Abusive Relationship! CONTROLLING MEN (Page 3)

Quote from: blessedme on 11-04-2011 01:29 PM

Wetin na?.......why you dey put eyes for Diplo and Dirty matter?.....close ur eyes jor and pass....

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Posted: at 11-04-2011 01:34 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

Hehehehe... I guess she never saw a polar bear hugging before, thats why the shock 

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Posted: at 11-04-2011 01:38 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

i did dear..hope urs was awesome as well 

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Posted: at 11-04-2011 01:41 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

I'm pretty sure sweetpie, If is a lie, Let me naked before taking shower 

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Posted: at 11-04-2011 01:43 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

@ dirtyk see u ...u wan bath with cloth b4  

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Posted: at 11-04-2011 01:44 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

There's diff between a Real Man and a Controlling Man

And "I" dont ever want to have anything to do with a controlling man.. Ever! 

Posted: at 11-04-2011 01:54 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

Who knows, maybe he baths with his clothes on..........

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Posted: at 11-04-2011 02:01 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

i trust u for dat,, i no need controle over everytin..i like it wen my man step up and b the man
of d house at d right time, dusn mean i got nottin to say tho.

Posted: at 11-04-2011 02:04 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

How to know a controlling man???


1. He has a history of drug abuse and/or alcohol, and possibly violence.

2. He has record of being arrested for domestic violence. Do your homework and if possible the background check to know more about him. According to a poll of over 500 women on WomanSavers.com, over 50% of women google a person’s name before dating.

3. He has a poor or no relationship with his mother or ex partners.

4. He speaks negatively about all his past relationships, blaming them always. If at all possible, try to speak to these women to hear their point of view. If he badmouths them, you may be next.

5. He exhibits an over-bearing, aggressive personality. You may be attracted by his apparent confidence, strength, determination and aggressive personality – the kind of qualities you think you lack. However, this personality type can also be a red flag for abusive behavior.

6. He talks at length, bragging about himself. This self-obsessed behavior is frequently seen in abusive men.

7. He expects a big return on his venture. He may seem happy to put your needs and wishes first for a little while, but it will not be long before he throws it in your face by saying: “Look at everything I do for you. You owe me!”

8. The relationship moves forward very quick. Abusive men persuade as fast as they can. They know that they cannot sustain consistent good behavior for very long. Good behavior does not give them the pay off they want, controlling through abuse does.

9. You catch him telling lies. There are areas of his life that he is not telling you about or is lying to you about because he may lose you.

10. He is interested in everything you have to say and coincidentally always agrees. This is a sneaky technique called mirroring and can later be used to control you by developing trust.

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Posted: at 11-04-2011 02:08 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

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Very very true..
am loving this!!!

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Posted: at 11-04-2011 02:15 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero