She love me and i dont but threatening herself now!! Pls Help!!!

Published 7 years ago by: YoungStoriez
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at 11:35 AM, 2/10/2011 (7 years ago)

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Abeg oooo...I seriously need you guys help now!!!! TRUE LIFE STORY

This girl and I have been friends for months, until recently not too long ago...when she started making advances of intimate talks and conversations....she later then claimed she would love to hear me speak ....i was rather amazed and nervous...that a girl wud ask of my number...(Though its not the first time) ...but this was in a very emotional way, probably the most emotional way...but before then..she claimed she loved som1, I love givng advices and i was always giving her very good and receptive advices on relationships, to be careful nd hw to handle certain things regarding the love she has for the person....(I didnt know she was rather referring to me) she has always been so adamant to keeping telling her what to do, that she dont know how to go about it, she is scared the person wont love her and besides she is a girl and would be embarrassing if he dont love her!! I also insisted she tell him ...bcos u neva know!!! After a while she later told me she was in love with me......I went speechless and suprised that ''all this while she was referring to me?''....she said ''yes''...that she love me so much and cant go a day without thinking about me, she sounds so emotional when she talks, sometimes she always want to cry...i didnt know what to say...i had to tell her to forget it, that i really like her......i didnt want to tell her that i DONT love her, cos i was thinking it might cause more trouble and make her perturbed in her heart and i'm a kind of person that feels som1 emotions very quick, as am quite a candid soft n nice guy, i have always been giving her signs that i dont love her but she is always naive and oblivious not to understand! We'vebeen going along until i suddenly had to surmone up the courage that i cant do this any more, i cant be pretending i love some one while i dont....i later told her i dont love her but i really like her and she should try and understand that it cant work...she still will be so persistent and this is getting me go deranged....now she is saying if i dont love her, she is afraid she CANT take it anymore....that sentence is making me scared and petrified , i dont know what to do...am afraid she might do something bad to her self if i dont comply or know what to do...cos to me this is like force love...i dont want a girl to hurt herself bcos of me, this is one of the worst experiences i have had with love and a girl loving me...or pretending to love or me loving her! I really need advices on what and how to go about it now....its really tormenting and inflammable, i dont love her and i dont want her hurt herself bcos of me...#confused#!!!  PLSS, na advice i need oohhhh!!!

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katung44 at 12:45 PM, 2/10/2011 (7 years ago)
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Sorry Pal, you are in a Devil and Deep Blue sea situation here. If you tell her love ( you have already said you don't) you would be lying. Lying to someone who is dangerously on the edge like her will lead to something even more dangerous like having her keep you caged so that even your female family members will not be able to be around you without her being violent, she will also want you to do only what she likes, and see who she likes you to see and threaten violence when you show that you are drifting away from her. On the other hand, telling her you do not love her will make carry out the threat she made. As much as I would advise honesty here, this girl sounds like she is emotionally unstable and is obsessed with you. One rather mischievous option would be to fake the fact that you and your family had to move from your present address and please do not leave her your new address or she will stalk you like a serial Killer.
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Youngstoriez at 02:44 PM, 2/10/2011 (7 years ago)
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Quote from: katung44 on 12:45 PM,  2/10/2011
Sorry Pal, you are in a Devil and Deep Blue sea situation here. If you tell her love ( you have already said you don't) you would be lying. Lying to someone who is dangerously on the edge like her will lead to something even more dangerous like having her keep you caged so that even your female family members will not be able to be around you without her being violent, she will also want you to do only what she likes, and see who she likes you to see and threaten violence when you show that you are drifting away from her. On the other hand, telling her you do not love her will make carry out the threat she made. As much as I would advise honesty here, this girl sounds like she is emotionally unstable and is obsessed with you. One rather mischievous option would be to fake the fact that you and your family had to move from your present address and please do not leave her your new address or she will stalk you like a serial Killer.
Bro, u are a real advicer!!! But she hasnt been to my houx just yet....thnx alot, i really appreciate!!
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1daful at 02:50 PM, 2/10/2011 (7 years ago)
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Stop seeing her

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katung44 at 02:55 PM, 2/10/2011 (7 years ago)
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Quote from: Youngstoriez on 02:44 PM,  2/10/2011
Quote from: katung44 on 12:45 PM,  2/10/2011
Sorry Pal, you are in a Devil and Deep Blue sea situation here. If you tell her love ( you have already said you don't) you would be lying. Lying to someone who is dangerously on the edge like her will lead to something even more dangerous like having her keep you caged so that even your female family members will not be able to be around you without her being violent, she will also want you to do only what she likes, and see who she likes you to see and threaten violence when you show that you are drifting away from her. On the other hand, telling her you do not love her will make carry out the threat she made. As much as I would advise honesty here, this girl sounds like she is emotionally unstable and is obsessed with you. One rather mischievous option would be to fake the fact that you and your family had to move from your present address and please do not leave her your new address or she will stalk you like a serial Killer.
Bro, u are a real advicer!!! But she hasnt been to my houx just yet....thnx alot, i really appreciate!!
You're welcome!
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Youngstoriez at 03:05 PM, 2/10/2011 (7 years ago)
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Quote from: 1daful on 02:50 PM,  2/10/2011
Stop seeing her
i dont see her oh....but she calls
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giftmurphy at 08:04 PM, 2/10/2011 (7 years ago)
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THINKING ABT SOMONE EVERYDAY IS IT LOVE?small finkin,they call it love.
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Youngstoriez at 08:21 AM, 3/10/2011 (7 years ago)
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lol
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Swtezvikky at 09:16 AM, 3/10/2011 (7 years ago)
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Stop picking her call cos it giving her d impression dat ur also trippin 4 her.
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sobeit at 01:46 PM, 3/10/2011 (7 years ago)
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Quote from: Youngstoriez on 11:35 AM,  2/10/2011
Abeg oooo...I seriously need you guys help now!!!! TRUE LIFE STORY

This girl and I have been friends for months, until recently not too long ago...when she started making advances of intimate talks and conversations....she later then claimed she would love to hear me speak ....i was rather amazed and nervous...that a girl wud ask of my number...(Though its not the first time) ...but this was in a very emotional way, probably the most emotional way...but before then..she claimed she loved som1, I love givng advices and i was always giving her very good and receptive advices on relationships, to be careful nd hw to handle certain things regarding the love she has for the person....(I didnt know she was rather referring to me) she has always been so adamant to keeping telling her what to do, that she dont know how to go about it, she is scared the person wont love her and besides she is a girl and would be embarrassing if he dont love her!! I also insisted she tell him ...bcos u neva know!!! After a while she later told me she was in love with me......I went speechless and suprised that ''all this while she was referring to me?''....she said ''yes''...that she love me so much and cant go a day without thinking about me, she sounds so emotional when she talks, sometimes she always want to cry...i didnt know what to say...i had to tell her to forget it, that i really like her......i didnt want to tell her that i DONT love her, cos i was thinking it might cause more trouble and make her perturbed in her heart and i'm a kind of person that feels som1 emotions very quick, as am quite a candid soft n nice guy, i have always been giving her signs that i dont love her but she is always naive and oblivious not to understand! We'vebeen going along until i suddenly had to surmone up the courage that i cant do this any more, i cant be pretending i love some one while i dont....i later told her i dont love her but i really like her and she should try and understand that it cant work...she still will be so persistent and this is getting me go deranged....now she is saying if i dont love her, she is afraid she CANT take it anymore....that sentence is making me scared and petrified , i dont know what to do...am afraid she might do something bad to her self if i dont comply or know what to do...cos to me this is like force love...i dont want a girl to hurt herself bcos of me, this is one of the worst experiences i have had with love and a girl loving me...or pretending to love or me loving her! I really need advices on what and how to go about it now....its really tormenting and inflammable, i dont love her and i dont want her hurt herself bcos of me...#confused#!!!  PLSS, na advice i need oohhhh!!!


Try and withdraw yourself from her.stop picking her calls. don't even try to succumb to such mere threats.she is just saying that to make you agree......don't love out pity 'youngstrories' cuz you might live it out of pity as well
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onyiis at 01:56 PM, 3/10/2011 (7 years ago)
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hmmmm

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divineproject at 02:03 PM, 3/10/2011 (7 years ago)
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You would be doing her a great disservice if you pretend now and go ahead with her.........try and cut off the communication, she WONT die........later in life should would come to appreciate what you have done for her......it is really noble of you to not love her and have the courage to tell her so.....some d*ck heads would go ahead, 'hit' her and 'run' off......

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onyiis at 02:07 PM, 3/10/2011 (7 years ago)
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Dont let her drag u into her game..........both of u will regret it later !!

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HOPEA23 at 04:20 PM, 3/10/2011 (7 years ago)
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hmm serious...meanwhile ,tell her about how you feeels toward her

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stephen153 at 07:31 PM, 3/10/2011 (7 years ago)
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lemme drink a cup of coffee first
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Youngstoriez at 08:15 PM, 3/10/2011 (7 years ago)
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Quote from: Swtezvikky on 09:16 AM,  3/10/2011
Stop picking her call cos it giving her d impression dat ur also trippin 4 her.
Yeh...i'll just even stop from today, infact i'll change my number sef...
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Youngstoriez at 08:16 PM, 3/10/2011 (7 years ago)
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Quote from: sobeit on 01:46 PM,  3/10/2011
Quote from: Youngstoriez on 11:35 AM,  2/10/2011
Abeg oooo...I seriously need you guys help now!!!! TRUE LIFE STORY

This girl and I have been friends for months, until recently not too long ago...when she started making advances of intimate talks and conversations....she later then claimed she would love to hear me speak ....i was rather amazed and nervous...that a girl wud ask of my number...(Though its not the first time) ...but this was in a very emotional way, probably the most emotional way...but before then..she claimed she loved som1, I love givng advices and i was always giving her very good and receptive advices on relationships, to be careful nd hw to handle certain things regarding the love she has for the person....(I didnt know she was rather referring to me) she has always been so adamant to keeping telling her what to do, that she dont know how to go about it, she is scared the person wont love her and besides she is a girl and would be embarrassing if he dont love her!! I also insisted she tell him ...bcos u neva know!!! After a while she later told me she was in love with me......I went speechless and suprised that ''all this while she was referring to me?''....she said ''yes''...that she love me so much and cant go a day without thinking about me, she sounds so emotional when she talks, sometimes she always want to cry...i didnt know what to say...i had to tell her to forget it, that i really like her......i didnt want to tell her that i DONT love her, cos i was thinking it might cause more trouble and make her perturbed in her heart and i'm a kind of person that feels som1 emotions very quick, as am quite a candid soft n nice guy, i have always been giving her signs that i dont love her but she is always naive and oblivious not to understand! We'vebeen going along until i suddenly had to surmone up the courage that i cant do this any more, i cant be pretending i love some one while i dont....i later told her i dont love her but i really like her and she should try and understand that it cant work...she still will be so persistent and this is getting me go deranged....now she is saying if i dont love her, she is afraid she CANT take it anymore....that sentence is making me scared and petrified , i dont know what to do...am afraid she might do something bad to her self if i dont comply or know what to do...cos to me this is like force love...i dont want a girl to hurt herself bcos of me, this is one of the worst experiences i have had with love and a girl loving me...or pretending to love or me loving her! I really need advices on what and how to go about it now....its really tormenting and inflammable, i dont love her and i dont want her hurt herself bcos of me...#confused#!!!  PLSS, na advice i need oohhhh!!!


Try and withdraw yourself from her.stop picking her calls. don't even try to succumb to such mere threats.she is just saying that to make you agree......don't love out pity 'youngstrories' cuz you might live it out of pity as well
Yeah...ur soooo right!!! Thnnx alot
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Youngstoriez at 08:18 PM, 3/10/2011 (7 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on 02:03 PM,  3/10/2011
You would be doing her a great disservice if you pretend now and go ahead with her.........try and cut off the communication, she WONT die........later in life should would come to appreciate what you have done for her......it is really noble of you to not love her and have the courage to tell her so.....some d*ck heads would go ahead, 'hit' her and 'run' off......
Thanks alot divine!!....I really appreciate....she dey even threaten me now sef... Shocked Shocked Shocked...i just tire for this kind love
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Youngstoriez at 08:19 PM, 3/10/2011 (7 years ago)
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Quote from: onyiis on 02:07 PM,  3/10/2011
Dont let her drag u into her game..........both of u will regret it later !!
yeah..will never! My eye don dey shine...lol
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Youngstoriez at 08:20 PM, 3/10/2011 (7 years ago)
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Quote from: HOPEA23 on 04:20 PM,  3/10/2011
hmm serious...meanwhile ,tell her about how you feeels toward her
i don tell am oo...sey i no love am...so make she pipe low and now she dey vex, threatening me if i dont love her!
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