if you know that your man,ur husband is not good enough for u, will you walk out of the marriage or what do you do for me,i advise you walk out of the marriage and find the 100% pure man and live a better life what do u guys think
Posted: at 22-03-2011 04:20 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
lol.100% pure man?.nah, thank you i dont want.cos that's like "from frying pan to fire".if your marriage is not going well,pray to God and seek advice from people who wish you well.just aslong as he's not laying his fingers on me.you fight with your siblings at home,so definitely its not going to be easy living with sumone who's like a stranger to you.
Posted: at 22-03-2011 04:38 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
princess4jifs at 22-03-2011 06:34 AM (13 years ago) (f)
@poster pending on what u classify as being good.but only cowards run from their problem.so u face it they can only teach you.life is teach me,i learn from u.
Posted: at 22-03-2011 06:34 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
adams933 at 22-03-2011 09:30 AM (13 years ago) (m)
Quote from: princess4jifs on 22-03-2011 06:34 AM
@poster pending on what u classify as being good.but only cowards run from their problem.so u face it they can only teach you.life is teach me,i learn from u.
The devil you know is better than the angel you don't kno. I'll advice who so ever involved in this to take heart and pray hard time will heal every thing.
Posted: at 22-03-2011 09:30 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
bittersweet at 22-03-2011 09:33 AM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: jiflexy on 22-03-2011 04:20 AM
if you know that your man,ur husband is not good enough for u, will you walk out of the marriage or what do you do for me,i advise you walk out of the marriage and find the 100% pure man and live a better life what do u guys think
If he is not good enough for me,how on earth he would become my husband? Neeh,that's not gonna happen!
Live and let live!
Posted: at 22-03-2011 09:33 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
I keep saying it....divorce's undesirable no matter how bad the man maybe EXCEPT in matters which involve life....it's only if my life/my child's life is threatened that I can take a jump out of the marriage.....and this may be due to polygamy (some men are chronic cheats just like some women)......
Posted: at 22-03-2011 10:24 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
if you know that your man,ur husband is not good enough for u, will you walk out of the marriage or what do you do for me,i advise you walk out of the marriage and find the 100% pure man and live a better life what do u guys think
If he is not good enough for me,how on earth he would become my husband? Neeh,that's not gonna happen!
People do change dearie.....money/wealth, position, another woman etc make men change from who u used to know to a total stranger
Posted: at 22-03-2011 10:27 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
onyimau20 at 22-03-2011 10:47 AM (13 years ago) (f)
No one is perfect, those perfect people do not exist in this our planet earth. There are ups and downs in every relationships/marriages. So we call upon God when the goings are tough not walking away...
Posted: at 22-03-2011 10:47 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
There's nothing like a perfect man or woman on the surface of this earth. If there's any at all, then they should be in heaven by now like Enoch who walked with God with a perfect heart. When two people, from different background, culture, beliefs etc comes together to live as husband and wife they are bound to disagree on certain issues. It doesn't mean both should call it up and look for an 100% man or woman. I cannot leave my man because he is not 'good enough'. Who actually is good enough
Posted: at 22-03-2011 10:51 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
adams933 at 22-03-2011 11:04 AM (13 years ago) (m)
Quote from: Sheree on 22-03-2011 10:51 AM
There's nothing like a perfect man or woman on the surface of this earth. If there's any at all, then they should be in heaven by now like Enoch who walked with God with a perfect heart. When two people, from different background, culture, beliefs etc comes together to live as husband and wife they are bound to disagree on certain issues. It doesn't mean both should call it up and look for an 100% man or woman. I cannot leave my man because he is not 'good enough'. Who actually is good enough
I wonder.
Posted: at 22-03-2011 11:04 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
bittersweet at 22-03-2011 11:20 AM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: pholake on 22-03-2011 10:27 AM
Quote from: bittersweet on 22-03-2011 09:33 AM
Quote from: jiflexy on 22-03-2011 04:20 AM
if you know that your man,ur husband is not good enough for u, will you walk out of the marriage or what do you do for me,i advise you walk out of the marriage and find the 100% pure man and live a better life what do u guys think
If he is not good enough for me,how on earth he would become my husband? Neeh,that's not gonna happen!
People do change dearie.....money/wealth, position, another woman etc make men change from who u used to know to a total stranger
In that case,I must figure out what caused that change, trying to see if there are chances to fix the things,and if nothing works,we'll quit!
Live and let live!
Posted: at 22-03-2011 11:20 AM (13 years ago) | Hero