How is this game"Keeping Relationship" played? (Page 8)

With all the articles u've read on NP, is dat a good response to one's sweetest hrt ?? 

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Posted: at 30-04-2012 02:23 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

no mind d ashiiii guy. he's not allowed in my area sef.




hehehe.....50 u lost hia again

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Posted: at 1-05-2012 09:06 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

R/ship is not always about sex sex sex.... Poster, you don't have to take charge in anything in your r/s. Simply let the man lead and u follow. Pay attention to what they wants from u. Some just want to use u to get somethin, some will play, some are fake, some are real. But if u r the rich type, plz play safe. You have take care of everything for your man. Let him lead. Do not contribute he will tell u to contribute. Just focused more on yourself and hobbies. Never tell them the kind of man u want. Never act as if u don't his help even tho he is not makin too much. What type of men r u attracted to? Educated, uneducated, tall, short, Lighter/dark skin, Rich, proud look, playboy, humble kind, shy, aggressive, married men, divorcee, Younger/older. Thick, fat, medium or slim, type of religion, sweet-mouth, working class etc. If u know the type then u'll know if u r goin for the wrong guy/not. There u will catch the one that are not good for u.

How do u jump words from his mouth? When u argued with him, do u let him finish b4 u start? How did u treats him in public, harsh, leading, taking charge of the conversation, claiming to b better than him? Do u dress to impress him instead of yourself? Do u always pay for everything? How does he treats u with his female acquaintances? Did u treat him as if u r richer than him in front of your girls/family?

R/ship takes lot of works and energy to keep your lane smooth. Or to keep life flowing fluently. So ans ma questions above then I will gist u more.

 Give sex to your man real good. But that is not enough. U got to do your house chores even if u have house girls. You should cook for him most of the time. Let him have his space (hanging out with his friends, let him enjoy his newspaper without any disturbances, do not change the channel he's watching, if u want to watch the tv with him, do so but don't say a word unless he engage u in. And don't touch the remote control  )

Don't make him feel like it is always his right to make every move. Appreciation, peck kisses, compliment, surprises, etc) Don't tell him what to do (throw the trash away, buy something from d store on his way to your house. U gotta ask him as if u need his help, but don't ask him as if he is your houseboy ) Whenever he wants to do something productive never say "baby I got it" Simply give him compliment after doing certain things. Something like: "babe thanks for d bread, I was able to eat healthy breakfast this morning" He'll feel like "wow, God has used me to keep her healthy" Always compliment him in his outfit....(not the outfit o...  ) And watch him wear d same shirt 3days in a roll (u must say something ooo....sweet something)

In your room, watch the color u use as well. Too much girlie color turned them off. Do not hang your family pics on the wall. U can hang them in the palour(living room) he feels like mama n papa is watching him on top of u. I don't how he's gon' feel if y'all doin it in the palour. That's his biz. 

Light vanilla and almond candles. Make sure your car is always clean esp inside. Don't let him drive your car. If u want to take him out for dinner give him enough money from the house. Never u go anywhere with empty pocket so if y'all in d store and he doesn't hve enough u can pay some. (now watch this part, here is where u can knw if he is stingy or not  ) Never u asked him for money, ask to borrow u and pay bk.

Do not always flirt with him o....but b friendly o.... and u must b a funny type. Never engage marriage topics. Encourage him when he is confused. Never pity a man: when he is broke, or advise him. Give him some part of d money if u hve if not plz u can't solve it with sex, food, or anything. If a man falls down and hurt himself, plz do not feel bad, just show him affections: tell him he look sexy d way he fell. When he is sick, don't try to eat the whole world, simply make him feel stronger in his illness.  . Is gettin longer my dearest sis.  Next time I will tell you wat to expect from the Foolish, User, Stingy, Freak, Friendly, Player, Pretender, Sex Addict, Thief, whether he sees u as: a Freak, Friend, or Forever, Spoiled, a home breaker, talkative, easily anger, and of course, Lazy ASSSS......FIRST OF ALL, LOVE U, FORGIVE U, ENJOY YOU, KNOW YOU, TAKE GOOD CARE OF U!!! AND EAT GOOD. 

Posted: at 3-05-2012 02:09 AM (13 years ago) | Hero