What do i do?

Date: 27-07-2009 4:43 pm (14 years ago) | Author: MEL
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- at 27-07-2009 04:43 PM (14 years ago)
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I have a girlfriend i have been with for more than a year now and i love her so much. Unfortunately she is now telling that she wants to leave me because she is not sure if she still feels anything for me, she also says that she knows how loving i am and i would not be fair to me if she stays and not give back all the love and that she is very sorry for treating me wrong. Am presently going through some difficult times and she says for the good things and for the love i have always shown her that she will stay and when everything is ok she will leave me and its something she must do. I feel bad about this and she knows, she says that she would not want me to have anyother relationship until she is far and long gone. I love this girl and do want us to continue but she seems to be confused and uncertain about us. Do i get another girlfriend before she breaks my heart or do i let her go first? What do i do ?

Posted: at 27-07-2009 04:43 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
- SexyJuly at 27-07-2009 04:46 PM (14 years ago)
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Wetin u dey wait 4?
Posted: at 27-07-2009 04:46 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- erikaakpan at 27-07-2009 04:49 PM (14 years ago)
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hey melvin.....
dnt hold on to a love tht is not there...let it go

Posted: at 27-07-2009 04:49 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- SexyJuly at 27-07-2009 04:53 PM (14 years ago)
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Just continue with ur life, ok? do not be draged back by the past.
Posted: at 27-07-2009 04:53 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- HOPEA23 at 27-07-2009 08:07 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: melvinsweet22 on 27-07-2009 04:43 PM
I have a girlfriend i have been with for more than a year now and i love her so much. Unfortunately she is now telling that she wants to leave me because she is not sure if she still feels anything for me, she also says that she knows how loving i am and i would not be fair to me if she stays and not give back all the love and that she is very sorry for treating me wrong. Am presently going through some difficult times and she says for the good things and for the love i have always shown her that she will stay and when everything is ok she will leave me and its something she must do. I feel bad about this and she knows, she says that she would not want me to have anyother relationship until she is far and long gone. I love this girl and do want us to continue but she seems to be confused and uncertain about us. Do i get another girlfriend before she breaks my heart or do i let her go first? What do i do ?
no...go out there and go look for another gurl...f**k her she dont tell you when to start datin another

Posted: at 27-07-2009 08:07 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- ekama at 27-07-2009 08:09 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: melvinsweet22 on 27-07-2009 04:43 PM
I have a girlfriend i have been with for more than a year now and i love her so much. Unfortunately she is now telling that she wants to leave me because she is not sure if she still feels anything for me, she also says that she knows how loving i am and i would not be fair to me if she stays and not give back all the love and that she is very sorry for treating me wrong. Am presently going through some difficult times and she says for the good things and for the love i have always shown her that she will stay and when everything is ok she will leave me and its something she must do. I feel bad about this and she knows, she says that she would not want me to have anyother relationship until she is far and long gone. I love this girl and do want us to continue but she seems to be confused and uncertain about us. Do i get another girlfriend before she breaks my heart or do i let her go first? What do i do ?
story
Posted: at 27-07-2009 08:09 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- Beauti4 at 27-07-2009 08:10 PM (14 years ago)
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look for another.
Posted: at 27-07-2009 08:10 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- ekama at 27-07-2009 08:11 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: Beauti4 on 27-07-2009 08:10 PM
look for another.
donate urself
Posted: at 27-07-2009 08:11 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- Beauti4 at 27-07-2009 08:38 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: ekama on 27-07-2009 08:11 PM
Quote from: Beauti4 on 27-07-2009 08:10 PM
look for another.
donate urself

i wont unless u tell me to shut up like b4.
Posted: at 27-07-2009 08:38 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- kzee9ja at 27-07-2009 10:00 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: SexyJuly on 27-07-2009 04:46 PM
Wetin u dey wait 4?


heartbreak

Posted: at 27-07-2009 10:00 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- ktalent at 28-07-2009 12:13 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: melvinsweet22 on 27-07-2009 04:43 PM
I have a girlfriend i have been with for more than a year now and i love her so much. Unfortunately she is now telling that she wants to leave me because she is not sure if she still feels anything for me, she also says that she knows how loving i am and i would not be fair to me if she stays and not give back all the love and that she is very sorry for treating me wrong. Am presently going through some difficult times and she says for the good things and for the love i have always shown her that she will stay and when everything is ok she will leave me and its something she must do. I feel bad about this and she knows, she says that she would not want me to have anyother relationship until she is far and long gone. I love this girl and do want us to continue but she seems to be confused and uncertain about us. Do i get another girlfriend before she breaks my heart or do i let her go first? What do i do ?

Well, sometimes we gotta let the ones we love go, nd if dey cum back like d prodigal son, we accept them when d feeling's still there nd no one has replaced them.

i might b talkin rubbish buh damn, i feel for you.

Posted: at 28-07-2009 12:13 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- ceejay58 at 28-07-2009 12:42 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: melvinsweet22 on 27-07-2009 04:43 PM
I have a girlfriend i have been with for more than a year now and i love her so much. Unfortunately she is now telling that she wants to leave me because she is not sure if she still feels anything for me, she also says that she knows how loving i am and i would not be fair to me if she stays and not give back all the love and that she is very sorry for treating me wrong. Am presently going through some difficult times and she says for the good things and for the love i have always shown her that she will stay and when everything is ok she will leave me and its something she must do. I feel bad about this and she knows, she says that she would not want me to have anyother relationship until she is far and long gone. I love this girl and do want us to continue but she seems to be confused and uncertain about us. Do i get another girlfriend before she breaks my heart or do i let her go first? What do i do ?

i really think she's bn sincere with u so u shouldn't talk about heartbreak here ok? just let her go and begin to love urself 4 now. concentrate more on whateva it is u re doing now to improve ur conditions. later u ll find someone meant 4 u.
Posted: at 28-07-2009 12:42 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- myragonza at 28-07-2009 04:22 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: melvinsweet22 on 27-07-2009 04:43 PM
I have a girlfriend i have been with for more than a year now and i love her so much. Unfortunately she is now telling that she wants to leave me because she is not sure if she still feels anything for me, she also says that she knows how loving i am and i would not be fair to me if she stays and not give back all the love and that she is very sorry for treating me wrong. Am presently going through some difficult times and she says for the good things and for the love i have always shown her that she will stay and when everything is ok she will leave me and its something she must do. I feel bad about this and she knows, she says that she would not want me to have anyother relationship until she is far and long gone. I love this girl and do want us to continue but she seems to be confused and uncertain about us. Do i get another girlfriend before she breaks my heart or do i let her go first? What do i do ?


just let he go and move on....u don't have to ge a new gf so soon.....

Posted: at 28-07-2009 04:22 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- McBona at 29-07-2009 05:44 AM (14 years ago)
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Man!  Just go get Urself some gum to help gum-up Ur heart when it breaks, bc from Ur narration!  It's gon happen.   I really sorry though.  Take heart.
Posted: at 29-07-2009 05:44 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- esonu at 29-07-2009 07:50 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: melvinsweet22 on 27-07-2009 04:43 PM
I have a girlfriend i have been with for more than a year now and i love her so much. Unfortunately she is now telling that she wants to leave me because she is not sure if she still feels anything for me, she also says that she knows how loving i am and i would not be fair to me if she stays and not give back all the love and that she is very sorry for treating me wrong. Am presently going through some difficult times and she says for the good things and for the love i have always shown her that she will stay and when everything is ok she will leave me and its something she must do. I feel bad about this and she knows, she says that she would not want me to have anyother relationship until she is far and long gone. I love this girl and do want us to continue but she seems to be confused and uncertain about us. Do i get another girlfriend before she breaks my heart or do i let her go first? What do i do ?
if u are sure of this ur story, i think the gurl is confused.. u need to sit her down talk to her and let her know that without her by ur side, life might be incomplete!!!if she doesnt listen to u, 4get her and keep on moving. there are many fishes in the river

Posted: at 29-07-2009 07:50 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- brightossy at 29-07-2009 09:00 AM (14 years ago)
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More of dat esonu. 4 1ce u r very serious.
Posted: at 29-07-2009 09:00 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- myragonza at 29-07-2009 09:06 AM (14 years ago)
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don't rush into a new relationship

Posted: at 29-07-2009 09:06 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- SAmyrocko at 29-07-2009 09:55 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: melvinsweet22 on 27-07-2009 04:43 PM
I have a girlfriend i have been with for more than a year now and i love her so much. Unfortunately she is now telling that she wants to leave me because she is not sure if she still feels anything for me, she also says that she knows how loving i am and i would not be fair to me if she stays and not give back all the love and that she is very sorry for treating me wrong. Am presently going through some difficult times and she says for the good things and for the love i have always shown her that she will stay and when everything is ok she will leave me and its something she must do. I feel bad about this and she knows, she says that she would not want me to have anyother relationship until she is far and long gone. I love this girl and do want us to continue but she seems to be confused and uncertain about us. Do i get another girlfriend before she breaks my heart or do i let her go first? What do i do ?


Did she glue ur a$$ ln a bench ?

Posted: at 29-07-2009 09:55 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- myragonza at 29-07-2009 10:16 AM (14 years ago)
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superglue

Posted: at 29-07-2009 10:16 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- esonu at 29-07-2009 10:19 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: brightossy on 29-07-2009 09:00 AM
More of dat esonu. 4 1ce u r very serious.
are u trying to tell me dat i've not been a serious guy?

Posted: at 29-07-2009 10:19 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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