Why do Nigerians Abroad Like To Go Back 'Home' To Marry (Page 8)

Date: 05-11-2010 2:01 am (11 years ago) | Author: Jesus for president
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- chik001 at 9-11-2010 01:37 PM (11 years ago)
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Like Fela say:
 Lady na master. is all about them; The worst is African westernized ones.
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- 2000y247 at 9-11-2010 01:59 PM (11 years ago)
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nice post 4rm u juliet,is tru dat some guys go back home to get married,well i dont blame dem is a matter of choice but i blive dat women her d same world wide a lady in western country understand hw things are been run but d 'imported' lady who is been given $100 a month will appreciate it but d moment she is here her needs will increase and dat $100 is nothing to her, 4rm der alot of misunderstandin comes in,I am a guy i will like 2 advice my fellow guys 2 get marry were they are and pray.luv is universal
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- Bestheart at 9-11-2010 02:13 PM (11 years ago)
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Is because of food
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- juleshotluv at 9-11-2010 02:18 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: 2000y247 on  9-11-2010 01:59 PM
nice post 4rm u juliet,is tru dat some guys go back home to get married,well i dont blame dem is a matter of choice but i blive dat women her d same world wide a lady in western country understand hw things are been run but d 'imported' lady who is been given $100 a month will appreciate it but d moment she is here her needs will increase and dat $100 is nothing to her, 4rm der alot of misunderstandin comes in,I am a guy i will like 2 advice my fellow guys 2 get marry were they are and pray.luv is universal

Now thats a first...I appreciate it. Cheesy
Posted: at 9-11-2010 02:18 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Slimme at 9-11-2010 03:30 PM (11 years ago)
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I think those one dat goes home to marry are either d fools who av played around & are running from their past, or d idiots that are not man enough to choose for theirselves... Both parties end up having theirselves to blame, becos the always fall into d wrong...as in wrongest hand(Pardon my language).....  Shocked Shocked Tongue
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- prince316 at 9-11-2010 03:47 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: Slimme on  9-11-2010 03:30 PM
I think those one dat goes home to marry are either d fools who av played around & are running from their past, or d idiots that are not man enough to choose for theirselves... Both parties end up having theirselves to blame, becos the always fall into d wrong...as in wrongest hand(Pardon my language).....  Shocked Shocked Tongue

come on girl, u dont have to callthem fool just cos they dont want to marry African westernized wife!!! it is a matter of choice, when some one choice is dife from urs u dont have to see him or her as a fool.... REMEMBER IT IS A FREE WORLD
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- kingsgoodman at 9-11-2010 04:42 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: dorrisbaby on  9-11-2010 12:17 PM
dey ar just beenig foolish , i think igbo guy do that..........

i can see tribalism here, talking about IGBO BOYS.
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- kingsgoodman at 9-11-2010 04:46 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: prince316 on  9-11-2010 01:31 PM
it is a matter of choice... it all depend on the part of the europe u stay i dont know about UK, but i know most guys that get married in Italy 80to 90% of them are not happy with what they got!!!


@Prince316.... my brother you got it right, i know what guys who got married there is going through... hellllll
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- Dee4evr at 9-11-2010 05:49 PM (11 years ago)
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I think it all boils down to respect for cultural values. Wanting someone that you both share almost similar understanding of what marriage means.
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- JOYSTY at 9-11-2010 06:22 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: omorewa on  5-11-2010 02:28 AM
i knew a guy.. he complained so much about London babes how bad they are... he said he has a decent lady in naija... as soon as he brought her to London after 1month she dumped him... she even get tribal mark... 
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HEHEHE...GOOD FOR HIM....STUPID.
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- kenbrown11 at 9-11-2010 07:56 PM (11 years ago)
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 :)JUJU PASS JUJU MY SISTER... EUROPE JUJU IS PIZZA AND CHICKEN AND CHIPS..

BUY NAIJA JUJU... FACE TO FACE.. BEFORE NA SPIRITUAL NOW NA PHYSICAL...

ABEG NO COMPARE HAM OO
I de fill u
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- igbonnanna at 9-11-2010 09:56 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: typicalman84 on  9-11-2010 05:16 AM
I would rather get married to a woman whom i know very much that is 'unfortunately' rotten THAN wasting my Money to fly back to Nigeria and then having to waste my money to organize travel documents for this so-called holier than though girl who will end up being rotten after she must've been exposed to the western culture and then probably dump me for some akata or oyibo man. Good thing about an already spoilt, rotten girl is that the time for her to call it quits are very much closer... and that is if she hasn't gotten tired of the immature and meaningless lifestyle.... But for the so called fresh girl you'll bring from Nigeria, you'll have to wait for 20 years for her to be called back to reality. Before I leave here, I would love to say that Sex with rotten girls are so dang good too becos they know how to put in some work if you know what I mean. And i believe every man would love to have a woman whom will keep their penises at one place.

Man, you have just said my mind. But where are all those our sisters that meant relationship with all seriousness, pains and goodies that it demands, especially here in Germany?

Could those who want them (our naija babes) be lucky to meet them? Or are they existing in particular clique or zone, may be, the one of which I do not belong or know about?

Searching, searching and searching. I think some just give up and travel home where it is a certainty and varied to find.

In summary, I think Divine intervention is the key to find the right one.

No one is right or right, but there are those who are ready for family life and those who are not naturally family orientated, be a man or woman.

Thanks and bye for now.

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Chris
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- typicalman84 at 10-11-2010 01:23 AM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: juleshotluv on  9-11-2010 01:20 PM
Quote from: typicalman84 on  9-11-2010 05:19 AM
And as for the dude who is complaining that his woman always wants him to cum in her mouth...if you do not like it, I would gladly volunteer to cum in your girls mouth all the time... I'm sure she would love it.

you want to be hanged by saying this dont you? I almost got chewed..

Haha... No Hun... Not Typicalman84. None of them have the impetus to say crap to me.

Posted: at 10-11-2010 01:23 AM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- juleshotluv at 10-11-2010 04:53 AM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: typicalman84 on 10-11-2010 01:23 AM
Quote from: juleshotluv on  9-11-2010 01:20 PM
Quote from: typicalman84 on  9-11-2010 05:19 AM
And as for the dude who is complaining that his woman always wants him to cum in her mouth...if you do not like it, I would gladly volunteer to cum in your girls mouth all the time... I'm sure she would love it.

you want to be hanged by saying this dont you? I almost got chewed..

Haha... No Hun... Not Typicalman84. None of them have the impetus to say crap to me.

Ok, If you say so..
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- devid75 at 10-11-2010 08:00 AM (11 years ago)
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 An active sex life is the key to a longer life for men only if they are faithful to their partners, a new research has found.

Italian medical researchers have found that a healthy sex life means fewer cardiovascular problems for men.

"What was evident from the research was that men who had active sex lives and were faithful to their partners had fewer cardiovascular complaints and lived longer," the Telegraph quoted Emmanuele Jannini, coordinator of the research, as saying.

"Increased segxwal activity produces more testosterone, which leads to less depression and a better cardiovascular performance which means an improved metabolism," said Jannini.

Jannini said the study has revealed that those who were unfaithful had a poor cardiovascular performance because they were "also coping with the increased stress of their infidelity."

She said that an increased amount of testosterone produced during sex was good for men because it burned off excess sugars and reduced the risk of heart disease.

"People who have diabetes especially benefit from a healthy sex life and an active sex life also helps avoid prostate problems for men," she added.

The Italian Society of segxwal Medicine carried out the study. (ANI)

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- reginauyimwen at 10-11-2010 12:49 PM (11 years ago)
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Omorewa,though i don't know u but u are saying the fact my dear,i have seen somuch here in my country.Men go home and get married and the end Zero for them.
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- ajiluv at 10-11-2010 04:07 PM (11 years ago)
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so many ideas running on my mind i would  love to shear it when im in the mood.ways to stop our men from going back home to get local champion babes,with sincierity we knw we v got lots of walk to do..........and our men must erase such phyuking ideas of their mind.
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- igbonnanna at 10-11-2010 07:32 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: typicalman84 on 10-11-2010 01:23 AM
Quote from: juleshotluv on  9-11-2010 01:20 PM
Quote from: typicalman84 on  9-11-2010 05:19 AM
And as for the dude who is complaining that his woman always wants him to cum in her mouth...if you do not like it, I would gladly volunteer to cum in your girls mouth all the time... I'm sure she would love it.

you want to be hanged by saying this dont you? I almost got chewed..

Haha... No Hun... Not Typicalman84. None of them have the impetus to say crap to me.

I feel that this is just complete nonsense. Cumming in her mouth cannot be the reason why he left his babe. Where are such babes? I think most guys dream of this, but find almost none.

It's complete scrap for one to believe this. There may be other causes for their separation, if the whole story is true.

I think we should be wiser than this at this computer age.

The main problem for living abroad Naija guys is to find the Naija babes nearby who are free, not only free, but those who actually come over here with a purpose than looking for money. Yes, looking for money is good, but we must all accept that the lifestyle overseas (Euro-America-Asia can turn one into a certain lifestyle which s/he may not have tried at all. Some guys turn to Dada (Rastafarians), Homoeosegxwals, Drug dealers and or Addicts, Gigolos, Ear ring wearers, shoplifting, and other vices while most women enter the aged long (old)  vocation - prostitution and unfaithful to their partners. Unfaithfulness is also much much more in Nigeria.
 
In all, I think it is still wiser to find a person where one is with a person who understands the reality on the ground, than travelling to Africa to later face the reality of life abroad after a few years with hard labour to trolley her over here with endless documentations.

The truth recently is that most of our guys have turned to Kenya women in Germany than  Nigerian ladies. A lot encourage us to look/check at those our East African sisters. I know at least, nine families (Naija men -Kenya woemn. They feel and live happily and work together to make showcase success in Nigeria.

Our ladies, I advise those who cares, to find ot what's wrong? Is it our/your too much love for money, our upbringing style, over zealous lifestyle or our Naija society value syndrome?

Thanks and bye for now.

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Chris
Posted: at 10-11-2010 07:32 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sixtyhoneyy at 10-11-2010 11:09 PM (11 years ago)
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anyway i hv no ideal about nigeria girl's
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- stlove at 10-11-2010 11:30 PM (11 years ago)
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wow  funny.let him cheack her self?well
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