I've been married for 2 years, we have had sex maybe half a dozen times since the wedding, only once in the past 12 months. Before we were married we had a very good segxwal relationship, but once we moved in together it slowed down to basically nothing. When we have it, it's not that great, he rushes through it so he can go to sleep. My husband has gained about 50 pounds since we met, so I don't know if it's a lack of testosterone or self esteem, he says there's nothing wrong, he just doesn't feel like having sex. I'm tired of asking and being rejected, but I miss it. I find myself fantasizing about cheating on him, I never thought I would do such a thing but I can't keep living like this. We're still affectionate, we kiss and cuddle and hold hands, but no sex, and it's driving me crazy! We've talked about it but the situation hasn't improved. I don't know what to do anymore.
Posted: at 4-05-2011 04:14 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
you need to seek marriage counsellor. ur husband might be going under pressure but does not disclose to you. most husbands hide things from their wives. speak to him and tell him how you feel and the thought of cheating. read books about how to turn a man ON.
Posted: at 4-05-2011 08:52 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
blessedme at 4-05-2011 09:16 AM (14 years ago) (f)
try turning him on....try some sexy moves in da house....wear some sexy and revealing dresses when he is around...let ur smell alone turn him on look good all d time and just ignore d sex aspect for now since he doesnt want it but dont ever stop intimidating him wit ur looks and dresses...he will come begging u someday
Posted: at 4-05-2011 09:16 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
try turning him on....try some sexy moves in da house....wear some sexy and revealing dresses when he is around...let ur smell alone turn him on look good all d time and just ignore d sex aspect for now since he doesnt want it but dont ever stop intimidating him wit ur looks and dresses...he will come begging u someday
good advice try this i believe it will work out
Posted: at 4-05-2011 09:22 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
I've been married for 2 years, we have had sex maybe half a dozen times since the wedding, only once in the past 12 months. Before we were married we had a very good segxwal relationship, but once we moved in together it slowed down to basically nothing. When we have it, it's not that great, he rushes through it so he can go to sleep. My husband has gained about 50 pounds since we met, so I don't know if it's a lack of testosterone or self esteem, he says there's nothing wrong, he just doesn't feel like having sex. I'm tired of asking and being rejected, but I miss it. I find myself fantasizing about cheating on him, I never thought I would do such a thing but I can't keep living like this. We're still affectionate, we kiss and cuddle and hold hands, but no sex, and it's driving me crazy! We've talked about it but the situation hasn't improved. I don't know what to do anymore.
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Posted: at 4-05-2011 09:22 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
blessedme at 4-05-2011 09:40 AM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: simele on 4-05-2011 09:22 AM
Quote from: blessedme on 4-05-2011 09:16 AM
try turning him on....try some sexy moves in da house....wear some sexy and revealing dresses when he is around...let ur smell alone turn him on look good all d time and just ignore d sex aspect for now since he doesnt want it but dont ever stop intimidating him wit ur looks and dresses...he will come begging u someday
good advice try this i believe it will work out
thanks
Posted: at 4-05-2011 09:40 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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