I'VE BEEN DATING THIS GIRL FOR A HALF DECADE. ACTUALLY WE MET ON A SOCIAL NETWORK. AT FIRST THINGS WERE WORKING FINE FOR BOTH OF US, NOT UNTIL SHE STARTED SEEING OTHER GUYS, WHEN I TALK ABOUT IT, IS EITHER SHE LIE ABOUT IT OR BRINGING UP AN ATTITUDE. WHEN WE HAVE MISUNDERSTANDING SHE CONFIDE IN HER FRIENDS AND SISTER FOR ADVISE, AND NEXT THING THEY ASK HER TO MOVE ON, AND HOOK A GUY UP WITH HER. ASK ME THE KIND OF FRIENDS SHE ROLLS WITH?. GIRLS SHE CLAIMS ARE NOT HER FRIEND COZ SHE ALWAYS TELL ME HOW THE GIRLS SLEEP WITH SEVERAL GUYS FOR MONEY. ON THE OTHER HAND HER SISTER IS NOT HELPING MATTERS. THIS HAPPENS TO BE HER JUNIOR SISTER. SHE'S ALWAYS HANGING OUT WITH THE SO CALLED FRIENDS MY GF ALWAYS COMPLAIN TO ME ABOUT YET MY GF CANNOT SCOLD HER JUNIOR SISTER ABOUT HOW SHE GOES ABOUT CLUBBING WITH THE SO CALLED BAD GIRLS. WHAT KIND OF SISTER TO SISTER RELATIONSHIP IS THAT IF NOT BOTH ARE COVERING THEIR TRACKS. SHE DOESN'T EVEN HAVE A GOOD ADVISER, IT'S MORE LIKE SHOW ME UR FRIENDS AND I'LL TELL U WHO U ARE. SO SHE DENIES ANY LINK WITH THEM, YET SHE HANG OUT WITH THEM OFTEN. IS THAT NOT PRETENDING.
SINCE HER JUNIOR SIS GAINED ADMISSION INTO UNILAG 2YEARS BACK SHE HAS GONE FROM BAD TO WORSE, MY GF ALSO GAINED ADMISSION LAST YEAR, SO BOTH OF THEM ARE IN SAME HOSTEL. EVEN B4 SHE GAINED ADMISSION I'VE NEVER SEEN HER WITH RESPONSIBLE FRIENDS, SHE'S SO OBSESSED BY MATERIAL STUFFS. THE LAST TIME I CAUGHT HER WITH A GUY WAS WHEN SHE WAS CELEBRATING HER B'DAY IN A BAR. A PARTICULAR CAR DROVE IN SHE STARTED ACTING SKEPTICAL, I WAS FORCED TO ASK HER WHO THE MAN WAS, SHE TOLD ME THE MAN WAS HER DAD, LOL. I WAS SMART ENOUGH TO ASK HER SIS LATER AND SHE SAID THE MAN WAS THEIR UNCLE, TO ADD INSULT TO EVERYTHING SHE SAID SHE DOESN'T HAVE ANYTHING TO DO WITH THE MAN, ALTHOUGH I'M ALWAYS WITH HER WHEN THE MAN CALLS, SO I THOUGHT THEY ARE JUST FRIENDS COZ HER BROTHER AND SIS ALSO KNEW HIM, NOT UNTIL THAT FAITHFUL DAY, LATER SHE SAID THE MAN GAVE HER MONEY FOR HER B'DAY THAT THE MAN WAS ASKING HER OUT. SHE'S VERY GOOD AT BEGGING WHEN SUCH HAPPENS. I'M NOT SAYING I'M A PERFECT GUY BUT I KNOW I'M TRYING MY BEST TO MAKE THE RELATIONSHIP WORTHWHILE. I'M ALWAYS BLUNT WITH HER, THAT DOESN'T MAKE ME ANY LESS COZ I BELIEVE SILENCE CAN DO ALLOT DAMAGE THAN BEING BLUNT
LAST 2MONTHS OR SO SOMEONE CALLED HER AND THE NAME SHE STORED THE NAME AS WAS HONEY-PIE, THIS HAPPENS TO BE THE NICK-NAME SHE CALLS ME, WHEN I ASK HER SHE SAID IT WAS A DAY THING THAT SHE HAD DELETED THE NUMBER, SHE CLAIMED THE FAULT WAS FROM HER BB, IS THAT POSSIBLE AFTER DELETING A CONTACT ON BB. I'VE USED SEVERAL BB AND HAVEN'T ENCOUNTER SUCH ERROR. THE FUNNY THING IS WHEN I START KEEPING TO MY SELF AND NOT PICKING HER CALLS, SHE WOULD COMPLAIN I DON'T TRUST HER A BIT, WHAT HAS TRUST GOT TO DO WHEN UR NOT GIVING ME ANY REASON TO TRUST YOU. FEW DAYS BACK I SAW SOMETHING VERY STRANGE WHILE I WAS GOING 2RU HER BBM CONTACTS, TRUST ME I'M NOT THAT KIND OF PERSON THAT GOES 2RU STUFFS LIKE THAT WITHOUT BEING SKEPTICAL, BUT EACH TIME I GO AT LENGTH TO PLEASE MY CURIOSITY I ALWAYS FIND SOMETHING IMPLICATING TO HOLD AGAINST HER. THE GUYS COMMENT WAS "MY POLICY IS DO ME I DO YOU" HER RESPONSE WAS NAA YOU NO WON DO ME NAA. SHE CLAIMED SHE WAS NOT THE ONE, I KNOW HOW SHE USES HER WORDS. UNLIKE BEFORE SHE COVER UP WITH HER SIS, BUT SHE SAID IT WAS NOT HER NEITHER HER SIS. I TOLD HER I WAS FED UP, SHE BEGGED AND BEGGED AS USUAL I DID NOT ACCEPT. LATER SHE START BLABBING SAYING I DON'T HAVE TRUST IN HER. PLEASE MY FELLOW NIGERIA MAKE UNA TELL ME WETIN BE TRUST. SHE'S KEEPING TO HER SELF AND SO DO I. THERE WAS THIS DAY I WAS TELLING MY FRIENDS ABOUT HER, DON'T GET ME MISCONSTRUED IT WAS POSITIVE WARDS ABOUT HER, COZ I WAS TELLING THEM HOW NICE AND HUMBLE SHE IS, I TOLD THEM I DON'T MIND SETTLING DOWN WITH HER AS LONG AS SHE'S PLAYING ALONG WELL. A FRIEND OF MINE WHO IS MUCH MORE OLDER THAN EVERYONE AROUND WITH ALLOT OF EXPERIENCE, HE SAID HE WAS GOING TO GIVE HER A LITTLE TEST TO PROVE IF SHE'S THE ANGEL I CLAIMED SHE IS, THE NEXT THING I SAW WAS MY FRIEND WAS CALLING HER WITH A PAID PHONE, MY FRIEND WAS CALLING AS AN ADMIRER, TO MY GREAT SURPRISE, RIGHT IN MY FACE SHE AGREED TO MEET HIM AND ALSO TOLD HIM EVERYTHING ABOUT HERSELF INCLUDING HER ACCURATE HOME ADDRESS, ALSO TOLD HIM SOMETHINGS SHE HAVEN'T EVEN TOLD ME BEFORE.
I RECENTLY PROMISED HER I WAS GONNA GET HER AN ENGAGEMENT RING THAT I COULDN'T WAIT TO MARRY HER, STILL SHE DID NOT READ ANY MEANING TO IT. I'VE TRIED IN DIFFERENT WAYS TO PLEASE HER BUT I DOUBT IF ANY GUY CAN. SHE FORGET THAT PEOPLE ASKING HER OUT MIGHT BE ASKING HER OUT FOR WRONG REASON, SHE'S ALSO THIS KIND OF GIRL THAT IS EASILY FREAKED BY WHAT SHE SEES, ALWAYS BRAGGING TO BE IN LAG AND HOW RICH GUYS ASK HER OUT, WHEN I DISPUTE THE HABIT OF HER HANGING OUT WITH GUYS, NOT JUST GUYS SHE KNOWS, BUT PEOPLE ASKING HER OUT, SHE TELLS ME SHE ONLY WANNA CATCH FUN WITH THEM, KINI AJA BE EKUN SHE, DONNO IF I GOT THAT RIGHT. WHAT KIND OF FRIENDSHIP DOES A LION KEEP WITH A DOG?. AFTER HANGING WITH THEM, THEN WHAT HAPPENS NEXT. SHE'S TRYING TO MAKE ME FEEL WHAT SHE'S DOING IS RIGHT... THIS IS MY STORY, I TOOK 30 MIN TYPING, AND PLZ DON'T SPEND 1SEC SAYING BALDERDASH. NO DISRESPECT, BUT I'M IN REAL EMOTIONAL STRESS.
ONE BIG LESSON I LEARNED WAS. NEVER MAKE SOMEONE A PRIORITY WHEN THEY ONLY SEE U AS AN OPTION, DON'T THINK OF MARRING A GIRL THAT IS OBSESSED BY MATERIALISTIC STUFFS, ONE DAY SHE'S GONNA RUN TO ANOTHER MAN FOR SHELTER. SO GUYS LEARN FROM MY MISTAKES. NOT CONDEMNING GIRLS IN GENERAL, OFF CURSE THERE ARE STILL GIRLS OUT THERE THAT KNOWS THE TRUE MEANING OF MORALS AND DIGNITY.
1daful Is a Blessed Child..
| Posted: at 28-03-2012 09:35 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac |
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