I have been with my boyfriend six years, and we’ve lived together for four of them.
photoI have never pressured him about marriage, and we have talked about it happening, but I'm starting to give up hope.
While I feel content with our relationship, I'm becoming insecure about why he hasn't asked me yet. I know it's just a piece of paper, but I'd like to have the commitment before we have kids.
On another note, he is the first man I've been with that has a very low sex drive, we go for weeks without having sex. As a professional, I’m asking, is this a red flag?
Posted: at 5-03-2013 04:56 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
sophiebaby at 5-03-2013 04:59 PM (12 years ago) (f)
Any ring wey don dey woman hand More than Six Months, or 1yr cos of finance.. my dear na Key Holder Be dat
Anyways, I wish relationships had a preview button like iTunes, but they don’t. truth is.. My dear, since you've never pressured him about marriage buh u both have talked about it.. jes give him some time, ok...i know for sure..Love never Witholds! talking about sex..my dear, it isn’t about his penis, it’s about you. Only accept a man who is sensuous and patient. One who takes his time tasting you. This is a man who is not impulsive; he thinks and feels equally. He will make a lover for a lifetime. Intimacy is mental, physical, emotional and spiritual. If one of these pillars is missing, then so is the intimacy; it’s condemned. If he does not bring a smile to your face and to your heart every day and every time you see him, and he is not smiling back at you...move on.
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :*
Posted: at 5-03-2013 04:59 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
Any ring wey don dey woman hand More than Six Months, or 1yr cos of finance.. my dear na Key Holder Be dat
Anyways, I wish relationships had a preview button like iTunes, but they don’t. truth is.. My dear, since you've never pressured him about marriage buh u both have talked about it.. jes give him some time, ok...i know for sure..Love never Witholds! talking about sex..my dear, it isn’t about his p*****s, it’s about you. Only accept a man who is sensuous and patient. One who takes his time tasting you. This is a man who is not impulsive; he thinks and feels equally. He will make a lover for a lifetime. Intimacy is mental, physical, emotional and spiritual. If one of these pillars is missing, then so is the intimacy; it’s condemned. If he does not bring a smile to your face and to your heart every day and every time you see him, and he is not smiling back at you...move on.
Posted: at 5-03-2013 05:17 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
Ring is nothing it just a fashion ...ur heart is where love is..for six years he didn't ask u to marry him and u both haven't talk about it..is either two are not ready or he is not ready..I will say u tell him or make a u turn never to late tho..
LOVE COMES TO THOSE WHO BELIEVE IN IT...LET TALK ABOUT LOVE.
Posted: at 5-03-2013 07:13 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
Any ring wey don dey woman hand More than Six Months, or 1yr cos of finance.. my dear na Key Holder Be dat
Anyways, I wish relationships had a preview button like iTunes, but they don’t. truth is.. My dear, since you've never pressured him about marriage buh u both have talked about it.. jes give him some time, ok...i know for sure..Love never Witholds! talking about sex..my dear, it isn’t about his p*****s, it’s about you. Only accept a man who is sensuous and patient. One who takes his time tasting you. This is a man who is not impulsive; he thinks and feels equally. He will make a lover for a lifetime. Intimacy is mental, physical, emotional and spiritual. If one of these pillars is missing, then so is the intimacy; it’s condemned. If he does not bring a smile to your face and to your heart every day and every time you see him, and he is not smiling back at you...move on.
my babe has spoken and dats final !!!!.
Posted: at 5-03-2013 07:33 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
lovecommander at 5-03-2013 07:40 PM (12 years ago) (m)
MY DEAR 6 YEARS IS ALONG TIME FOR UNCOMMITED R/SHIP. SIT HIM DOWN AND HEAR FROM HIM ON WHAT HE THINKS ABOUT YOUR LIFE OF 6 YEARS OF FURNICATION AND NOTHING TO SHOW FOR IT. IF HIS ANSWER DOES NOT SOUND RIGHT, THEM MOVE AWAY FROM THE APARTMENT AND START THINKING WITH A CLEAR HEAD. HIS LOW SEX DRIVE AFTER LIVING TOGETHER FOR 6 YEARS IS PERFECTLY NORMAL. MY MARRIAGE IS ABOUT A YEAR OLD AND ME AND MY WIFE TRY TO MAKE LOVE ABOUT ONCE A WEEK. IMAGINE WHAT WILL HAPPEN AFTER 6 YEARS OF LIVING TOGETHER( ABOUT ONCE A MONTH. HAHAHA) A SIX YEAR OLD CHILD SHOULD BE IN ELEMENTARY 2. THINK!
Posted: at 5-03-2013 07:40 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
Confirm4real at 5-03-2013 08:10 PM (12 years ago) (m)
Because you have been giving him sex everytime he needs it thinking that it will make him give you ring, you are wrong. I had to wed my wife because I love her, want to be with her always to avoid any body taking her from me, and I also want to enjoy the sex I have waited for. The man have to determine too if both wants to avoid sex before marriage.
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