involving a third party in a relationship/marriage good or bad?

Date: 08-10-2010 11:25 am (14 years ago) | Author: Chiagoziem Justina Okeke
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- at 8-10-2010 11:25 AM (14 years ago)
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I ve always have litlle or complex situations in my r/ship that sometines i feel like involving a third party but each time i think of that , i feel its not worth doing becos i used to fear if such a person has a better options for me. Pls tell me should i go ahead and involve my close friends or bear it alone even when my friend has involved his immediate junior brother wwho has called to seek my opinon in the last misunderstanding we had

Posted: at 8-10-2010 11:25 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
- BLASTING at 8-10-2010 11:31 AM (14 years ago)
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Plz d worst mistake u will make is involving ur gul frnd cos all dat gliters is not gold dont do it.unless ur frnd is a guy but 4 gurls no way.i am a victim.
Posted: at 8-10-2010 11:31 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- divineproject at 8-10-2010 11:41 AM (14 years ago)
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Asking us here is also involving a third party.....NP members are third parties to your relationship wahala....but the good thing is that we have no known interest in it, therefore you are safe involving us.  In a nutshell, involve third parties, only when you cant handle it and only those with no interest.

Posted: at 8-10-2010 11:41 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- jeffrey4u at 8-10-2010 11:47 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: snedy on  8-10-2010 11:25 AM
I ve always have litlle or complex situations in my r/ship that sometines i feel like involving a third party but each time i think of that , i feel its not worth doing becos i used to fear if such a person has a better options for me. Pls tell me should i go ahead and involve my close friends or bear it alone even when my friend has involved his immediate junior brother wwho has called to seek my opinon in the last misunderstanding we had

It can be a gud or bad idea
but u don it at ur own risk cos sum friends can not be trusted
Posted: at 8-10-2010 11:47 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- snedy at 8-10-2010 11:53 AM (14 years ago)
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tanx NPS
Posted: at 8-10-2010 11:53 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- bittersweet at 8-10-2010 11:59 AM (14 years ago)
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No,and no and no!

Posted: at 8-10-2010 11:59 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- snedy at 8-10-2010 12:12 PM (14 years ago)
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@bs Y NO!
Posted: at 8-10-2010 12:12 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- bittersweet at 8-10-2010 12:50 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: snedy on  8-10-2010 12:12 PM
@bs Y NO!

Because that would only complicate the things!
In that relationship are only 2 ppl,u and your guy,and you should be able to handle your issuses by yourselves!
That will tie you even more,and strengthen your relationship!

Posted: at 8-10-2010 12:50 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- omorewa at 8-10-2010 02:31 PM (14 years ago)
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dp... well said

Posted: at 8-10-2010 02:31 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- onyin at 8-10-2010 02:34 PM (14 years ago)
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You know him much more than anyother person.
Posted: at 8-10-2010 02:34 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- Michro at 8-10-2010 03:23 PM (14 years ago)
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Relationship + third party = Insomountable problems

Posted: at 8-10-2010 03:23 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- mydicksweet at 8-10-2010 03:29 PM (14 years ago)
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U've said it all BS in addition to what u've said its her cross she has to learn how to carry it the sooner the better
Posted: at 8-10-2010 03:29 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- bittersweet at 8-10-2010 03:31 PM (14 years ago)
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 Wink

Posted: at 8-10-2010 03:31 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- xena15 at 8-10-2010 08:42 PM (14 years ago)
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Spells   D-O-O-M

Posted: at 8-10-2010 08:42 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- FlyMamacita at 8-10-2010 09:00 PM (14 years ago)
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Hmm i dont think its a wise idea, u and ur partner

knw whts up so u can talk d best talk....
Posted: at 8-10-2010 09:00 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- bitte at 8-10-2010 11:02 PM (14 years ago)
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pls are u male or female? cuz i'm a bit confuss from your picture & gender...anyway nevermind, you should  try and resolve your problems  by yourselves,  involving a third party is only necessary  if the issues involved are already deteriorate.for your information no relationship is perfect,every relationship has its high and low points. so try your possible best to resolve your issues alone the earlier you do so the better for your relationship.
Posted: at 8-10-2010 11:02 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Michro at 8-10-2010 11:09 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: bitte on  8-10-2010 11:02 PM
pls are u male or female? cuz i'm a bit confuss from your picture & gender...anyway nevermind, you should  try and resolve your problems  by yourselves,  involving a third party is only necessary  if the issues involved are already deteriorate.for your information no relationship is perfect,every relationship has its high and low points. so try your possible best to resolve your issues alone the earlier you do so the better for your relationship.
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Posted: at 8-10-2010 11:09 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- princedafe at 9-10-2010 12:59 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on  8-10-2010 11:41 AM
Asking us here is also involving a third party.....NP members are third parties to your relationship wahala....but the good thing is that we have no known interest in it, therefore you are safe involving us.  In a nutshell, involve third parties, only when you cant handle it and only those with no interest.

for once

I support your comment
Posted: at 9-10-2010 12:59 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- preciouslyme at 9-10-2010 01:23 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: snedy on  8-10-2010 11:25 AM
I ve always have litlle or complex situations in my r/ship that sometines i feel like involving a third party but each time i think of that , i feel its not worth doing becos i used to fear if such a person has a better options for me. Pls tell me should i go ahead and involve my close friends or bear it alone even when my friend has involved his immediate junior brother wwho has called to seek my opinon in the last misunderstanding we had

third parties are not the best option, because everyone tells a story from their Point of view and that third person only see's what you tell them, and no one knows your relationship better than you so no one else should have a say so in your relationship
Posted: at 9-10-2010 01:23 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- onyi4live at 9-10-2010 01:45 PM (14 years ago)
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if the problem is worth sharing out then u do but be careful ,becos not everybody u call ur friend is actually ur friend
Posted: at 9-10-2010 01:45 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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