Confused

Date: 25-06-2012 2:46 pm (11 years ago) | Author: Okechukwu Ugwu
- at 25-06-2012 02:46 PM (11 years ago)
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I am actually in a fix, confused as if going back is not possible. I have been in a relationship with a lady for over two years now. It happened that I met this lady when I traveled home during christmas period and we actually fell in love with each other though there was nothing intimate then. We started calling and discussing on the phone and exchanging romantic text messages. To say the least, we fell in love with each that no day will pass without placing a call to her or she flashing me to call her. At times she will send text messages assuring me of her love for me. Meanwhile, we have not had opportunity of being together physically fro a reasonable time as she would not allow that to be as she claimed to be religious.

Based on this relationship and my desire to take her as my wife, I invited her to visit me as we stay at different states. She agreed but on the ground that I wont disturb her for sex. But from my understanding she is not a virgin. I become more confused. She came and stood her ground. She actually allowed my hand into her but no actual sex. The surprising thing I observed the was that she had an awful odour, very offensive indeed. Could this be the reason why she is avoiding me or what. What could be the reason for this? I am in a fix bc I love her but I cannot withstand the odour.

Friends, where do I go from here? Sincere advice please.

Posted: at 25-06-2012 02:46 PM (11 years ago) | Newbie
- HOPEA23 at 25-06-2012 03:02 PM (11 years ago)
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I guess is because of the odour that why she wouldn't want you to sleep with her.....she s trying to avoid a heartbeat ,but it is what is it..if u can help her out ..do something...maybe is an infection ..so I will advice u to tell her to go for a check..gyn ..maybe she got a toilet infection or something ...she needs to do that as soon as possible before it gets worse..

Posted: at 25-06-2012 03:02 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- HOPEA23 at 25-06-2012 03:06 PM (11 years ago)
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I meant a heartbreak...her exs saw that in her..that why they left her and wouldn't want you to do the same...so she is trying to avoid sex ..help her out...she needs a medical attention

Posted: at 25-06-2012 03:06 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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