Do real friendship really developed from this site?

Date: 30-12-2008 12:23 pm (16 years ago) | Author: Linus Abba
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- at 30-12-2008 12:23 PM (16 years ago)
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This site- Naijapals according to my understanding should provide an avenue where genuine, honest-hearted Nigerians looking to make friends are supposed to meet. Maybe I am nut, but my presumption on this site is that members tend to be selective in terms of the town you stay or what they assumed you to be before initiating contact. I have tried to make friends on this site but most of them- especially the male folks would never have the courtesy to even acknowledge my courtesy. Funny thing is nobody really know who somebody is except you get to know that somebody. So my question is: Is this site really fulfilling its function? you tell me

Posted: at 30-12-2008 12:23 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie
- permanents at 30-12-2008 02:42 PM (16 years ago)
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The best thing is for you to create your own site if you think you are perfect or more educated than others.
Posted: at 30-12-2008 02:42 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie
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- Tcube at 30-12-2008 06:38 PM (16 years ago)
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I dont like making friends online because almost 99% of  profiles that I visit are fake..
Posted: at 30-12-2008 06:38 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie
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- Vixenx at 30-12-2008 06:50 PM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: Biglinus on 30-12-2008 12:23 PM
This site- Naijapals according to my understanding should provide an avenue where genuine, honest-hearted Nigerians looking to make friends are supposed to meet. Maybe I am nut, but my presumption on this site is that members tend to be selective in terms of the town you stay or what they assumed you to be before initiating contact. I have tried to make friends on this site but most of them- especially the male folks would never have the courtesy to even acknowledge my courtesy. Funny thing is nobody really know who somebody is except you get to know that somebody. So my question is: Is this site really fulfilling its function? you tell me

Quote from: Biglinus on 30-12-2008 12:23 PM
This site- Naijapals according to my understanding should provide an avenue where genuine, honest-hearted Nigerians looking to make friends are supposed to meet. Maybe I am nut, but my presumption on this site is that members tend to be selective in terms of the town you stay or what they assumed you to be before initiating contact. I have tried to make friends on this site but most of them- especially the male folks would never have the courtesy to even acknowledge my courtesy. Funny thing is nobody really know who somebody is except you get to know that somebody. So my question is: Is this site really fulfilling its function? you tell me

I won't say you're wrong, but most of the people here are already friends from another site or know each other personally. But i agree we should all get to know one another especially when we're all over the globe and this is the closest you can get to meet and know your own people. My intention on this site was to get accustomed to the Nigerian customs and learn pidgin because i didn't get the chance to do that while in naija. You can't force anyone to be friends with you because ppl come here with different things in mind, and plus sometimes the people that requested to be your friend sometimes turn on you so you can't really be opened to become everyone's friend like that. Just take your time and  true ppl will come. I have so many ppl as pals, but only few of them are really close because i know them very well........

And you have so many weirdos here too so u can never be too sure!
Posted: at 30-12-2008 06:50 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- presciousoluchi at 30-12-2008 07:37 PM (16 years ago)
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u have said it all

Posted: at 30-12-2008 07:37 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- baloo at 30-12-2008 09:09 PM (16 years ago)
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sometimes yes
Posted: at 30-12-2008 09:09 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Bukkee9109 at 2-01-2009 03:33 AM (16 years ago)
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There's only one way to find out ! lol
Posted: at 2-01-2009 03:33 AM (16 years ago) | Newbie
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- stealth_biatch at 2-01-2009 07:15 AM (16 years ago)
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really depends on the kinda friendship u are talkn bout ... but yeah ... I've got really cool friends on here ... and I'm glad I met 'em ... e.g. ma twin !!

Posted: at 2-01-2009 07:15 AM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- 9jabb at 2-01-2009 11:11 AM (16 years ago)
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it can why not???is the same as u wd meet a person in a bar or on teh street...and after u just give the id of messenger and you talk there... so...if they like each other they will meet and after...they will see so... Shocked Shocked Shocked Grin ;Dsearch
Posted: at 2-01-2009 11:11 AM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
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- kelzteady at 2-01-2009 12:50 PM (16 years ago)
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yeah there are good people
i think it depends on the form of frienship
you want in here
Posted: at 2-01-2009 12:50 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
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- ekenteje at 6-01-2009 04:17 PM (16 years ago)
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You are right, good people are here, it all depends on what you really want. Although we still have fake once, but i tell you my dear some nice once are here too. So i advice you keep searching, you will see. Cheers


Posted: at 6-01-2009 04:17 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie
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- eyenakwaibom at 7-01-2009 06:50 AM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: Bukkee9109 on  2-01-2009 03:33 AM
There's only one way to find out ! lol

can u tell me the way pls?
Posted: at 7-01-2009 06:50 AM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
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- eyenakwaibom at 7-01-2009 06:55 AM (16 years ago)
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wateva,i dont think friendship is worth searching,but i dont know what you want,me im friendly n open,anyone that wants to be my friend its ok with me,but if u dont i wont force u,but i wish u luck in your search,only God knows what you are looking for,but i think this is the best place to be as a Nigerian,i hope u find your good heart Desire.
Posted: at 7-01-2009 06:55 AM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Sweetextreem at 7-01-2009 06:09 PM (16 years ago)
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It takes a 2nd to make some one ur frnd.Wat i do nt undastnd is y are pple nt actualy real for a 2nd.Wel,kip searchin.Lol
Posted: at 7-01-2009 06:09 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie
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- jan at 7-01-2009 06:45 PM (16 years ago)
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nuttin is impossible.

Sure u can meet good pple here.

Those who arent fake anyway.
Posted: at 7-01-2009 06:45 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie
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- ezeth at 17-01-2009 05:48 PM (16 years ago)
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As jan has rightly said am a real guy and i need a good and respectful girl..
Posted: at 17-01-2009 05:48 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie
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- caseycute at 17-01-2009 11:18 PM (16 years ago)
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they do and they should but that's if ure dealing wiv d rite person some just want to play sha!
Posted: at 17-01-2009 11:18 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Rashy23 at 18-01-2009 01:49 PM (16 years ago)
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i think there really wonderful lovely creatures in here ,so definitely u can can d best friend of ur life
 . as 4 me am friendly to everyone . u will find me nice to be with.
Posted: at 18-01-2009 01:49 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie
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- wof at 20-01-2009 12:23 AM (16 years ago)
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i want to really make friend so just prompt me if you want of make freind
Posted: at 20-01-2009 12:23 AM (16 years ago) | Newbie
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- nollylove at 31-05-2009 03:30 AM (15 years ago)
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Posted: at 31-05-2009 03:30 AM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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