![-]( "Vixenx") Vixenx at 16-07-2008 11:09 PM (16 years ago)  (f) For me waiting still remains the best.
True confession: told my ex. then that if i sleep with you, marrying you will be quite hard. She is married to some one else now.... as onyin said its a personal decision and am telling you could be the best u'll ever make.
so if u waited and married your wife, and then she goes out and gets it elsewhere because u didn't please her right(possibly from not having any experience).......would u feel bad knowing u waited and for all that to happen?.. Question: did u get to know all u know about sex in one day?..no, but marrying as a virgin u don't know anything yet to plz ur wife.(what if she ain't a virgin?..or are u specifically searching for one?) All what u claim to know today is all out of practice and if you really married your WIFE,she'll grow with you and experimenting together will end up being ...EXPLOSIVE !!! | Posted: at 16-07-2008 11:09 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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For me waiting still remains the best.
True confession: told my ex. then that if i sleep with you, marrying you will be quite hard. She is married to some one else now.... as onyin said its a personal decision and am telling you could be the best u'll ever make.
so if u waited and married your wife, and then she goes out and gets it elsewhere because u didn't please her right(possibly from not having any experience).......would u feel bad knowing u waited and for all that to happen?.. Question: did u get to know all u know about sex in one day?..no, but marrying as a virgin u don't know anything yet to plz ur wife.(what if she ain't a virgin?..or are u specifically searching for one?) All what u claim to know today is all out of practice and if you really married your WIFE,she'll grow with you and experimenting together will end up being ...EXPLOSIVE !!! ..yeah, true..which brings me back to my prior question......if u married her as a virgin too, then thats understandable...but if she wasn't one when u met her...trust she won't be satisfied with your lack of experience. Although she'll still be married to u..chances are that she will be getting her satisfaction elsewhere cuz thats what she's used to...not saying she married u cuz of sex though, just happen that u can't satisfy her.. exactly my point.
I'M THA MAN IN MY CITY YO!!! | Posted: at 16-07-2008 11:14 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Individuals have reasons why dey will either wait or do otherwise.....
for some ppl...it's cultural belief dat u need to know if she/he is fertile b4
marriage.....for so many others....it could be for d sake of commitment
which of the cultures in naija?  For all i know, it used to be a thing of pride for ladies not to have been de-flowered b4 hooking up. Ever heard of "Virginity Test"...in d old Igbo Tradition?....where d man had ...have sex with d proposed wife b4 dey actually marry. | Posted: at 16-07-2008 11:38 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "diran1475") diran1475 at 17-07-2008 09:31 AM (16 years ago) (m) For me waiting still remains the best.
True confession: told my ex. then that if i sleep with you, marrying you will be quite hard. She is married to some one else now.... as onyin said its a personal decision and am telling you could be the best u'll ever make.
so if u waited and married your wife, and then she goes out and gets it elsewhere because u didn't please her right(possibly from not having any experience).......would u feel bad knowing u waited and for all that to happen?.. Question: did u get to know all u know about sex in one day?..no, but marrying as a virgin u don't know anything yet to plz ur wife.(what if she ain't a virgin?..or are u specifically searching for one?) All what u claim to know today is all out of practice and if you really married your WIFE,she'll grow with you and experimenting together will end up being ...EXPLOSIVE !!! ..yeah, true..which brings me back to my prior question......if u married her as a virgin too, then thats understandable...but if she wasn't one when u met her...trust she won't be satisfied with your lack of experience. Although she'll still be married to u..chances are that she will be getting her satisfaction elsewhere cuz thats what she's used to...not saying she married u cuz of sex though, just happen that u can't satisfy her.. Hmmmm... if the 2 were virgins 4 getting hooked.. they'll explore, if not you feel it aint possible for them to wait... wish u'll understand what it really means to get your own wife/husband- true loving is patience at its highest, still maintain that anybody can be taught to perfection or near enough. Even if either of them is experienced, the experienced one if truly in love(not all this rubbish some call it) will nurture the other and am telling you it can even be a force that'll bring them closer together. Remember u said u cant cook, what of if he could and he loves his meals(don't all men), does he cos of this leave u to go get his meals somewhere else + all the additions  ..... imagine this.. the 2 of u cooking together in the kitchen...both naked(  )...him the teacher and you the ever willing student.....kai...FIRE......  | Posted: at 17-07-2008 09:31 AM (16 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "onyin") onyin at 17-07-2008 05:34 PM (16 years ago) (f) Individuals have reasons why dey will either wait or do otherwise.....
for some ppl...it's cultural belief dat u need to know if she/he is fertile b4
marriage.....for so many others....it could be for d sake of commitment
which of the cultures in naija? For all i know, it used to be a thing of pride for ladies not to have been de-flowered b4 hooking up. Ever heard of "Virginity Test"...in d old Igbo Tradition?....where d man had ...have sex with d proposed wife b4 dey actually marry. which part of igbo's do tht?.neva hrd of such | Posted: at 17-07-2008 05:34 PM (16 years ago) | Hero | |
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If you are a virgin, i can respect that but if you are not, then there's definitely some meat out there that you have been eating.
I'M THA MAN IN MY CITY YO!!! | Posted: at 17-07-2008 05:44 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "onyin") onyin at 17-07-2008 06:00 PM (16 years ago) (f) yea. | Posted: at 17-07-2008 06:00 PM (16 years ago) | Hero | |
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If you are a virgin, i can respect that but if you are not, then there's definitely some meat out there that you have been eating.
right | Posted: at 17-07-2008 06:10 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "diran1475") diran1475 at 17-07-2008 06:31 PM (16 years ago) (m) "just Passing" : still vincenice | Posted: at 17-07-2008 06:31 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "Vixenx") Vixenx at 17-07-2008 06:34 PM (16 years ago) (f) If you are a virgin, i can respect that but if you are not, then there's definitely some meat out there that you have been eating.
Bush meat... | Posted: at 17-07-2008 06:34 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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If you are a virgin, i can respect that but if you are not, then there's definitely some meat out there that you have been eating.
Bush meat... Roadside Bush meat... or inhouse bush meat.
I'M THA MAN IN MY CITY YO!!! | Posted: at 17-07-2008 06:38 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "Vixenx") Vixenx at 17-07-2008 06:50 PM (16 years ago) (f) white house... | Posted: at 17-07-2008 06:50 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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white house... lol... you mean the one that is joint to the body or the one that could be easily dumped from the body? yuck
I'M THA MAN IN MY CITY YO!!! | Posted: at 17-07-2008 06:56 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "LayifaKpe") LayifaKpe at 18-07-2008 10:33 AM (16 years ago) (m) I most be frank, only 1% will keep to the to promise. the rest 99% would not like to wait. cos dat season has passed when our parent do wait on promises...If mr A or miss B says I can, i tell he/she will be cheating and pretend to be faithful...
Some People Dream Of Success…While Others People Wake Up And Work Hard At It. | Posted: at 18-07-2008 10:33 AM (16 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "lucychizzy") lucychizzy at 18-07-2008 10:55 AM (16 years ago) (f) really? | Posted: at 18-07-2008 10:55 AM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Individuals have reasons why dey will either wait or do otherwise.....
for some ppl...it's cultural belief dat u need to know if she/he is fertile b4
marriage.....for so many others....it could be for d sake of commitment
which of the cultures in naija? For all i know, it used to be a thing of pride for ladies not to have been de-flowered b4 hooking up. Ever heard of "Virginity Test"...in d old Igbo Tradition?....where d man had ...have sex with d proposed wife b4 dey actually marry. which part of igbo's do tht?.neva hrd of such never heard of tat myself.... or is it dont in a particular family way... | Posted: at 18-07-2008 12:23 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "diran1475") diran1475 at 18-07-2008 12:55 PM (16 years ago) (m) abi, help me ask am o | Posted: at 18-07-2008 12:55 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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I most be frank, only 1% will keep to the to promise. the rest 99% would not like to wait. cos dat season has passed when our parent do wait on promises...If mr A or miss B says I can, i tell he/she will be cheating and pretend to be faithful...
Wot facts are u basing dat on? | Posted: at 18-07-2008 01:41 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "dahuszla") dahuszla at 19-07-2008 03:35 PM (16 years ago) (m) my present relationship will testify to that but am catching ma fun somewhere else.... | Posted: at 19-07-2008 03:35 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie | |
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