THE GREAT LEASSONS OF MY LIFE DEALING WITH A BACK STABBER I CALLED MY WIFE 2 BE

Date: 27-03-2012 6:27 pm (12 years ago) | Author: Chuks Ray
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- at 27-03-2012 06:27 PM (12 years ago)
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I'VE BEEN DATING THIS GIRL FOR A HALF DECADE. ACTUALLY WE MET ON A SOCIAL NETWORK. AT FIRST THINGS WERE WORKING FINE FOR BOTH OF US, NOT UNTIL SHE STARTED SEEING OTHER GUYS, WHEN I TALK ABOUT IT, IS EITHER SHE LIE ABOUT IT OR BRINGING UP AN ATTITUDE. WHEN WE HAVE MISUNDERSTANDING SHE CONFIDE IN HER FRIENDS AND SISTER FOR ADVISE, AND NEXT THING THEY ASK HER TO MOVE ON, AND HOOK A GUY UP WITH HER. ASK ME THE KIND OF FRIENDS SHE ROLLS WITH?. GIRLS SHE CLAIMS ARE NOT HER FRIEND COZ SHE ALWAYS TELL ME HOW THE GIRLS SLEEP WITH SEVERAL GUYS FOR MONEY. ON THE OTHER HAND HER SISTER IS NOT HELPING MATTERS. THIS HAPPENS TO BE HER JUNIOR SISTER. SHE'S ALWAYS HANGING OUT WITH THE SO CALLED FRIENDS MY GF ALWAYS COMPLAIN TO ME ABOUT YET MY GF CANNOT SCOLD HER JUNIOR SISTER ABOUT HOW SHE GOES ABOUT CLUBBING WITH THE SO CALLED BAD GIRLS. WHAT KIND OF SISTER TO SISTER RELATIONSHIP IS THAT IF NOT BOTH ARE COVERING THEIR TRACKS. SHE DOESN'T EVEN HAVE A GOOD ADVISER, IT'S MORE LIKE SHOW ME UR FRIENDS AND I'LL TELL U WHO U ARE. SO SHE DENIES ANY LINK WITH THEM, YET SHE HANG OUT WITH THEM OFTEN. IS THAT NOT PRETENDING.

SINCE HER JUNIOR SIS GAINED ADMISSION INTO UNILAG 2YEARS BACK SHE HAS GONE FROM BAD TO WORSE, MY GF ALSO GAINED ADMISSION LAST YEAR, SO BOTH OF THEM ARE IN SAME HOSTEL. EVEN B4 SHE GAINED ADMISSION I'VE NEVER SEEN HER WITH RESPONSIBLE FRIENDS, SHE'S SO OBSESSED BY MATERIAL STUFFS. THE LAST TIME I CAUGHT HER WITH A GUY WAS WHEN SHE WAS CELEBRATING HER B'DAY IN A BAR. A PARTICULAR CAR DROVE IN SHE STARTED ACTING SKEPTICAL, I WAS FORCED TO ASK HER WHO THE MAN WAS, SHE TOLD ME THE MAN WAS HER DAD, LOL. I WAS SMART ENOUGH TO ASK HER SIS LATER AND SHE SAID THE MAN WAS THEIR UNCLE, TO ADD INSULT TO EVERYTHING SHE SAID SHE DOESN'T HAVE ANYTHING TO DO WITH THE MAN, ALTHOUGH I'M ALWAYS WITH HER WHEN THE MAN CALLS, SO I THOUGHT THEY ARE JUST FRIENDS COZ HER BROTHER AND SIS ALSO KNEW HIM, NOT UNTIL THAT FAITHFUL DAY, LATER SHE SAID THE MAN GAVE HER MONEY FOR HER B'DAY THAT THE MAN WAS ASKING HER OUT. SHE'S VERY GOOD AT BEGGING WHEN SUCH HAPPENS. I'M NOT SAYING I'M A PERFECT GUY BUT I KNOW I'M TRYING MY BEST TO MAKE THE RELATIONSHIP WORTHWHILE. I'M ALWAYS BLUNT WITH HER, THAT DOESN'T MAKE ME ANY LESS COZ I BELIEVE SILENCE CAN DO ALLOT DAMAGE THAN BEING BLUNT

LAST 2MONTHS OR SO SOMEONE CALLED HER AND THE NAME SHE STORED THE NAME AS WAS HONEY-PIE, THIS HAPPENS TO BE THE NICK-NAME SHE CALLS ME, WHEN I ASK HER SHE SAID IT WAS A DAY THING THAT SHE HAD DELETED THE NUMBER, SHE CLAIMED THE FAULT WAS FROM HER BB, IS THAT POSSIBLE AFTER DELETING A CONTACT ON BB. I'VE USED SEVERAL BB AND HAVEN'T ENCOUNTER SUCH ERROR. THE FUNNY THING IS WHEN I START KEEPING TO MY SELF AND NOT PICKING HER CALLS, SHE WOULD COMPLAIN I DON'T TRUST HER A BIT, WHAT HAS TRUST GOT TO DO WHEN UR NOT GIVING ME ANY REASON TO TRUST YOU. FEW DAYS BACK I SAW SOMETHING VERY STRANGE WHILE I WAS GOING 2RU HER BBM CONTACTS, TRUST ME I'M NOT THAT KIND OF PERSON THAT GOES 2RU STUFFS LIKE THAT WITHOUT BEING SKEPTICAL, BUT EACH TIME I GO AT LENGTH TO PLEASE MY CURIOSITY I ALWAYS FIND SOMETHING IMPLICATING TO HOLD AGAINST HER.  THE GUYS COMMENT WAS "MY POLICY IS DO ME I DO YOU" HER RESPONSE WAS NAA YOU NO WON DO ME NAA. SHE CLAIMED SHE WAS NOT THE ONE, I KNOW HOW SHE USES HER WORDS. UNLIKE BEFORE SHE COVER UP WITH HER SIS, BUT SHE SAID IT WAS NOT HER NEITHER HER SIS. I TOLD HER I WAS FED UP, SHE BEGGED AND BEGGED AS USUAL I DID NOT ACCEPT. LATER SHE START BLABBING SAYING I DON'T HAVE TRUST IN HER. PLEASE MY FELLOW NIGERIA MAKE UNA TELL ME WETIN BE TRUST. SHE'S KEEPING TO HER SELF AND SO DO I. THERE WAS THIS DAY I WAS TELLING MY FRIENDS ABOUT HER, DON'T GET ME MISCONSTRUED IT WAS POSITIVE WARDS ABOUT HER, COZ I WAS TELLING THEM HOW NICE AND HUMBLE SHE IS, I TOLD THEM I DON'T MIND SETTLING DOWN WITH HER AS LONG AS SHE'S PLAYING ALONG WELL. A FRIEND OF MINE WHO IS MUCH MORE OLDER THAN EVERYONE AROUND WITH ALLOT OF EXPERIENCE, HE SAID HE WAS GOING TO GIVE HER A LITTLE TEST TO PROVE IF SHE'S THE ANGEL I CLAIMED SHE IS, THE NEXT THING I SAW WAS MY FRIEND WAS CALLING HER WITH A PAID PHONE, MY FRIEND WAS CALLING AS AN ADMIRER, TO MY GREAT SURPRISE, RIGHT IN MY FACE SHE AGREED TO MEET HIM AND ALSO TOLD HIM EVERYTHING ABOUT HERSELF INCLUDING HER ACCURATE HOME ADDRESS, ALSO TOLD HIM SOMETHINGS SHE HAVEN'T EVEN TOLD ME BEFORE.

I RECENTLY PROMISED HER I WAS GONNA GET HER AN ENGAGEMENT RING THAT I COULDN'T WAIT TO MARRY HER, STILL SHE DID NOT READ ANY MEANING TO IT. I'VE TRIED IN DIFFERENT WAYS TO PLEASE HER BUT I DOUBT IF ANY GUY CAN. SHE FORGET THAT PEOPLE ASKING HER OUT MIGHT BE ASKING HER OUT FOR WRONG REASON, SHE'S ALSO THIS KIND OF GIRL THAT IS EASILY FREAKED BY WHAT SHE SEES, ALWAYS BRAGGING TO BE IN LAG AND HOW RICH GUYS ASK HER OUT, WHEN I DISPUTE THE HABIT OF HER HANGING OUT WITH GUYS, NOT JUST GUYS SHE KNOWS, BUT PEOPLE ASKING HER OUT, SHE TELLS ME SHE ONLY WANNA CATCH FUN WITH THEM, KINI AJA BE EKUN SHE, DONNO IF I GOT THAT RIGHT. WHAT KIND OF FRIENDSHIP DOES A LION KEEP WITH A DOG?. AFTER HANGING WITH THEM, THEN WHAT HAPPENS NEXT. SHE'S TRYING TO MAKE ME FEEL WHAT SHE'S DOING IS RIGHT... THIS IS MY STORY, I TOOK 30 MIN TYPING, AND PLZ DON'T SPEND 1SEC SAYING BALDERDASH. NO DISRESPECT, BUT I'M IN REAL EMOTIONAL STRESS.

ONE BIG LESSON I LEARNED WAS. NEVER MAKE SOMEONE A PRIORITY WHEN THEY ONLY SEE U AS AN OPTION, DON'T THINK OF MARRING A GIRL THAT IS OBSESSED BY MATERIALISTIC STUFFS, ONE DAY SHE'S GONNA RUN TO ANOTHER MAN FOR SHELTER. SO GUYS LEARN FROM MY MISTAKES. NOT CONDEMNING GIRLS IN GENERAL, OFF CURSE THERE ARE STILL GIRLS OUT THERE THAT KNOWS THE TRUE MEANING OF MORALS AND DIGNITY.

Posted: at 27-03-2012 06:27 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
- sophiebaby at 27-03-2012 06:43 PM (12 years ago)
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 Cry Cry Cry Cry Cry please buy me d new BB abeg..so that we can be pinging together ..i will value u wella...no mind ur ex..she be ashawo backyard... Grin

i know the tru meaning of morals and dignity...please buy me d BB...

P.S ... i feel for u poster  Cry Cry Cry

Posted: at 27-03-2012 06:43 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- juddaxx at 27-03-2012 07:29 PM (12 years ago)
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I have a similar issue my broda,nowadays girls r not good,dis chic plays me for a fool.I just laff,bcos I can hack her social network website,read all her msgs with these guys.well na wh*res n hungry girls we get these days.she gives her pin n fone numbas out.even as she dey go meet man I dey know.I dey read all her convo,but I just dey phyuk for free n collect her bread.
Posted: at 27-03-2012 07:29 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- jossy4reall at 27-03-2012 08:04 PM (12 years ago)
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wetin dey happen hia wey Sophie dey beg for BB???.......... Huh?  can sum1 tell me plz

Posted: at 27-03-2012 08:04 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- wandepope at 27-03-2012 08:10 PM (12 years ago)
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eyah
Posted: at 27-03-2012 08:10 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- etiese at 27-03-2012 08:25 PM (12 years ago)
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i dont date gals below 27 years becos the younger ones r immatured, beside, gals r just for fun for me.
Posted: at 27-03-2012 08:25 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- lanudja at 28-03-2012 09:26 AM (12 years ago)
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U av seen all d signs & reasons of her nt being a responsible gul...So, d decision is left for u ta take.
Posted: at 28-03-2012 09:26 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 28-03-2012 10:04 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 27-03-2012 06:43 PM
Cry Cry Cry Cry Cry please buy me d new BB abeg..so that we can be pinging together ..i will value u wella...no mind ur ex..she be ashawo backyard... Grin

i know the tru meaning of morals and dignity...please buy me d BB...

P.S ... i feel for u poster  Cry Cry Cry

Grin Grin Grin Grin abeg sum d stori for me  Roll Eyes
Posted: at 28-03-2012 10:04 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Treasure2 at 28-03-2012 10:45 AM (12 years ago)
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@Poster, do you really need someone to interpret this lady to you.  Why waste your time on this type of a woman. Move on.
Posted: at 28-03-2012 10:45 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- vivachelseafc at 28-03-2012 01:45 PM (12 years ago)
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LOVER BOY THIS BIT**CH DEY TAKE YOU FOR A RIDE BELIEVING SAY SHE GO GET OUT OF IT WHEN SHE COMMIT. BUT TRUST ME THIS GIRL DEY SLEEP WITH TONS OF MEN. JUST PLAY ALONG NAA FREE PU**SSY WITH NO STRING ATTACHED. MAKE SHE BELIEVE SAY U BE MUMU BUT GET UR PLANS. MARRY KE, EXCEPT YOU READY SAY HAD I KNOWN THEN PLEASE CARRY ON. I NO EVEN KNOW SAY SAY GUYS WEY DEY FALL IN LOVE STILL DEY EXIST.
Posted: at 28-03-2012 01:45 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- sophiebaby at 28-03-2012 01:46 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: etiese on 27-03-2012 08:25 PM
i dont date gals below 27 years becos the younger ones r immatured, beside, gals r just for fun for me.

and who says the older ones are matured? wise up bro

Posted: at 28-03-2012 01:46 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sophiebaby at 28-03-2012 01:48 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: juddaxx on 27-03-2012 07:29 PM
I have a similar issue my broda,nowadays girls r not good,dis chic plays me for a fool.I just laff,bcos I can hack her social network website,read all her msgs with these guys.well na wh*res n hungry girls we get these days.she gives her pin n fone numbas out.even as she dey go meet man I dey know.I dey read all her convo,but I just dey fcuk for free n collect her bread.

stop reading her mails if u arent authorised...even if u don finish her one loaf of bread..na who loose..u tink sey she loose? abi u tink sey u win? grow up..when u see such tins, n u know its not urs..Move on with ur life..

Posted: at 28-03-2012 01:48 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sophiebaby at 28-03-2012 01:49 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on 28-03-2012 10:04 AM
Grin Grin Grin Grin abeg sum d stori for me  Roll Eyes

i no sabi read

Posted: at 28-03-2012 01:49 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- giftmurphy at 28-03-2012 01:55 PM (12 years ago)
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kpele..
Posted: at 28-03-2012 01:55 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- sophiebaby at 28-03-2012 01:56 PM (12 years ago)
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me?

Posted: at 28-03-2012 01:56 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 28-03-2012 03:10 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 28-03-2012 01:49 PM
i no sabi read

U wan maka pity u  Huh?
Posted: at 28-03-2012 03:10 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sophiebaby at 28-03-2012 03:15 PM (12 years ago)
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i say i no sabi read naaaaaaaaa..i no go sch

Posted: at 28-03-2012 03:15 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 28-03-2012 03:17 PM (12 years ago)
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then wetin u com do since huh
Posted: at 28-03-2012 03:17 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sophiebaby at 28-03-2012 03:25 PM (12 years ago)
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na person dey read n type for me

Posted: at 28-03-2012 03:25 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Beauti4 at 28-03-2012 04:44 PM (12 years ago)
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Well sir, she may be right for the BB error. Cause the same thing do happen to my friend. Most of the time my name would show on her screen if someone else calls. Put I told her that it could be the way she set her phone. I am not a BB fan, so I really hate to touch that phone.

And as for your experience with the girl, its a good thing that you've studied her well enough. Now you can walk in or walk out. Hope your fellows will learn from this.
Posted: at 28-03-2012 04:44 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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