years ago) (m)
Quote from: divineproject on 8-10-2010 11:41 AM
Asking us here is also involving a third party.....NP members are third parties to your relationship wahala....but the good thing is that we have no known interest in it, therefore you are safe involving us. In a nutshell, involve third parties, only when you cant handle it and only those with no interest.
for once
I support your comment
Posted: at 9-10-2010 12:59 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
preciouslyme at 9-10-2010 01:23 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: snedy on 8-10-2010 11:25 AM
I ve always have litlle or complex situations in my r/ship that sometines i feel like involving a third party but each time i think of that , i feel its not worth doing becos i used to fear if such a person has a better options for me. Pls tell me should i go ahead and involve my close friends or bear it alone even when my friend has involved his immediate junior brother wwho has called to seek my opinon in the last misunderstanding we had
third parties are not the best option, because everyone tells a story from their Point of view and that third person only see's what you tell them, and no one knows your relationship better than you so no one else should have a say so in your relationship
Posted: at 9-10-2010 01:23 PM (14 years ago) | Hero