what do i do?

good day pals.

my sister is in a confused state and don't know wat to do. there is this guy that she was dating, the guy was really caring, and even proposed to her. along the line, the guy stopped calling, and stopped being caring, the most painful aspect was that it was on my sisters birthday that he broke her heart. he relocated without telling her and didn't call after then. few weeks later, my sister saw him with another girl and he pretended not seeing her. since then he has not called her only for him to show up last week after 6months saying that he is very sorry for wat happened and that his pastor said that she was his real wife......... my sister asked him to leave and he said he was going to commit suicide if she doesn't accept him back. right now, even his mother is waiting for my sisters reply............. my sister is really confused
pals wat do you all think? should she accept the guy back? or turn down his request?

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Posted: at 11-04-2011 10:23 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

4give him and accept him back but b cautious

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Posted: at 11-04-2011 11:04 AM (14 years ago) | Hero

hmmm so d oda gal dumped him and now ur sista is second choice again?
nawa for som men sef...anyway sha if i was ur sista i go take am back,, see if he neva changed
(still caring, loving and sweet).... then accept his proposal.....dat is if she rily luv d guy of course.

Posted: at 11-04-2011 11:12 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero

YOUR SISTER SHOULDN'T BE IN HURRY TO ACCEPT HIM BACK. FROM YOUR STORY, I CAN TELL THAT HE ACTUALLY DUMP UR SIS 4 ANOTEHR GIRL, HE FIND OUT THAT UR SIS WAS THE BETTER WOMAN OR THE OTHER GIRL DUMP HIM AS WELL. WAS HE ACTUALLY IN LOVE WITH UR SIS B4 HE DISCONNECT? ''THE GUY IS A SUPECT'' UR SIS NEEDS TO USE HER WISDOM OTHERWISE THE WORST IS YET TO COME.

Posted: at 11-04-2011 11:16 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

he said the his pastor asked told him dat the girl was not his wife that it was my sister.........
he has promised her so many things but she is still afraid and also trying to avoid heart break for the second time

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Posted: at 11-04-2011 11:17 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

hmmm then he is lyin to her again,, bcos no b his pastor dey tell am...na an oda babe
dump him, make him realise ur sista na gud woman who luv him truly....

Posted: at 11-04-2011 11:21 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero

the pastor even asked him to come along with my sister for his blessings and counseling

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Posted: at 11-04-2011 11:25 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Yes she must pray dats 4 sure but d way I understood it d girl still have small reserved luv 4 d guy which may be build up if she accepts d guy back.

Abi hw u see am?

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Posted: at 11-04-2011 11:32 AM (14 years ago) | Hero

but its not just easy to forgive him like dat. let her have him suffer small so that he would realize wat he had done. or wat do u all think.

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Posted: at 11-04-2011 11:37 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

if she go let him suffer its possible she will b too late.
if she accept am just like dat its possible he go take her for granted.

Posted: at 11-04-2011 11:49 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero