HELP!!! My Wife is Sleeping With Her Boss to Pay Our Bills

My name is Felix and I have a problem that is only getting worse as time goes by. My wife Mary (Not real name) and I are both in our thirties and have been married for five years.

 We have two children and are very happy together. I graduated from one of the top schools in Nigeria and was just starting my engineering career when I was involved in a car accident that took away my ability to do my job. When my firm let me go, I decided to start my own business.
After a couple of years of being in business, I am still struggling and barely breaking even. Throughout all of this, my wife has maintained her job and she has even been able to bring in more money to help support my business, pay the rent on our home, and pay for schooling for our children. Without my wife’s job, our family would be homeless.
The problem is that my wife got her pay increase by having an affair with her married boss. His company is extremely successful and she has been maintaining a relationship with him to secure her job and her higher income. My wife’s friends do not know about the affair and she tells them the extra money comes from my business.
I don’t know what to do. Without that extra income from my wife’s job, our family would never be able to pay our bills. But the situation is putting a strain on our relationship and it is causing me personal anguish. I feel embarrassed about the situation and I feel like a failure as a husband. I love my wife and she loves me, but this situation is something that neither of us ever expected to happen.

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Posted: at 13-07-2015 10:23 AM (8 years ago) | Addicted Hero

Wested ganeration, next thing is for her to poisoning you. I love my wife and my wife love me, can you define love for us? Just listing to yourself

Posted: at 13-07-2015 10:38 AM (8 years ago) | Upcoming

u are jealous and at the same time you need the extra payment.you go thief  

Posted: at 13-07-2015 10:41 AM (8 years ago) | Addicted Hero

easy guys. its one who has never seen war that will laff at fallen soldiers. if u were in his shoes, I bet lafta will dry from ur face. dnt judge them just advice them wisely for a beta solution.  Sir  go to God in prayers.  plead for 4givness cos u were enjoying d money b4 nd pray 4 a way out of d situation.  It is well.

Posted: at 13-07-2015 11:02 AM (8 years ago) | Upcoming

How come U̶̲̥̅̊ no that she's having an affair...?

Posted: at 13-07-2015 11:11 AM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Are u sure u are not taking it too far? When women succeed it's always insinuated that she is sleeping with someone to get extra cash. Why not trust ur wife and ask her politely, discuss the issues with ur wife first b4 asking for 3rd party opinion. Ask God (jehovah Elishaddai) to give u success in ur biz so that u can take care of ur family

Posted: at 13-07-2015 12:03 PM (8 years ago) | Upcoming

life goes on

Posted: at 13-07-2015 12:54 PM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac

So how did u kn dat she is cheating on u? Pls don't break ur home wit mere suspicion.

Posted: at 13-07-2015 01:38 PM (8 years ago) | Addicted Hero

THERE IS NO REAL LOVE HERE

Posted: at 13-07-2015 02:03 PM (8 years ago) | Upcoming

Shut up Mr. Man.  what are you complaining of.  go and work if you dont want your wife to pay the bill.

Posted: at 13-07-2015 03:29 PM (8 years ago) | Newbie