If a woman feels hurt through something said or done by a man, why does she try to make the man feel guilty for it?
If your feelings are the result of external circumstances, or what people say about you, how can you direct your life in a constructive way? A man might be totally clueless that's he's done anything wrong, yet he's given the third degree as though he's committed the unpardonable sin, is that fair?
No one should make another person responsible for how they feel, since everyone has the ability to control what they feel.
If a person refuses to accept responsibility for their feelings, and learn how to control what they feel, they're nothing more than a leaf in the wind, at the whim of circumstances - like a puppet on a string.
Are you willing to acknowledge that your feelings are your own and that they’re entirely your responsibility? Trying to make a man guilty for how you feel is just plain wrong...
Posted: at 7-09-2009 09:18 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
She makes him feel guilty because usually, its his fault, there are some guys that if don't change the way u behave a bit, they won't know they've done anything wrong. As for the making another person responsible for how they feel, well come closer let me tell you a secret everyone knows, its part of human nature, we all do it at some point or another and only because it makes us all feel better.
Posted: at 7-09-2009 12:05 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
SAmyrocko at 7-09-2009 02:26 PM (15 years ago) (m)
Yeah, those with small brains concludes and put the blames on the guy, even when lts obvious that lt was their clear fault. l'd not feel guilty for that broken relationship. Never!
Life is one big road with lots of signs, so when you are riding through th
Posted: at 7-09-2009 02:26 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
u r right. but i usually confront him about his mistakes. i love communication, therefore we must talk in our convienient environment. it might take sometimes for him to understand, but if u r not patient, u wont b able to understand how men thinks. all that matters is understanding. and always put yourself in his shoes, that way things will b much more easier for the two.
Posted: at 7-09-2009 03:24 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
If a woman feels hurt through something said or done by a man, why does she try to make the man feel guilty for it?
If your feelings are the result of external circumstances, or what people say about you, how can you direct your life in a constructive way? A man might be totally clueless that's he's done anything wrong, yet he's given the third degree as though he's committed the unpardonable sin, is that fair?
No one should make another person responsible for how they feel, since everyone has the ability to control what they feel.
If a person refuses to accept responsibility for their feelings, and learn how to control what they feel, they're nothing more than a leaf in the wind, at the whim of circumstances - like a puppet on a string.
Are you willing to acknowledge that your feelings are your own and that they’re entirely your responsibility? Trying to make a man guilty for how you feel is just plain wrong...
Taking advantage of any possible situation.
Posted: at 7-09-2009 04:18 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
She makes him feel guilty because usually, its his fault, there are some guys that if don't change the way u behave a bit, they won't know they've done anything wrong. As for the making another person responsible for how they feel, well come closer let me tell you a secret everyone knows, its part of human nature, we all do it at some point or another and only because it makes us all feel better.
hehe i do it a lot.
I rock my world.
Posted: at 8-09-2009 11:22 AM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
She makes him feel guilty because usually, its his fault, there are some guys that if don't change the way u behave a bit, they won't know they've done anything wrong. As for the making another person responsible for how they feel, well come closer let me tell you a secret everyone knows, its part of human nature, we all do it at some point or another and only because it makes us all feel better.
That statments call for a review:
She makes him feel guilty because usually, its his fault .
please do not distract and keep discussions along line of topic - make proper use of capit
Posted: at 8-09-2009 11:25 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac