![-]( "sophiebaby") sophiebaby at 11-04-2011 03:49 PM (14 years ago)  (f) I see, so he is you ex? and I am the next?
Am I right?
nope u not..
u arent the next, i have no next aside my waco
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :* | Posted: at 11-04-2011 03:49 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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Reading and taking notes................. 
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND! | Posted: at 11-04-2011 03:51 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "nametalkam") nametalkam at 11-04-2011 03:52 PM (14 years ago) (m) Women are heartless :'( :'( :'(
I specialize in investigative reportage across several subject matter and sectors but mainly focus on metro events and investigation. Do leave your thoughts and opinion on my reports to let me know what you think about them. Thank you | Posted: at 11-04-2011 03:52 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "sophiebaby") sophiebaby at 11-04-2011 03:58 PM (14 years ago) (f) Women are heartless :'( :'( :'(
 pls dont cry nowwwwwwwww is just dat i only wanna be a frnd on Np.. i love my waco oooooooo cos only him na im understand me.. i need him now more than ever.. sorry Nametalkam..no cry again e yahhhhhh!
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :* | Posted: at 11-04-2011 03:58 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "dirtykid") dirtykid at 11-04-2011 04:02 PM (14 years ago) (m)
DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !! | Posted: at 11-04-2011 04:02 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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As the head of the family, I am in full control and I have a happy and lovely family.
Who Jah Blessed, No Man Cursed...... | Posted: at 11-04-2011 04:09 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "blessedme") blessedme at 11-04-2011 04:09 PM (14 years ago) (f) ma bros i dey oo....ow ya end naa | Posted: at 11-04-2011 04:09 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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So now now dem don break somebody heart?......e mean say egg strong pass this heart self........
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND! | Posted: at 11-04-2011 04:10 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "blessedme") blessedme at 11-04-2011 04:10 PM (14 years ago) (f) Wetin na?.......why you dey put eyes for Diplo and Dirty matter?.....close ur eyes jor and pass.... pls i need eyes drop oooo.......i cant fit shout ooo | Posted: at 11-04-2011 04:10 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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Learning...  | Posted: at 11-04-2011 04:13 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND! | Posted: at 11-04-2011 04:19 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "estilizo") estilizo at 11-04-2011 05:21 PM (14 years ago) (f) How to deal with them:
- U shouldn't present urself in such a way that he/she finds it easily to overshadow u.
- When d controlling person is ur spouse/partner/close friend/colleague,u can't ignore him/her completely.In such a situation,u need to show ur full cooperation.Make him/her feel that both of u work as a team & that neither of u is the Lord or the master.
- In order to facilitate a response in ur favor,u should express ur feelings in a levelheaded way.Communicate with them about d fact that u feel offended by their strange behavior.
-They often dominate others & become aggressive when they r not listened or agreed to.While dealing with such ppl,u shouldn't project yourself as a weak person,bcz they might take u for granted & start imposing their "rules" upon u.
- It's their way to make u believe that u can't do things without them.In this case,u need to make it loud & clear that u can still make decisions on ur own.Show them that u just want to share things with them,instead of depending upon their support.
- These ppl,by all means,want others to obey them.In d process,they often make pitiable faces as to gain sympathy from others. They may even show anger or go to d extent of crying to get their things done.While dealing with them,u shouldn't surrender urself. Instead,just walk away from d situation,with a smile on ur face.
KUDOS BS
THE BEST WAY TO REVENGE IS TO FORGIVE..........FORGIVE THE TEARS OF A HURTFUL PAST. | Posted: at 11-04-2011 05:21 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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if a lady feels am controlling her and its hurting her...i'd stop now!! | Posted: at 11-04-2011 05:22 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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He/she keeps track of your relationships. A controlling person will try to cause trouble between u & ur family or friends.This is in order to isolate u from others.
Does the person ignore ur experience?Controllers attempt to define ur reality.If u say u're tired & d person says u're not, that's a good sign he or she is a controlling person.
Notice people who get frustrated with normal questions.Controlling ppl often assume that they understand how u think, even when they actually don't.They may become frustrated because their constructed image of u is at odds with what u say.
Be on d lookout for moodiness. Ppl with moody personalities r often unhappy with their own lives & try to improve their situation by controlling others.
Be aware of people who don't seem to understand d word "no" & who will insist until they wear u down to make u give in.
Consider if u r often expected to change ur plans for this person.Let's say u have ur day all planned out & then u receive a phone call from a friend,& u tell them ur plans.The person wants to join in with ur plans,with d exception that ur time doesn't work well for them,or maybe that isn't d place they want to go.The next thing that u know,ur plans have totally changed.U end up seeing a movie that u didn't care to see,at a time that u didn't really care to go.
Listen for compliments.Often ppl with control issues r not very good at giving sincere compliments.They don't want u to feel good about yourself because it may take control & attention away from them.
Be on d lookout for not only moodiness,but temper outbursts by d other person when u disagree with them or don't do exactly what they want u to do. In their minds,u r challenging their authority over u.
But,keep in mind, just because someone is opinionated doesn't mean they r controlling. A good test to tell d difference between some1 who is just very opinionated or controlling is if they willingly accept or tolerate differences between u and them and don't try to change any part of ur core person or personality.
If u really love this person things can be much more difficult.Most ppl who r controlling always throw in d argument the words "U r d problem" or U have a problem." Nothing is ever their fault.
They always use words like " do this" ", "if u leave", "u need to...", etc.
They can be very generous & seem to give u lots of things.So u always feel like u're benefiting from them in some way & so owe them something. They then use that obligation u feel towards them to control u.
[/quote]....i dey feel yu jor | Posted: at 11-04-2011 05:22 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "sophiebaby") sophiebaby at 11-04-2011 05:24 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :* | Posted: at 11-04-2011 05:24 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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......thumpps up!! Bitter SWEAT | Posted: at 11-04-2011 05:26 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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