May D's Baby Mama Bears it All, How He Assaulted me Physically For Years

Published 4 years ago by: Giwa bayo
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at 11:33 AM, 27/03/2015 (4 years ago)

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May D's baby mama Adebola Olowoporoku tells the story of her sad relationship with popular "ile Ijo crooner" and how she endured brutal beatings from the singer, real name  Akinmayokun Awodumila, for years. She said she broke up the relationship in December 2014 to escape the violence but when they met up again in January to talk about their son who was born in January 2013. Please read the story she wrote herself :

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My name is Debola I’m sure you know who I am, , I'm May D’s baby Mama… I haven’t come here to rant or make noise, but to say some important things that I feel people should know. I will try to make my story as short as possible.
I was with MayD for 8 years, which implies we were together from the get-go, before his career began and when nobody knew him obviously. For many years I stayed with him, obviously as his girlfriend, I supported him, financially, physically and emotionally. Back then when I was in Babcock we passed through loads of hurdles together being that he was struggling and incapable of providing for himself and I was obliged to supporting him financially. Even when it was extreme, like giving him a semester’s tuition to pay for studio sessions while I stupidly stayed at home, the things we do for love right?
I practically paused my life for him, for us at a point. The sad part about this whole thing is that I never got tired I did everything that was within my reach. He stopped to cater for his kid a while ago, which I took responsibilities for and started to do diligently. Now, like most relationships we had major problems which included the frequent cheating  and escapades with girls which I obviously endured as I was consumed by the “main chick” title. Not that I was even getting any good thing in return,  he never for one day acknowledge me, or made me feel like we were in a relationship together. I had no simple freedom to do whatsoever on my own, be it business, friendship etc.The thing I couldn't cope with was the fact that he beat me up at every slightest opportunity he had, he beats me up like a man, he beat me up so badly in front of our little boy all the time. He assaulted me regularly, I suffered domestic violence in silence, and this last time he beat me up so badly and I passed out.. I saw my life flash right in front of me. I witnessed been close to death, I prayed to survive each time he pounced on me, damaging several properties and breaking diff stuff on my head. This had to be my last experience, as I thought to myself, who will take care of my child for me if I die in his hands? Who will he call mother? Who will stand by him? So I left the relationship hurriedly without thinking of how much time, energy, resources that must have been wasted


PLS SAY NO TO DOMESTIC VIOLENCE

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adeolufowobi at 11:43 AM, 27/03/2015 (4 years ago)
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 Cool
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musatta at 12:02 PM, 27/03/2015 (4 years ago)
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Let's hear from him too b4 anybody can judge their case
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echeeche at 12:09 PM, 27/03/2015 (4 years ago)
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Mouth closed
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Wysetots at 01:59 PM, 27/03/2015 (4 years ago)
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Quote from: musatta on 12:02 PM, 27/03/2015
Let's hear from him too b4 anybody can judge their case


You expect him to say....."Yes I beat her up regularly" open ya eye.
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livinus5 at 03:31 PM, 27/03/2015 (4 years ago)
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I s that all?i thought something happened to you later or he pleaded coming back or just somethjing.
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deboalabi262 at 03:54 PM, 27/03/2015 (4 years ago)
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It takes two to tango.....Let me talk his own version..... Huh?

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osarobo62 at 04:00 PM, 27/03/2015 (4 years ago)
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TAKE HIM TO COURT....and he will be with domestic assault
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winace at 05:43 PM, 27/03/2015 (4 years ago)
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Dats too bad.
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discollins at 05:46 PM, 27/03/2015 (4 years ago)
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Quote from: musatta on 12:02 PM, 27/03/2015
Let's hear from him too b4 anybody can judge their case
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Oways at 06:24 PM, 27/03/2015 (4 years ago)
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Sowi sista
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beneno at 11:41 PM, 27/03/2015 (4 years ago)
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 Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes
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malamy at 02:24 AM, 28/03/2015 (4 years ago)
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sry oh
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JennyK95 at 05:54 AM, 28/03/2015 (4 years ago)
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Hmm... Why will he do that... No matter what a man should never hit a woman
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babafero at 06:07 AM, 28/03/2015 (4 years ago)
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AND YOU THINK THAT THESE FOOLS HERE IN NAIJAPALS CAN GIVE YOU GOOD ADVICE, HERE IS FULL OF IDIOTS. PLS LOOK FOR ADVICE ANOTHER PLACE IF NOT U ARE FINISHED.   JUST WATCH COMMENTS
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adeferrari at 06:13 AM, 28/03/2015 (4 years ago)
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Mr may d u phyuked up
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mensch at 08:06 AM, 28/03/2015 (4 years ago)
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it is never good to beat a woman, but if you can avoid that

you are a big winner.

just learn to live with them, be calm and cool.

instead of following them with annoyance, follow them wisdom. they are a difficult sex to live with.
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Nicksam at 09:13 AM, 28/03/2015 (4 years ago)
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OK NA
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Rothman at 02:30 PM, 28/03/2015 (4 years ago)
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This stupid guy called MayD started from nowhere, i know this guy very well. ask pple living at ikotun egbe side abt this big fool.Obviously this lil baby mama is telling the truth, pple make unah shine eyes, picture dey lie? all dis naija stupid not super sters dey run mad behind closed doors.
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Politbru at 02:43 PM, 28/03/2015 (4 years ago)
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Quote from: discollins on 05:46 PM, 27/03/2015

Nothing could be heard from him that justifies any physical assault on any body lest a woman.
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