Your husband abandons home?

MRS. CHIKA
If my husband abandons home, I will humbly call him to know the reasons. Who knows? His job might demand more time than before. But if he couldn’t explain himself on why he has not been coming home, it is therefore intrusive that he has given out his soul to a daughter of discord who, in return occupies his time and made him forget his family.

His refusal to admit fault would make me bring his parents into the matter. I will make sure the pastor of his church is kept aBosom  of the situation as well, so we could fight this spiritual battle and setting him free from bondage. The pastor later could nurture him once again in the word of God and remind him of the dangers in keeping strange women.

I feel that just taking the issue personal will not be of any help but, rather cost me my marriage, family, joy, happiness and rest of mind. Therefore prayer is the best approach. I believe God alone can bring every storm to a stand-still.

MOSUNMOLA OMOKUNGA
At first, I will improve on my appearance, watch my weight, wear attractive clothes, look good and presentable. I will start doing what he likes to win him back to me. If that doesn’t work out I will go to God in prayers because I believe He who created the heart has control over it. The heart of kings is in God’s hands and He directs it where ever He pleases.

MRS TOPE MOMOH
I will call him gently and speak to him in a soft manner on his recent change in attitude. I will remind him of the oaths he made on our wedding day, which is to be faithful to me till end of life. Secondly, I will let him know that it could lead to the end of our marriage if he continues or chooses to having an extra-marital affair. Finally, if he shows itching ears to my words, I will leave him to his conscience and God’s judgment.

YOMI ADEGBENRO
I will commit everything into God’s hands. I know He will never abandon me to suffer shame nor reproach.

MRS. SALAMI
If I noticed such, there are two things I would do:
First, I will search myself to see if I was the cause of his sudden change in attitude. If the fault happens to be from me, I’ll change for the better.
Secondly, I believe there’s nothing prayer cannot do. I will call on the father of fathers who is in heaven (JESUS) who alone never disappoints to take charge.

OLUWAKEMI AMOSU
I’ll demand for reason from him because it’s strange. If he tries to be adamant I will report him to his parents, but if things refuse to change I will tell my parents. If he is still heady, I will then take the matter to his pastor or the church council. I believe that Holy Spirit will visit him and bring him back home.

MRS. OKUOFO
Only God can take charge because our human wisdom is but foolishness in God’s sight.

AYOTUNDE ADEGOKE
The first thing I’ll do is think, I will try remember the last moment we had together before the occurrence. If I am able to discover I caused the whole thing I will try to get across to him to know his own reasons for absconding from home. If peradventure he opens up, we’ll settle and re-unite again. But if he refuses to show remorse, I will inform his closest friend to come to my rescue. If no changes, I will report to his parent/ family members. Should all efforts fall on deaf ears, I will invite God to save my home from crumbling.

ROSELINE AMOSU
I will call him on the phone, sit him down and talk to him with all humility. Make some findings because third-party interference is not advisable, could cost me my marriage.

MRS. ENIEWA
It can’t happen without a cause. I will personally feel bad. But the solution to this problem, is not reporting him to his parents immediately neither handle it forcefully.
I will take a deep insight; see where the walls are broken before taking steps. I will check him at his place of work, call him and talk in a more persuasive manner. The situation might be beyond the physical realm, could be the doings of some evil ones around you just to disstabilize your marriage or family; they never have joy in good things, but just agents of destruction.

I wouldn’t hesitate to ask for forgiveness if the fault is from me; I will tell him to please come back home because the situation will not be a good one for our children to learn from and to even remember. Men rarely admit faults, even when they are the real problem. I would go all out to recall him back home and take back that which the devil had stolen. The general belief is that behind every successful man is a woman and vise-versa, even when that’s not the case. Nobody would be interested in hearing who really started the trouble in the home. Men believe no one can question their authorities but the most important thing to me is having a happy home.

MRS. ABDULFATAH
I believe with prayers, he will come back home. No amount of energy or humanly wisdom would make things right. The more you report him, the more risk you are taking.