they like the one that use full juju
hehehehhe
lol, too funny.
Most of them just have serious issues, thats it. They know nobody in their right senses would put up with the things that do so they go looking for a wife in places they know the women are more likely to settle. They are the ones more likely to say ignorant things like 'western women have no respect' ' there is no good woman in the uk or America' 'naija girls in Nigerian are more faithful than naija girls abroad' as if all women in a country are the same. There are good and bad, respectful and disrespectful girls everywhere and if the reason you are going to Nigeria to marry is because there is no good girl in London or wherever (like you've met all the girls there) then maybe you have issues that you need to be be honest about and deal with. These girls get smart quickly and you will end up getting divorced in 2mins.
I'm not saying thats always the case, some just want to get married quickly, want a more options and other reasons, but if you are going to Nigeria to marry because there are no good girls in London or wherever, deal with you issues.
Same goes for women, that 'there is not good man' thing is serious bullshit, you're attracting the wrong men (find out why, fix it), you've settling for less (raise your standard), those are the men readily available in the places you frequent ( try new things, broaden your horizon) or maybe you have a repulsive attitude. I'm not saying those the the only reasons, but taking those into consideration help.
Hmmm!!! do one need to date all the women to know what is good for him???
If men complains that there arent good enough women around, then they have reasons. You might be a good woman, but are you free??? ready to marry??? the fact is, the good ones are already married or are in relationships !!!
A man dating a woman who just left her man is suspicious??? Nigeria women home and abroad, are desperate for money or the good things of life.
Going back home to marry has to do with Ego!! At least you are sure that her last boyfriend is still in naija, when you bring her here!! even if she learns fast, you still have time to make her be yours !!
The few single women one finds around in Europe are full of Problems that a man would hardly cope with!!! going back to Naija gives you the best oppurtunity to sample from!! You can have the best of your taste and the one with the profession you desired.
it cost alot to bring a woman from Naija and if she turns out to be a fake ?? badluck!!!
You may not agree with me, but it was the same reason that lots of my friend went home for, There were those that left here for London thinking same,well it just turned out not to be and some are already in the third or more relationships!!! it is hard to define;
COULD IT BE THAT YOU SINGLE WOMEN IN EUROPE ARE DISAPPOINTED IN THE MEN THAT DO THAT??? AND YOU INDOCTRINATE THE NEW WOMEN INTO YOUR WAYS; SO AS TO PUNISH US??? SOMEHOW YOU FEEL REJECTED AND HAPPY TO SPREAD THE NEWS OF A BROKEN MARRIAGE!!!!!!!!! HMMM; ME THINK SO!!!
Posted: at 8-11-2010 11:53 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie |
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