sooooooooooooo confused as well
y confusion wen u dey hammer her confusion no come oh Posted: at 17-12-2010 03:29 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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blessedme at 17-12-2010 03:30 PM (13 years ago) (f) i just cant help but lafffffff loud i think this is a very fat joke from d poster himself if it is true, i ve to think well b4 saying a word and i ve some question he will ve to answer Posted: at 17-12-2010 03:30 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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sobeit at 17-12-2010 03:31 PM (13 years ago) (m) Didn't the woman realise she was married b4 she opened her yansh wide open? was she raped?
but you're at fault why mingle with married woman ? waco this a serious issue ooh! cuz the out come wouldn't be good at all. my question is what took you so long(4years) b4 trying to go for your son huh ?
in addition to this,i will sincerely advice you from the bottom of my heart to let the boy be for now.in life there is time for everything,when your son grow up he will surely know his father.abeg don't wreck the woman marriage.We are speaking from the same view point cool beans is just the fact Posted: at 17-12-2010 03:31 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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hmmmm this is heavy!
my assumption is this:
when the boy grow a lil bit older, his character will show him out.
the single guy will still have his son back
the marriage will not break...but will know bigger problem.....
the wife will probably die of shame....but not like die and put to grave oh
the boy will hate his mother!
if for anything, the woman in question should come clean with her husband and son..before anything happens. Posted: at 17-12-2010 03:31 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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onyin at 17-12-2010 03:31 PM (13 years ago) (f) sooooooooooooo confused as well
Hmmm wait.was she married befor this happened or was it inside her martrimony that it all happened? Posted: at 17-12-2010 03:31 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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sobeit at 17-12-2010 03:33 PM (13 years ago) (m) waco this a serious issue ooh! cuz the out come wouldn't be good at all. my question is what took you so long(4years) b4 trying to go for your son huh ?
Oh, mine! I could kiss you right now...Why did he have to take this long? huh i'm lost dear ahh! i see oya to you Gosh! dont be slow on me now I was throwing you kisses because you were thinking the same thing, i was thinking. Posted: at 17-12-2010 03:33 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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blessedme at 17-12-2010 03:34 PM (13 years ago) (f) sooooooooooooo confused as well
if this is true pls tell us ow it happen when she was pregnant, werent u aware? was d woman's hubby impotent and she decided to use u? was she ya gf b4 she got married, or did u do it a month to her wedding? was she ya gf and den u bomb into her again and u guys did it cos of old affection pls talk to me then i will know exactly wat to say Posted: at 17-12-2010 03:34 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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onyin at 17-12-2010 03:36 PM (13 years ago) (f) hmmmm this is heavy!
my assumption is this:
when the boy grow a lil bit older, his character will show him out.
the single guy will still have his son back
the marriage will not break...but will know bigger problem.....
the wife will probably die of shame....but not like die and put to grave oh
the boy will hate his mother!
true talk.its better the boy knows the truth now,then later.cos he might end up hating her for life. what are u talking about ? so you guys are advising he should go ahead and wreck the woman marriage huh sobeit.you just are thinking about just this woman now.think about the child,the son.There is nothing hidden under the sun.and wat was she thinking,for crying out loud.can you yourself marry a cheat?.And do you think its easy for the man as well.watching your own son everyday,but you cant feel him,hold him,play with him,read stories to him,buy him sweets and be called a dad. Posted: at 17-12-2010 03:36 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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samboko at 17-12-2010 03:38 PM (13 years ago) (m) hmmmm this is heavy!
my assumption is this:
when the boy grow a lil bit older, his character will show him out.
the single guy will still have his son back
the marriage will not break...but will know bigger problem.....
the wife will probably die of shame....but not like die and put to grave oh
the boy will hate his mother!
true talk.its better the boy knows the truth now,then later.cos he might end up hating her for life. what are u talking about ? so you guys are advising he should go ahead and wreck the woman marriage huh hey bro, the marriage has been wrecked since the day she got pregnant for another man! So why waiting to suffer the innocent lil boy? It is better they settle it now and take the boy away from the mother or they should buy the boy's coffin themselves with another two for the cheating wife and intruder man if they wait any longer Posted: at 17-12-2010 03:38 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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waco at 17-12-2010 03:39 PM (13 years ago) (m) Blessedme u be police? wetin come be all these plenty question na? She carry belle a month after her wedding. It was just a lesson in a hard way. Right now i dont need much questions but possible solutions.
no matter how incorrect ur time is, it will be correct twice a day. Posted: at 17-12-2010 03:39 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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onyin at 17-12-2010 03:42 PM (13 years ago) (f) wow!.months after wedding?.WTF!!!!!!!!!.Seriously,he needs to go after his son. Posted: at 17-12-2010 03:42 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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blessedme at 17-12-2010 03:42 PM (13 years ago) (f) Blessedme u be police? wetin come be all these plenty question na? She carry belle a month after her wedding. It was just a lesson in a hard way. Right now i dont need much questions but possible solutions.
there is nothing u have to do than to file for d custody of your son but ow u will do that, lemme think first, brb Posted: at 17-12-2010 03:42 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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samboko at 17-12-2010 03:43 PM (13 years ago) (m) Blessedme u be police? wetin come be all these plenty question na? She carry belle a month after her wedding. It was just a lesson in a hard way. Right now i dont need much questions but possible solutions.
Waco, the only solution is get the kid on time...there is no secret....at least one of your friends or the wife's friend would have known...one day go be one day, when someone will tell the lil boy to go look for his father....by then it will be too late to quench the fire...blood go probably flow plenty Posted: at 17-12-2010 03:43 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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Lets look at it this way, probably the reason why the woman went sleeping out was because she thought her husband couldn’t get her pregnant.(maybe the husband too was in on it). So she was advised to go out and sleep with someone in order for them to have a child(this is beginning to sound like a Nigerian movie ). She went and got pregnant outside and they had a child. A couple of years later, she is now able to have her own children with her husband. Now, this guy that got this woman pregnant at first sees that they now have children of their own, now decides he wants his own child. But then we cant stop but wonder..why did it take him this long to claim his child(was he paid at first?). Is there something else that we are not aware of? Posted: at 17-12-2010 03:44 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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sobeit at 17-12-2010 03:47 PM (13 years ago) (m) hmmmm this is heavy!
my assumption is this:
when the boy grow a lil bit older, his character will show him out.
the single guy will still have his son back
the marriage will not break...but will know bigger problem.....
the wife will probably die of shame....but not like die and put to grave oh
the boy will hate his mother!
true talk.its better the boy knows the truth now,then later.cos he might end up hating her for life. what are u talking about ? so you guys are advising he should go ahead and wreck the woman marriage huh sobeit.you just are thinking about just this woman now.think about the child,the son.There is nothing hidden under the sun.and wat was she thinking,for crying out loud.can you yourself marry a cheat?.And do you think its easy for the man as well.watching your own son everyday,but you cant feel him,hold him,play with him,read stories to him,buy him sweets and be called a dad. remember the woman was married when they had this affair that resulted the boy in question.b4 waco involved himself in this abominable act,don't he knew the consequences of his action huh ? now tell me do you support men that mingled with married women?there is always a price for every bad things we do in life..so that's his own price,simple let the boy be for now. p.s "crying out loud" wasn't cool,we aren't fighting ok. Posted: at 17-12-2010 03:47 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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solojaro at 17-12-2010 03:48 PM (13 years ago) (m) hmmmm this is heavy!
my assumption is this:
when the boy grow a lil bit older, his character will show him out.
the single guy will still have his son back
the marriage will not break...but will know bigger problem.....
the wife will probably die of shame....but not like die and put to grave oh
the boy will hate his mother!
true talk.its better the boy knows the truth now,then later.cos he might end up hating her for life. what are u talking about ? so you guys are advising he should go ahead and wreck the woman marriage huh hey bro, the marriage has been wrecked since the day she got pregnant for another man! So why waiting to suffer the innocent lil boy? It is better they settle it now and take the boy away from the mother or they should buy the boy's coffin themselves with another two for the cheating wife and intruder man if they wait any longer You have said it all. the truth should be now and not later. Posted: at 17-12-2010 03:48 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Blessedme u be police? wetin come be all these plenty question na? She carry belle a month after her wedding. It was just a lesson in a hard way. Right now i dont need much questions but possible solutions.
A month after the wedding?( speechless) Posted: at 17-12-2010 03:49 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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blessedme at 17-12-2010 03:50 PM (13 years ago) (f) jules dis case is a delicate one, but wat we should know is that wat ever would be will be the boy is his own and no two was about that he has to claim his boy still Posted: at 17-12-2010 03:50 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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onyin at 17-12-2010 03:50 PM (13 years ago) (f) @Waco.Let him talk to her.tell her he wants his son in his life.but if she refuses,get her husband involve.if the husband proves stubborn,get the police involve.Do the DNA test.and get hold of your son.That woman has no good reason for doing such.Such secret is very dangerous ,can either destory the little boy's life or even her husband.cos now the husband probably trust her more than anything,and feels the boy is his.but one day,maybe one,if he finds out himself(through any medical test),he might end up badly.very badly. Posted: at 17-12-2010 03:50 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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sooooooooooooo confused as well
if this is true pls tell us ow it happen when she was pregnant, werent u aware? was d woman's hubby impotent and she decided to use u?was she ya gf b4 she got married, or did u do it a month to her wedding? was she ya gf and den u bomb into her again and u guys did it cos of old affection pls talk to me then i will know exactly wat to say Posted: at 17-12-2010 03:51 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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