![-]( "Emmandazie") Emmandazie at 21-10-2010 12:22 PM (14 years ago)  (m) 8 years he didn't give any sign,even he knew that ou there exists a child whose father he is? Why he popped out only now? If I were her,I wouldn't allow him not even to see the child, needless to talk of more!  | Posted: at 21-10-2010 12:22 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "Inemx") Inemx at 21-10-2010 12:25 PM (14 years ago) (m) IF HE IS NOT READY TO MARRY HER, THEN HE SHUD FORGET THE CHILD. IT TAKE TWO TO TANGLE. THE NORMAL AFRICAN TRADITION DOES PROMOTE SURE EXCEPT WHERE THE WOMAN DOES NOT KNOW HER RIGHT. THE MOTHER OWNS THE CHILD IN THIS CASE UNTIL PENALTY AND BRIDEPRICE IS PAID. SHE SHUD KEEP THE CHILD UNTIL WHEN HE GROW UP TO DECIDE FOR HIMSELF WHOM HE WANTS FOR A PARENT.
Suppose he is willing to marry her (she has the right to analyse if he is marritable or not) and fulfill the girl's parent's condition for the upkeep of her pregnancy and child, then I can say lady do find a heart to forgive him. Afterall, the child will grow up to know what kind of father he/she has. | Posted: at 21-10-2010 12:25 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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8 years he didn't give any sign,even he knew that ou there exists a child whose father he is? Why he popped out only now? If I were her,I wouldn't allow him not even to see the child, needless to talk of more! I am sure if you were Jesus Christ, you would have been the first to throw a stone to the woman caught in adultry! Remember if you refuse outrightly whereas he left unintentionally and is truly repentant of his deeds, the blood of that child will always go after him and you may end up losing even the child to him. So answer ur own question [ color=red]why he popped out only now?[/color] No!You didn't get it too right!I'm not judging anybody, never ever! So take it easy with messing Jesus' name is this! But that man cannot be even called a father! 8 years to stay without to want to know absolutely anything about your child? What kind of man is that? I would definitely not want such a man in our life!My kid will be better without him!That's all!
Live and let live! | Posted: at 21-10-2010 12:28 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "dirtykid") dirtykid at 21-10-2010 12:29 PM (14 years ago) (m) My pals…I have a case that I can’t treat alone, so I have decided to bring it here.
She wrote:
Dear Madam, I was impregnated by a professor 8 years ago.
I dropped out from school after three (3) months of the pregnancy bcos i loss concentration; irrespective for the fact that i was the best in my department.
He has not supported in anywhere for the upkeep of the child ...but just 2days ago he came with his family for the child and compromise.
What should i do...i count on your advice.
Thank you.
Angela
To be honest with you, Every child needs a father and mother, No matter what, if the man has come back to his senses to amend his past mistake, give him a chance and still watch him very carefully to know exactly if he's really a change man. I wish you can tell us well about all, what happened in the past, maybe there's a way both of you had mis-understanding when you was pregnant and so on, it does happen always in relationship especially when both of you are not married and there's a baby on the way. Maybe you just pick up your own side of story and tell us so we can all condemn the man. atimes we human see things in different ways. I hope you get what i mean here... i believe there's something behind the scene of this story, No man with his senses will abandon the mother and child like that, not to talk of a man with great quality ( A PROFESSOR ).
DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !! | Posted: at 21-10-2010 12:29 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "xter") xter at 21-10-2010 12:35 PM (14 years ago) (m) dat prof is stupid but it wont hurt too bad to see wat he's up to.........but dont let him have the baby!
Here comes d Great King Xtervaganza  | Posted: at 21-10-2010 12:35 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "jeffrey4u") jeffrey4u at 21-10-2010 12:40 PM (14 years ago) (m) My pals…I have a case that I can’t treat alone, so I have decided to bring it here.
She wrote:
Dear Madam, I was impregnated by a professor 8 years ago.
I dropped out from school after three (3) months of the pregnancy bcos i loss concentration; irrespective for the fact that i was the best in my department.
He has not supported in anywhere for the upkeep of the child ...but just 2days ago he came with his family for the child and compromise.
What should i do...i count on your advice.
Thank you.
Angela
He needs some lashes to get back on track | Posted: at 21-10-2010 12:40 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "Emmandazie") Emmandazie at 21-10-2010 12:54 PM (14 years ago) (m) @Bittersweet, I am not messing Jesus's name. Only trying to use his name to potray his forgiving nature and this case to my humble opinion needs answering so many questions (why did he go away, where & what has he been doing all this while,what makes him come back, how serious is he this time etc) to determine if Angela should accept her prof back and give her child the missing biological fatherly love or not. Pls didn't mean to offend anyone. We are all trying to help out for if she was decided never to give away herself and/or baby, she wouldn't have brought it here. Lets help her see light from both angles. | Posted: at 21-10-2010 12:54 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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@Bittersweet, I am not messing Jesus's name. Only trying to use his name to potray his forgiving nature and this case to my humble opinion needs answering so many questions (why did he go away, where & what has he been doing all this while,what makes him come back, how serious is he this time etc) to determine if Angela should accept her prof back and give her child the missing biological fatherly love or not.
Pls didn't mean to offend anyone. We are all trying to help out for if she was decided never to give away herself and/or baby, she wouldn't have brought it here. Lets help her see light from both angles.
okkk I just told mine,and u told yours! No wahala!
Live and let live! | Posted: at 21-10-2010 12:59 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "Emmandazie") Emmandazie at 21-10-2010 01:13 PM (14 years ago) (m) @Bittersweet, I am not messing Jesus's name. Only trying to use his name to potray his forgiving nature and this case to my humble opinion needs answering so many questions (why did he go away, where & what has he been doing all this while,what makes him come back, how serious is he this time etc) to determine if Angela should accept her prof back and give her child the missing biological fatherly love or not.
Pls didn't mean to offend anyone. We are all trying to help out for if she was decided never to give away herself and/or baby, she wouldn't have brought it here. Lets help her see light from both angles.
okkk I just told mine,and u told yours! No wahala! Thank you very much and God bless everyone 4 this forum! | Posted: at 21-10-2010 01:13 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "Kennee") Kennee at 21-10-2010 01:18 PM (14 years ago) (m) My pals…I have a case that I can’t treat alone, so I have decided to bring it here.
She wrote:
Dear Madam, I was impregnated by a professor 8 years ago.
I dropped out from school after three (3) months of the pregnancy bcos i loss concentration; irrespective for the fact that i was the best in my department.
He has not supported in anywhere for the upkeep of the child ...but just 2days ago he came with his family for the child and compromise.
What should i do...i count on your advice.
Thank you.
Angela
He Came for d Child?? Damn!! What a F**kin Wicked Man She Should do all She Can to not Allow him take The Child He Should Support Financially if he Cares about the Child l'm Sure he can't Bear Children or Can't Bear more. Dat's Why he's here
WHEN YU DIE YU TAKE NOTHING WITH YU, SO PLS PUT A SMILE ON YUR NEIGHBOR'S FACE | Posted: at 21-10-2010 01:18 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "onyiis") onyiis at 21-10-2010 01:20 PM (14 years ago) (f) Was she really dating the man then or was it just a one night stand case that resulted in a child ?
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing". | Posted: at 21-10-2010 01:20 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "xter") xter at 21-10-2010 01:21 PM (14 years ago) (m) nollwood stuffs
Here comes d Great King Xtervaganza | Posted: at 21-10-2010 01:21 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "dirtykid") dirtykid at 21-10-2010 01:23 PM (14 years ago) (m) Very important question 4rm Onyii .... because if they're dating, there must be stories behind this flash news or abandoning . I hope the poster will make it clear to us.
DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !! | Posted: at 21-10-2010 01:23 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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@Bittersweet, I am not messing Jesus's name. Only trying to use his name to potray his forgiving nature and this case to my humble opinion needs answering so many questions (why did he go away, where & what has he been doing all this while,what makes him come back, how serious is he this time etc) to determine if Angela should accept her prof back and give her child the missing biological fatherly love or not.
Pls didn't mean to offend anyone. We are all trying to help out for if she was decided never to give away herself and/or baby, she wouldn't have brought it here. Lets help her see light from both angles.
okkk I just told mine,and u told yours! No wahala! Thank you very much and God bless everyone 4 this forum! Amen!
Live and let live! | Posted: at 21-10-2010 01:35 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "Kennee") Kennee at 21-10-2010 01:54 PM (14 years ago) (m) Was she really dating the man then or was it just a one night stand case that resulted in a child ?
What do yu Expect? In Nigeria, do yu think a Professor (who must Definitely be Over 50) will Date a University Girl? It was Definitely One of those "Sleep with Him to get Grades" Situations
WHEN YU DIE YU TAKE NOTHING WITH YU, SO PLS PUT A SMILE ON YUR NEIGHBOR'S FACE | Posted: at 21-10-2010 01:54 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "qunodinga") qunodinga at 21-10-2010 04:56 PM (14 years ago) (f) I can't thank you enough for all your positive responses - be bless | Posted: at 21-10-2010 04:56 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "diplomatik") diplomatik at 21-10-2010 05:24 PM (14 years ago) (f) 8 years he didn't give any sign,even he knew that ou there exists a child whose father he is? Why he popped out only now? If I were her,I wouldn't allow him not even to see the child, needless to talk of more! Bs i can't support u today  ppl have to learn to put their hate and anger away and focus on their children..that kid needs to know his father..at the end of the day the kid will decide if the father should be apart of his life or not
u've seen me right?  i look kool right? ???but don't send me mails asking for my add or phone no. and don't give it to me either , i'll ask u if i want it ..ok...kool  | Posted: at 21-10-2010 05:24 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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8 years he didn't give any sign,even he knew that ou there exists a child whose father he is? Why he popped out only now? If I were her,I wouldn't allow him not even to see the child, needless to talk of more! Bs i can't support u today ppl have to learn to put their hate and anger away and focus on their children..that kid needs to know his father..at the end of the day the kid will decide if the father should be apart of his life or not After 8 years of total silence? No way! He's not a good father! A good father couldn't stay so long time without being in touch with his child! For me he would be good as dead!
Live and let live! | Posted: at 21-10-2010 05:27 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "qunodinga") qunodinga at 21-10-2010 05:31 PM (14 years ago) (f) 8 years he didn't give any sign,even he knew that ou there exists a child whose father he is? Why he popped out only now? If I were her,I wouldn't allow him not even to see the child, needless to talk of more! Bs i can't support u today ppl have to learn to put their hate and anger away and focus on their children..that kid needs to know his father..at the end of the day the kid will decide if the father should be apart of his life or not After 8 years of total silence? No way! He's not a good father! A good father couldn't stay so long time without being in touch with his child! For me he would be good as dead! well said  | Posted: at 21-10-2010 05:31 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "diplomatik") diplomatik at 21-10-2010 05:31 PM (14 years ago) (f) we understand yeah ...but kids won't all they gonna say is they need their dad..no matter what u tell them if the father wants nothing to do with the child , the child will know and will retreat by himself the thing is some kids end up hating the 1 who was always their for them just for that singular act of refusing the father seeing the child
u've seen me right? i look kool right? ???but don't send me mails asking for my add or phone no. and don't give it to me either , i'll ask u if i want it ..ok...kool | Posted: at 21-10-2010 05:31 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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