Why do Nigerians Abroad Like To Go Back 'Home' To Marry (Page 8)

nice post 4rm u juliet,is tru dat some guys go back home to get married,well i dont blame dem is a matter of choice but i blive dat women her d same world wide a lady in western country understand hw things are been run but d 'imported' lady who is been given $100 a month will appreciate it but d moment she is here her needs will increase and dat $100 is nothing to her, 4rm der alot of misunderstandin comes in,I am a guy i will like 2 advice my fellow guys 2 get marry were they are and pray.luv is universal

Posted: at 9-11-2010 01:59 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

Now thats a first...I appreciate it.

Posted: at 9-11-2010 02:18 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

come on girl, u dont have to callthem fool just cos they dont want to marry African westernized wife!!! it is a matter of choice, when some one choice is dife from urs u dont have to see him or her as a fool.... REMEMBER IT IS A FREE WORLD

Posted: at 9-11-2010 03:47 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

@Prince316.... my brother you got it right, i know what guys who got married there is going through... hellllll

Posted: at 9-11-2010 04:46 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

Posted: at 9-11-2010 06:22 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie

Man, you have just said my mind. But where are all those our sisters that meant relationship with all seriousness, pains and goodies that it demands, especially here in Germany?

Could those who want them (our naija babes) be lucky to meet them? Or are they existing in particular clique or zone, may be, the one of which I do not belong or know about?

Searching, searching and searching. I think some just give up and travel home where it is a certainty and varied to find.

In summary, I think Divine intervention is the key to find the right one.

No one is right or right, but there are those who are ready for family life and those who are not naturally family orientated, be a man or woman.

Thanks and bye for now.

from
Chris

Posted: at 9-11-2010 09:56 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Ok, If you say so..

Posted: at 10-11-2010 04:53 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Omorewa,though i don't know u but u are saying the fact my dear,i have seen somuch here in my country.Men go home and get married and the end Zero for them.

Posted: at 10-11-2010 12:49 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie

I feel that this is just complete nonsense. Cumming in her mouth cannot be the reason why he left his babe. Where are such babes? I think most guys dream of this, but find almost none.

It's complete scrap for one to believe this. There may be other causes for their separation, if the whole story is true.

I think we should be wiser than this at this computer age.

The main problem for living abroad Naija guys is to find the Naija babes nearby who are free, not only free, but those who actually come over here with a purpose than looking for money. Yes, looking for money is good, but we must all accept that the lifestyle overseas (Euro-America-Asia can turn one into a certain lifestyle which s/he may not have tried at all. Some guys turn to Dada (Rastafarians), Homoeosegxwals, Drug dealers and or Addicts, Gigolos, Ear ring wearers, shoplifting, and other vices while most women enter the aged long (old)  vocation - prostitution and unfaithful to their partners. Unfaithfulness is also much much more in Nigeria.
 
In all, I think it is still wiser to find a person where one is with a person who understands the reality on the ground, than travelling to Africa to later face the reality of life abroad after a few years with hard labour to trolley her over here with endless documentations.

The truth recently is that most of our guys have turned to Kenya women in Germany than  Nigerian ladies. A lot encourage us to look/check at those our East African sisters. I know at least, nine families (Naija men -Kenya woemn. They feel and live happily and work together to make showcase success in Nigeria.

Our ladies, I advise those who cares, to find ot what's wrong? Is it our/your too much love for money, our upbringing style, over zealous lifestyle or our Naija society value syndrome?

Thanks and bye for now.

from
Chris

Posted: at 10-11-2010 07:32 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

wow  funny.let him cheack her self?well

Posted: at 10-11-2010 11:30 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie