What should i do..........??? (Page 4)

You have like 10 years to find his money for the university. So start thinking and working. Use your brain be creative. And be positive.
Could be a restaurant, could be fashion. Could be a dry cleaning outfit. Could be buying and selling. Could be gold. Could be fashion. Could be events management. There is really no excuse for an educated girl this days.

There is no excuse...........

If the professor really loves the child, he will pay for his tertiary education. And that is if you are kind to him. If I where you, I would deny him the satisfaction. However, don't let that child get spoilt.

Sha now that I have calmed down, make I try give you advice.

1. It is wrong for you to let your child go live with the man and his family. The professors wife can not love your child as much as you can.

2. Primary and Secondary school education is not that costly if you are hardworking. So there is nothing like the professor will provide a better life for him. Even then, you should try to balance that by being a stronger and more encouraging mother and father.

There is no excuse to give the child up. Do not give the child up. The professor can do with out a child. He has his wife and other kids. Now if you give up you child what do you have?

Keep that child. I just hope they are hard men by your-side. A woman shouldn't handle such issues alone, especially in this moron infested Nigeria.
Come to think of it, you called have made his life difficult by reporting to the school authorities and staining his name. You could have said he *****ed you for grades. Yet you didn't.

Work hard, enroll in the open university.
Get that degree and take care of your baby.

When he is older he can go and visit his father for periods. For now, do not let that child out of your sight. It is not good for him. And make sure you explain to him why it is better he stays with you till he is older and wiser.

The professor is older and most of his kids are married and out of home. He and his wife are just looking for a pet. he probably wants somebody to be around when he has aged. He is an opportunist and a selfish person.

Don't let that child out of your sight. And don't say something like a better life. Being raised by a professor doesn't guarantee becoming president.

Well said.
Dat prof must b useless. Am sure he denied d pregnancy in d 1st place one misfortune or d other now made him 2 remember he has a child smwhere after 8 gud yrs. God punish him…
What abt d damages he caused d girl? Dropin out of sch 8yrs back na small thing? Hw old is d lady now? Hw can he mend d broken heart nd all d emotional trumers she pass tru?
If l were d dat girl,,, he will never set his eyes on ma child till he dies . Trust me dat stupid profer is nt worthy 2 be a father talkless of hubby. Hissssssssssssss!