Help! How Can I Stop Having Sex With A Man Who Doesn’t Respect Me?

Published On: June 20, 2013, 8:41 am
Author: opemipo adeniyi
-- (m) at 20-06-2013 08:41AM

(188 | Upcoming)

I am a 28-year-old woman. For six months I have been involved in a s*xual relationship with a man who does not value me. He is in the same social circles, so I see him frequently, and we only ever go home together when we’re out and have been drinking until the early hours with the wider group. Before I slept with him, he was much more interested, attentive. He’d be in touch. Now we are never in touch until I see him out and then find myself in bed with him later that night.
I have told him repeatedly I don’t want to do it any more. I fancy him and want there to be an opportunity for something to develop. But he has said he does not feel the same way. I want to move on from this, but why do I keep putting myself back in this situation with him and expecting a different result? To make matters worse, he’s not particularly nice to me and takes great joy in telling people that he has slept with me, which really offends me. What can I do to put an end to this? I will still see him in a social setting and don’t want to excise myself from my other friends.

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-- merion (f) at 20-06-2013 08:59AM
(2718 | Gistmaniac)

stop it you
-- winace (f) at 20-06-2013 10:29AM
(29827 | Addicted Hero)

Jt respect urself and leave him. U don't deserve to be treated like a trash. U can't be suffering cus u don't want to break from ur social circle. Take a walk sis.
-- kemistry202 (f) at 20-06-2013 10:47AM
(2 | Newbie)

Hmmm. U beta find your square root and leave dat guy, I knw its not easy but tink abt ur sef and find a way to deal wit d pain my dear.
-- armanimukesh (m) at 20-06-2013 11:28AM
(60 | Newbie)

Create a new social circle. You are in charge of your life. Live your life & be happy;
-- HOPEA23 (f) at 20-06-2013 02:32PM
(22320 | Addicted Hero)

Na by force... Excepts he is using juju or you that you cannot think and make a U turn ... Forget about him... He does not deserves u... If he does not respect u now .. He will never respect... What do u expect from a boy who was not raised by a queen...

-- osarobo62 (m) at 20-06-2013 02:49PM
(11700 | Hero)

until you show me the chains he is using on you, i will reserve my comment.
-- chicco77 (f) at 20-06-2013 03:35PM
(21893 | Addicted Hero)

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-- jossy4reall (m) at 20-06-2013 06:55PM
(19788 | Hero)

I will like to watch dis movie cuz I believe dis is a movie script

-- Shegzan (m) at 25-06-2013 06:49AM
(6623 | Gistmaniac)


-- Toks-E (m) at 25-06-2013 07:35AM
(37498 | Addicted Hero)

You have an option of leaving

-- onyeozo (m) at 17-07-2013 06:40AM
(1058 | Gistmaniac)

continue ma dear,
-- chicco77 (f) at 18-07-2013 03:13PM
(21893 | Addicted Hero)

 Tongue Tongue


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