Whose Duty Is It?

Date: 13-07-2011 1:14 pm (13 years ago) | Author: uduak Sophia Monday
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- at 13-07-2011 01:14 PM (13 years ago)
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Sometimes I Wonder Why (Most) men See it as a Duty For a Woman to Greet them first in The Morning.
and if you Don't greet Them First, they See it As an Insult to their person as a MAN...
Whats Wrong in them Saying Good morning First to Their Wife/Girlfriend/Spouse and she replying afterwards?

Whose Duty is it?
the man, the Woman, Or Both?



Posted: at 13-07-2011 01:14 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
- bittersweet at 13-07-2011 01:20 PM (13 years ago)
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Hm!
I don't even like these greetings in the morning, but if he likes it,he's free to do it!

Posted: at 13-07-2011 01:20 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- divineproject at 13-07-2011 01:26 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 13-07-2011 01:14 PM
Sometimes I Wonder Why (Most) men See it as a Duty For a Woman to Greet them first in The Morning.
and if you Don't greet Them First, they See it As an Insult to their person as a MAN...
Whats Wrong in them Saying Good morning First to Their Wife/Girlfriend/Spouse and she replying afterwards?

Whose Duty is it?
the man, the Woman, Or Both?


It seems like one of those unwritten rules......but then how i see it from my side, it has nothing to do with man/woman issue.......rather am older than you, therefore you must greet me first........But really I think if it has to do with spouses, whoever sees the other first should normally greet...

Sophie, what do you have to say of two friends (same gender)living together?.......it still do happen in this case.......

Posted: at 13-07-2011 01:26 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- sophiebaby at 13-07-2011 01:28 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 13-07-2011 01:20 PM
Hm!
I don't even like these greetings in the morning, but if he likes it,he's free to do it!


lolzzzzzzzzzzzzzz..

If i will have my way would have love getting married to a White, cos they don't care  Cheesy
here in Nigeria..its like u dont respect them when u dont greet them..not only Morning greetings thou  Shocked

Posted: at 13-07-2011 01:28 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sophiebaby at 13-07-2011 01:31 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on 13-07-2011 01:26 PM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 13-07-2011 01:14 PM
Sometimes I Wonder Why (Most) men See it as a Duty For a Woman to Greet them first in The Morning.
and if you Don't greet Them First, they See it As an Insult to their person as a MAN...
Whats Wrong in them Saying Good morning First to Their Wife/Girlfriend/Spouse and she replying afterwards?

Whose Duty is it?
the man, the Woman, Or Both?


It seems like one of those unwritten rules......but then how i see it from my side, it has nothing to do with man/woman issue.......rather am older than you, therefore you must greet me first........But really I think if it has to do with spouses, whoever sees the other first should normally greet...

Sophie, what do you have to say of two friends (same gender)living together?.......it still do happen in this case.......

Yeah u right..But for the Highlighted..why?

Two friends same gender living together..me i dont care if u are older than me oooooooo..When i wake up in the morning..see u ..i greet..

These things Happens In women Alot..
and i hate it when one sees me in the morning and Say" HOW FAR?  Angry

Posted: at 13-07-2011 01:31 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- kebella at 13-07-2011 01:34 PM (13 years ago)
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i go with BS .............i prefer a peck on fore-face than greeting................though is not an obligation that a woman must greet first........when 2 re join 2gade they become one n' equal........... Cool  so no biggie!! is only timid that demand for such...........

Posted: at 13-07-2011 01:34 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- divineproject at 13-07-2011 01:37 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 13-07-2011 01:31 PM
Quote from: divineproject on 13-07-2011 01:26 PM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 13-07-2011 01:14 PM
Sometimes I Wonder Why (Most) men See it as a Duty For a Woman to Greet them first in The Morning.
and if you Don't greet Them First, they See it As an Insult to their person as a MAN...
Whats Wrong in them Saying Good morning First to Their Wife/Girlfriend/Spouse and she replying afterwards?

Whose Duty is it?
the man, the Woman, Or Both?


It seems like one of those unwritten rules......but then how i see it from my side, it has nothing to do with man/woman issue.......rather am older than you, therefore you must greet me first........But really I think if it has to do with spouses, whoever sees the other first should normally greet...

Sophie, what do you have to say of two friends (same gender)living together?.......it still do happen in this case.......

Yeah u right..But for the Highlighted..why?

Two friends same gender living together..me i dont care if u are older than me oooooooo..When i wake up in the morning..see u ..i greet..

These things Happens In women Alot..
and i hate it when one sees me in the morning and Say" HOW FAR?  Angry

Sophie, it is an unwritten law that you greet those older than you when you see them.........

The person saying 'how far' is trying to avoid being the first to greet.......imagine!

Posted: at 13-07-2011 01:37 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- bittersweet at 13-07-2011 01:38 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 13-07-2011 01:28 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 13-07-2011 01:20 PM
Hm!
I don't even like these greetings in the morning, but if he likes it,he's free to do it!


lolzzzzzzzzzzzzzz..

If i will have my way would have love getting married to a White, cos they don't care  Cheesy
here in Nigeria..its like u dont respect them when u dont greet them..not only Morning greetings thou  Shocked

Hmmmm,I noticed that greeting issue in your area,and actually here r a lot of ppl who think pretty similar
,so it's not a white thing,but personally I think it's too formal, and I don't like it!

Posted: at 13-07-2011 01:38 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- sophiebaby at 13-07-2011 01:40 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: kebella on 13-07-2011 01:34 PM
i go with BS .............i prefer a peck on fore-face than greeting................though is not an obligation that a woman must greet first........when 2 re join 2gade they become one n' equal........... Cool  so no biggie!! is only timid that demand for such...........

Mehnnnnnn..i feel So Horrible to hear a man say..Why dont u greet me in the morning?
but rada when he wants to on his..he say HOW FAR?

Posted: at 13-07-2011 01:40 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- kebella at 13-07-2011 01:40 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 13-07-2011 01:28 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 13-07-2011 01:20 PM
Hm!
I don't even like these greetings in the morning, but if he likes it,he's free to do it!


lolzzzzzzzzzzzzzz..

If i will have my way would have love getting married to a White, cos they don't care  Cheesy
here in Nigeria..its like u dont respect them when u dont greet them..not only Morning greetings thou  Shocked

some naija guys abroad or civilised ones at home dont care either............for me as yu make ur bed so yu lay on it.....some women can even postrait for a man to marry them ............what happen after the marriage if yu refuse to postrait as usual.........lol na divorce bi that.......... Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy some educated men in naija dont even care abt greeting...........rather they make breakfast on bed for their wife to say gud morning honey .......how was ur night..........buh for dumb-phyukers-............HELL NO!!

Posted: at 13-07-2011 01:40 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sophiebaby at 13-07-2011 01:41 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 13-07-2011 01:38 PM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 13-07-2011 01:28 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 13-07-2011 01:20 PM
Hm!
I don't even like these greetings in the morning, but if he likes it,he's free to do it!


lolzzzzzzzzzzzzzz..

If i will have my way would have love getting married to a White, cos they don't care  Cheesy
here in Nigeria..its like u dont respect them when u dont greet them..not only Morning greetings thou  Shocked

Hmmmm,I noticed that greeting issue in your area,and actually here r a lot of ppl who think pretty similar
,so it's not a white thing,but personally I think it's too formal, and I don't like it!


I see.. Cheesy

Posted: at 13-07-2011 01:41 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Mercies at 13-07-2011 01:42 PM (13 years ago)
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SPbaby you are right, even on phone he will call and wait for me to say good morning.
I just don't understand why
Posted: at 13-07-2011 01:42 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- kebella at 13-07-2011 01:43 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 13-07-2011 01:40 PM
Quote from: kebella on 13-07-2011 01:34 PM
i go with BS .............i prefer a peck on fore-face than greeting................though is not an obligation that a woman must greet first........when 2 re join 2gade they become one n' equal........... Cool  so no biggie!! is only timid that demand for such...........

Mehnnnnnn..i feel So Horrible to hear a man say..Why dont u greet me in the morning?
but rada when he wants to on his..he say HOW FAR?

ofcourse HOW FAR !! after a gud sex inda night............ Grin Grin Grin when someone ask yu such Q just ansa him quickly re yu my fada? respect is reciprocal................yu own no one any greeting if yu dont wanna greet.......... Sad

Posted: at 13-07-2011 01:43 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- kebella at 13-07-2011 01:44 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Mercies on 13-07-2011 01:42 PM
SPbaby you are right, even on phone he will call and wait for me to say good morning.
I just don't understand why

lol yu get issue  Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin

Posted: at 13-07-2011 01:44 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sophiebaby at 13-07-2011 01:45 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: kebella on 13-07-2011 01:40 PM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 13-07-2011 01:28 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 13-07-2011 01:20 PM
Hm!
I don't even like these greetings in the morning, but if he likes it,he's free to do it!


lolzzzzzzzzzzzzzz..

If i will have my way would have love getting married to a White, cos they don't care  Cheesy
here in Nigeria..its like u dont respect them when u dont greet them..not only Morning greetings thou  Shocked

some naija guys abroad or civilised ones at home dont care either............for me as yu make ur bed so yu lay on it.....some women can even postrait for a man to marry them ............what happen after the marriage if yu refuse to postrait as usual.........lol na divorce bi that.......... Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy some educated men in naija dont even care abt greeting...........rather they make breakfast on bed for their wife to say gud morning honey .......how was ur night..........buh for dumb-fcukers-............HELL NO!!

You are DAMN Right...

Which naija man go do Brkfast for woman wey still dey bed Kwanu?
Omo...u must wake up, say good mrng..wash d dishes,prepare brkfast for him oooooooo
Some men are boring u knw!!!

Posted: at 13-07-2011 01:45 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- bittersweet at 13-07-2011 01:46 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: kebella on 13-07-2011 01:34 PM
i go with BS .............i prefer a peck on fore-face than greeting................though is not an obligation that a woman must greet first........when 2 re join 2gade they become one n' equal........... Cool  so no biggie!! is only timid that demand for such...........

 Wink

Posted: at 13-07-2011 01:46 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- sophiebaby at 13-07-2011 01:46 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Mercies on 13-07-2011 01:42 PM
SPbaby you are right, even on phone he will call and wait for me to say good morning.
I just don't understand why

what Kinda Guy is that?
some men are boring u knw

Posted: at 13-07-2011 01:46 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- kebella at 13-07-2011 01:47 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 13-07-2011 01:45 PM
Quote from: kebella on 13-07-2011 01:40 PM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 13-07-2011 01:28 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 13-07-2011 01:20 PM
Hm!
I don't even like these greetings in the morning, but if he likes it,he's free to do it!


lolzzzzzzzzzzzzzz..

If i will have my way would have love getting married to a White, cos they don't care  Cheesy
here in Nigeria..its like u dont respect them when u dont greet them..not only Morning greetings thou  Shocked

some naija guys abroad or civilised ones at home dont care either............for me as yu make ur bed so yu lay on it.....some women can even postrait for a man to marry them ............what happen after the marriage if yu refuse to postrait as usual.........lol na divorce bi that.......... Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy some educated men in naija dont even care abt greeting...........rather they make breakfast on bed for their wife to say gud morning honey .......how was ur night..........buh for dumb-fcukers-............HELL NO!!

You are DAMN Right...

Which naija man go do Brkfast for woman wey still dey bed Kwanu?
Omo...u must wake up, say good mrng..wash d dishes,prepare brkfast for him oooooooo
Some men are boring u knw!!!
i feel yu lol real ones re scarce.............that's why yu need to hook up with available white folk...........fellas!! Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy

Posted: at 13-07-2011 01:47 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- calvin2b1000 at 13-07-2011 01:47 PM (13 years ago)
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respect is a reciprocal if need be them both either junior or senior reprocity of greetins should be practice

Posted: at 13-07-2011 01:47 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- kebella at 13-07-2011 01:49 PM (13 years ago)
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lol Cool

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