Fears of Marrying a Naija Man

Date: 09-12-2010 1:47 pm (13 years ago) | Author: JeNeatte
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- at 9-12-2010 01:47 PM (13 years ago)
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I am American and have fallen in love with a man from Nigeria. We have corresponded by phone, webcam, IM and email for 8 months now.  During this time he has sent presents and even money.  I am still skeptical at times about this relationship.  Will it ever come to pass where we will be with one another.  He is readying himself to come to the USA as best he can.  His funds are low though.  I figure it is left in the hands of God if this relationship is to be. Huh?

Posted: at 9-12-2010 01:47 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
- Priceless-jewel at 9-12-2010 01:50 PM (13 years ago)
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what do u want us to comment on? Do u need advice or what?
Posted: at 9-12-2010 01:50 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- dirtykid at 9-12-2010 01:53 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: jeanette44 on  9-12-2010 01:47 PM
I am American and have fallen in love with a man from Nigeria. We have corresponded by phone, webcam, IM and email for 8 months now.  During this time he has sent presents and even money.  I am still skeptical at times about this relationship.  Will it ever come to pass where we will be with one another.  He is readying himself to come to the USA as best he can.  His funds are low though.  I figure it is left in the hands of God if this relationship is to be. Huh?


If both of you truly love each other, Go for what you want, don't actually seek advise for such highly/confidential issue here... You may start having triple mind not just double after reading so many ideas here, before you knew it, You will be the one bringing little distraction on what both of you have started well..................... Just a pally advise, Listen to your heart and let your Instinct direct you more.

Posted: at 9-12-2010 01:53 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- mydicksweet at 9-12-2010 01:57 PM (13 years ago)
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@Poster what you are asking for is already inside your post,please i suggest you read ur post all over again thanks and good luck
Posted: at 9-12-2010 01:57 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- macgreat at 9-12-2010 02:01 PM (13 years ago)
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Follow your heart. . .


Posted: at 9-12-2010 02:01 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- divineproject at 9-12-2010 02:04 PM (13 years ago)
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From your post, I think he has done what he has to do to show you he is serious.........I know what your fear is............but hey, it is just a tiny percentage of Nigerians that are into that..........what would be will surely be!

Posted: at 9-12-2010 02:04 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- omorewa at 9-12-2010 02:06 PM (13 years ago)
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hmmmmmmm i don't want to say something else but remember to always pray to God for direction...

goodluck

Posted: at 9-12-2010 02:06 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- mydicksweet at 9-12-2010 02:07 PM (13 years ago)
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Jonathan
Posted: at 9-12-2010 02:07 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- macgreat at 9-12-2010 02:09 PM (13 years ago)
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hmm

Posted: at 9-12-2010 02:09 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- Pepesy at 9-12-2010 02:16 PM (13 years ago)
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@poster,,, just put everything in prayer if its meant to be, lt will come 2 pass. but, l wont advise u to commit peppe until it cm 2 pass
Posted: at 9-12-2010 02:16 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- MissyBarbie at 10-12-2010 11:59 AM (13 years ago)
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Goodluck with that one sis
Posted: at 10-12-2010 11:59 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- bittersweet at 10-12-2010 12:03 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: dirtykid on  9-12-2010 01:53 PM
Quote from: jeanette44 on  9-12-2010 01:47 PM
I am American and have fallen in love with a man from Nigeria. We have corresponded by phone, webcam, IM and email for 8 months now.  During this time he has sent presents and even money.  I am still skeptical at times about this relationship.  Will it ever come to pass where we will be with one another.  He is readying himself to come to the USA as best he can.  His funds are low though.  I figure it is left in the hands of God if this relationship is to be. Huh?


If both of you truly love each other, Go for what you want, don't actually seek advise for such highly/confidential issue here... You may start having triple mind not just double after reading so many ideas here, before you knew it, You will be the one bringing little distraction on what both of you have started well..................... Just a pally advise, Listen to your heart and let your Instinct direct you more.

Well said!

Posted: at 10-12-2010 12:03 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- ILOVEIT at 10-12-2010 12:17 PM (13 years ago)
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no comment

Posted: at 10-12-2010 12:17 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- sixtyhoneyy at 10-12-2010 12:20 PM (13 years ago)
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hmmm no comment
Posted: at 10-12-2010 12:20 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- enoeno at 10-12-2010 12:21 PM (13 years ago)
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u can not be forced by any one it's ur life decide on what to do and then go on
Posted: at 10-12-2010 12:21 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- bibismall at 10-12-2010 12:26 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: jeanette44 on  9-12-2010 01:47 PM
I am American and have fallen in love with a man from Nigeria. We have corresponded by phone, webcam, IM and email for 8 months now.  During this time he has sent presents and even money.  I am still skeptical at times about this relationship.  Will it ever come to pass where we will be with one another.  He is readying himself to come to the USA as best he can.  His funds are low though.  I figure it is left in the hands of God if this relationship is to be. Huh?


hmmmmmmmmmmmmm, some people can still be trusted u know! I believe there a quiet a number of good guys and good girls out there. It doesnt matter where u guys met, wat is important is the love u share and the sincerity dat goes wit it.
I WISH U LUCK!!!!

Posted: at 10-12-2010 12:26 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- xena15 at 10-12-2010 07:39 PM (13 years ago)
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@poster,i bet u,if u go black,u'll NEVER go back!
If he's serious,go ahead and say "i do"!!!

Posted: at 10-12-2010 07:39 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- SNYPER at 10-12-2010 07:50 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: mydicksweet on  9-12-2010 01:57 PM
@Poster what you are asking for is already inside your post,please i suggest you read ur post all over again thanks and good luck

GBAMMMM
Posted: at 10-12-2010 07:50 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Kennee at 10-12-2010 08:00 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: jeanette44 on  9-12-2010 01:47 PM
I am American and have fallen in love with a man from Nigeria. We have corresponded by phone, webcam, IM and email for 8 months now.  During this time he has sent presents and even money.  I am still skeptical at times about this relationship.  Will it ever come to pass where we will be with one another.  He is readying himself to come to the USA as best he can.  His funds are low though.  I figure it is left in the hands of God if this relationship is to be. Huh?

Huh?? He Sends yu What Huh?

Posted: at 10-12-2010 08:00 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- juleshotluv at 10-12-2010 08:04 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: jeanette44 on  9-12-2010 01:47 PM
I am American and have fallen in love with a man from Nigeria. We have corresponded by phone, webcam, IM and email for 8 months now.  During this time he has sent presents and even money.  I am still skeptical at times about this relationship.  Will it ever come to pass where we will be with one another.  He is readying himself to come to the USA as best he can.  His funds are low though.  I figure it is left in the hands of God if this relationship is to be. Huh?


maybe you can go to Nigeria and marry him, that way you make the process easy for him since you are an american Citizen(I hope) Undecided
Posted: at 10-12-2010 08:04 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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