Is it a healthy practice for married people to flirt?

Flirting means to behave as though attracted to or trying to attract someone, but without serious intentions. In other words, it means to experiment with or show a superficial interest in someone without committing oneself to it/them seriously...it is more or less like a game, you know, something one does for fun or just for the fun of it.

Flirting is not cheating...the fact that one engages in flirting does not necessarily mean one is cheating or intends to cheat on his/her partner however, this game called flirting, if not carefully played, most often than not can send the wrong signals...as a matter of fact, it does sends the wrong signals most times. Just like HIV/AIDs is a deadly virus that slowly kills the human imune system, flirting has that capacity of being a deadly virus that can slowly reduce the level of trust in our relationship/marriage.

So, my question is, do you think it is healthy for married people to be involved in the game of flirting?

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Posted: at 26-08-2012 10:26 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

yeah

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Posted: at 26-08-2012 12:00 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

single men n women? why not?

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Posted: at 26-08-2012 01:37 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Married ppl shudn b flirting , even if its not cheating it will lead to it.....

Posted: at 26-08-2012 07:59 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero

u hav a point...but you know most married ppl who flirt hold on to excuses like...my wife/husband understands, he/she knows what i can and cannot do blah blah blah ...forgetting that even "understanding" self get limit wen e go reach e go become "confusion"

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Posted: at 26-08-2012 08:36 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

single and married at d same time? bros how is that possible na?

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Posted: at 26-08-2012 09:33 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

you sharrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrap dia, who put ya mouth for dis?

Posted: at 26-08-2012 10:19 PM (12 years ago) | Grande Master

guy...everybody flirts every once in a while

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Posted: at 26-08-2012 10:41 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

u dont see...u kno

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Posted: at 27-08-2012 06:26 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

if he is not married and single at the same time..... why wuld he say dat flirt is not gud 4 single men and women not to talk of legally married?.., while he alwayz flirts hia....u sef think am naa.........abi he wan deceive us make we no flirt.., so dat he alone with flirt wit every woman on earth?

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Posted: at 27-08-2012 06:44 AM (12 years ago) | Hero